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He Told Me To Sell It If Someone Wanted It, Then Got Mad When I Did

by Charles Butler
November 15, 2025
in Social Issues

Nothing exposes human overconfidence quite like retail and pawn shops.

You meet every personality, from the sweet browsers to the competitive collectors, and then there are the smug shoppers who swear the universe will bend to their convenience.

That’s exactly what happened when a pawn shop sales associate found herself dealing with a man who wanted a rare anniversary ring, refused to put it on layaway, told her to sell it “if someone else wanted it,” and then acted shocked when she… did exactly that.

What unfolds is the perfectly seasoned blend of entitlement, misplaced confidence, and the delicious satisfaction of watching someone trip over their own words.

And the best part? The person listening in on the whole interaction becomes the unexpected twist in the story.

He Told Me To Sell It If Someone Wanted It, Then Got Mad When I Did
not the actual photo

Want the full tale of retail karma? The original story sits in the block below.

'I sold the ring he wanted, but he told me to?'

I used to work in a pawn shop as both a sales associate and a pawn broker. I have so many stories I could probably fill this subreddit, but this...

When I was a sales associate, I sold a lot of jewelry. I often had to tell people that we couldn't hold items because A) someone might come in and...

So, unless you put some money down, 20%, holding it wasn't an option.

One day, this man comes in and is looking for a very specific type of ring: diamond channel set anniversary ring set in white gold size 5.

The pawn shop I worked at had a VAST collection of these types of things in many sizes and with many different carat weights.

He needed a specific size and a specific carat weight and he was very much in luck, because we HAPPENED to have it.

Most pawn shops are you get what you see and you can see what you get. Basically, we don't have inventory/stock of any specific item and our jewelers are for...

So, I show him my ring that I have in the case..

Me: here you go. Exactly the size you need and just over the carat weight..

Man, pulls out a loupe, looks at diamonds: okay, they're not AS clear as I normally like them.

Me: yeah, I understand, but the price is only $350 and at a regular jewelry store, this would easily run around $1500, so while the clarity isn't as nice, it's...

Man, sighing: okay. Well, I know your sister store also has some rings, right? Do you think they might have a better one with better quality?

At this time, there is a woman