A man returned from a two-week business trip craving a peaceful swim in his freshly installed backyard pool, only to discover absolute carnage: smashed gate locks, overturned furniture, and a sea of red cups bobbing like defeated ducks. Twenty local teens had thrown an all-day rager in his absence, every entitled smirk captured in crystal-clear security footage.
He stormed to the police station demanding justice, but officers kept begging him to drop it because, well, the mayor’s niece and half the prominent families’ kids were starring in the video. Now his girlfriend, his own mother, and most of the 2,000-person town brand him the heartless grump trying to destroy teenagers’ futures over one wild pool party.
Furious homeowner pushes reluctant cops into charging influential teens for wrecking his pool until he discovers connections.
At its core, this is classic trespass, criminal damage, and (depending on state law) possibly burglary, since they broke the locks to gain entry. The homeowner isn’t asking for prison time. He simply wants accountability and repairs.
Yet the police twice tried to wave it off, which raises eyebrows in a tiny town where “everybody knows everybody.” Small-town policing often leans toward informal resolution when prominent families are involved, even if that quietly erodes the rule of law.
A 2024 article in the New York University Law Review found that in small towns, 27% of 329 towns with 10-50% Black or Hispanic populations showed disproportionate stops for those groups (at least 1.5 times their population share), suggesting systemic favoritism toward influential, often majority residents. That statistic suddenly makes the foot-dragging feel less mysterious.
According to rural policing researchers Ralph A. Weisheit, David N. Falcone, and L. Edward Wells in a 1994 National Institute of Justice report: “In neither cities nor rural areas were the police likely to make an arrest following a domestic violence complaint, though they were somewhat more likely to in urban areas.”
Their observation maps perfectly onto this case. The moment OP learned half the partygoers were related to the mayor and local business owners, the police reluctance clicked into place.
The mayor’s niece cannonballing into your pool while the chief’s kid mans the Bluetooth speaker, and every cop in town grew up sitting next to those parents at Friday-night football games. Pressing charges suddenly feels less like justice and more like declaring war on half the bleachers.
Meanwhile, the homeowner is stuck choosing between a repaired fence and becoming the guy who “ruined prom” for the next twenty years. In a place where your high-school chemistry teacher is also the town clerk, “law and order” sometimes takes a backseat to “let’s not make Thanksgiving awkward.”
No wonder he eventually picked cash for damages over courtroom drama, peace has a price, and in small towns, it’s usually paid in silence.
From a neutral standpoint, restorative solutions often work best with juveniles: full restitution for damages, written apologies, and community service teach consequences without permanent records.
Dropping formal charges in exchange for guaranteed repairs as OP ultimately chose threads the needle between justice and pragmatism, especially when retaliation from “good ol’ boy” traffic stops is a real risk in towns this size.
Here’s how people reacted to the post:
Some people say NTA because the teens committed serious crimes and must face consequences.
Some people say NTA and warn that without consequences the parents would have sued if anyone got hurt.
Some people say NTA but caution that in a small town pressing charges can lead to retaliation or social backlash.
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In the end, our pool guy chose peace over prosecution once he realized pressing charges might turn him into the town pariah (and possibly the proud owner of 47 new speeding tickets). He’s getting his yard fixed, the kids learn a scary lesson without felonies on their record, and nobody has to find out if small-town cops can invent that many taillight violations. Win-win-ish?
So, readers, was he right to push the police at all, or should he have let it slide from the jump? Would you trade justice for quiet neighbors and bruise-free insurance rates? Drop your verdict below!
