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Employer Didn’t Believe Worker Was Sick, So Doctor Wrote A Note To Teach Her Boss A Lesson

by Annie Nguyen
October 26, 2025
in Social Issues

Some workplace rules make so little sense, you can’t help but follow them to the letter, just to prove the point. An emergency physician recently shared a story that perfectly captures how out of touch some employers can be when it comes to sick leave.

When a visibly ill woman came into the ER asking for a doctor’s note, the physician expected a serious issue. Instead, the woman just needed proof for her job that she was too sick to work. After waiting five and a half hours for a note, the doctor decided to give her exactly what her employer wanted, and a little more.

An ER doctor, annoyed by an employer’s demand for a doctor’s note, grants a sick woman two weeks of paid leave after her five-hour wait for a cold

Employer Didn’t Believe Worker Was Sick, So Doctor Wrote A Note To Teach Her Boss A Lesson
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'Employers - careful what you ask for!?'

I'm an emergency physician. I work in emergency departments in hospitals.

An interesting specialty in medicine, with different patients every day (except for the frequent fliers, but that's another story).

Now, especially in the winter time, ED's are full of people, with usually long wait times - and we take people in order of severity, not first-come/first served.

So, I'm at work, and get a new patient - the chart says 'needs a work note'.

I go into the cubicle and see a patient who is obviously ill.

After 40 years of experience, I can size patients up pretty well from across the room: This woman was ill.

Vitals were not good, fever of 102F, the works.

The monitor shows her heart is OK, pulse is a little high, BP is a little low, high fever...

Talking to her she tells me she's got a cold.

Now, I tend to appreciate it when patients just tell me the truth.

She didn't claim to have COVID, pneumonia, anthrax (don't ask), or anything but...a cold.

Which, being a virus, there's not a hell of a lot I can do for her. So I ask why she came in.

Turns out she's been ill for two days, her fever is actually down with her taking Tylenol and drinking fluids (no kidding!),

and her employer wants a doctor's note for more paid time off.

This woman waited in the emergency department waiting room for (checks the record) five and a half hours, to get a goddamned note for work?

Not her fault, though... It's her employers.

So, I ask her how much time they will give her paid off. "There's no limit" she said. "I just need a doctor saying I need it". Got it.

So, she went home with a lovely note giving her two weeks off with pay.

And instructions to return for additional time if she needs it to recover.

I REALLY hate employers that demand asinine notes like this. Fight the stupidity!

When employers require medical notes for short-term illness, they not only waste healthcare resources but also undermine employee well-being.

According to a 2023 report by the World Health Organization and the International Labour Organization, work-related stress and poor health management contribute to over 2 million deaths annually, often preventable through supportive workplace policies.

Forcing sick employees into emergency departments for proof of illness, especially during seasonal health surges, is a symptom of managerial distrust rather than a legitimate necessity.

In healthcare, this behavior creates systemic strain. Emergency physicians like the one in this story are trained to prioritize critical patients, not paperwork.

Studies from The Journal of Emergency Medicine have shown that non-urgent visits, including those for administrative purposes like sick notes, can account for up to 30% of ER traffic during flu season.

Each unnecessary visit increases wait times, reduces access for truly ill patients, and adds stress to medical staff already operating under high-pressure conditions.

Psychologically, this dynamic erodes morale. Dr. Adam Grant, organizational psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania, writes that “when companies operate from a mindset of suspicion rather than trust, they create a culture of disengagement.”

Employees treated as potential liars rather than responsible adults are less likely to stay loyal or motivated. This echoes the physician’s frustration, he wasn’t angry at the patient but at a system that treated her illness as something to be verified rather than cared for.

From a public health and management perspective, the solution is simple: trust and autonomy.

Employers should replace mandatory doctor’s notes with self-certification policies, as recommended by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and numerous labor boards in the U.K., Canada, and Australia. These systems reduce unnecessary medical visits while maintaining accountability.

See what others had to share with OP:

These Redditors criticized workplaces that force sick or injured staff to chase medical notes

thatkindofdoctor − I'm a physician in Brazil. Due to our labour laws, there's NO absence for work without pay cut if you don't present a doctor's note.

Some employers even demand ICD coding, which is unethical and abusive.

I get a perverse pleasure when I can justify giving a longer leave to (honest) patients,

together with a copy of the jurisprudence and how to talk firmly to the HR representative

that they got no right to demand to know what the patient is on medical leave for.

Distinct-Car-9124 − Hurray for you! I wish others could see through the BS as easily as you did.

I'm retired now, but my hospital had signs up that said "If you have the flu, stay home!"

But if you stayed out more than 2 days, you were suspended.

OK, now I have 3 more days off (without pay). How is that staffing the hospital?

I'm telling you--morons are running the hospital!

[Reddit User] − About ten years ago I had to go to the ED for the same reason.

I was sick with the flu and felt like death but my job “needed” a sick note.

Doctor was lovely and wrote a note “this patient is sick and can return to work when they deem themselves ready.

Please do not waste hospital resources in the future”, or something like that. My boss was livid.

night-otter − Thank you! I had an experience where an employer wanted a note signed by a Doctor, not “just” a nurse.

I called my Doctor’s office to get a new note. I get the new note, print it out, and take it to HR.

HR person takes one look at it and says: “Oh you! ” Head of HR comes out, “What you doing here?

You are supposed to be home recovering. “ Then sends me home. Turns out the note said on review I was to have two weeks off.

It was signed by the same nurse, but she included her full signature.

Director of Regional Nursing, and a bunch letters. One was PA and another was PhD.

She had also called the CEO & Head of HR to read them the riot act about not accepting notes from “Just a nurse.”

This group applauded OP’s empathy, saying more doctors should balance care and humanity

ConfederancyOfDunces − Good on you to notice and sympathize with not just the medical issues, but the social issues too.

I’m glad you’re in the field you’re in.

ColorsOfTheCurrents − Wish more physicians in my area had even 1/10 the amount of compassion and common sense you have shown.

Little_Mountain73 − Wow…a physician who ACTUALLY PAYS ATTENTION to individual patients. You are a rare breed these days, my friend.

I’m in my 50’s and anymore it feels like every patient is treated identically, regardless of symptoms.

I recognize and agree with standardized triage for non-visual ailments and non-cardiac events,

but to use your training in a way that individualizes a person’s symptoms and their actions while with you is extremely admirable.

Society needs more physicians who “do no harm. ” Thank you for your service.

These commenters shared painful examples of companies pressuring employees to work through illness

fullmoonbeading − I had my gallbladder removed while working for a company that asked if I could have surgery Friday so I could come in Monday.

They did pay 100% short term disability though - so I was asking my doctor for the paperwork, and he asked, “How much time do you want off”.

I cried. It was first “vacation” in almost 3 years.

Go_Gators_4Ever − A teammate put off going to the doctor because he was under pressure to complete an implementation that he was responsible for.

He ignored his symptoms and got the implementation done on time. He went home and collapsed.

An ambulance took him to the hospital. He never made it out. He died after a week. Work will always be there.

Don't ignore your health, no job is worth your life. PS, he was newlywed. This was so heartbreaking.

StellarJayZ − I love you! <3 I had a job once that I had hurt myself while racking a heavy server without help.

They do make carriages that can lift them off the floor and be able to slide them in supported,

but we didn't have one, and I was working alone and this was priority.

Anyway, hurt myself went to the Dr and had to fill out forms for light duty.

I explained the situation, what they were trying to pressure me into doing, and she wrote up the form,

giving me six weeks light duty with an appointment to come back and check progress with the possibility of adding more time.

She was actually quite mad at them for trying to accelerate me going back to regular duty.

This employer argued that sick days should be granted freely and notes are an invasion of privacy

SirViciousMalBad − As an employer, I have a theory about sick/vacation days.

If an employee needs a day off, it’s better to just let them have a day off for multiple reasons.

1. They wouldn’t be at top performance that day anyhow.

2. If you force them to make up a lie to get a day off, you’re teaching them it’s okay to lie to you.

3. Mental health is perfectly acceptable reason for a day off, we all need a break.

4. Employees are the most importantly asset a company has. You don’t own them, you rent them and if you abuse them you will lose them.

5. Asking for a doctor’s note is a massive i__asion of privacy.

So, what do you think? Was the doctor right to hand out a two-week note as a lesson to the employer, or should workplace policies be more understanding in the first place? Share your take below. Have you ever been forced to “prove” that you were too sick to work?

Annie Nguyen

Annie Nguyen

Hi, I'm Annie Nguyen. I'm a freelance writer and editor for Daily Highlight with experience across lifestyle, wellness, and personal growth publications. Living in San Francisco gives me endless inspiration, from cozy coffee shop corners to weekend hikes along the coast. Thanks for reading!

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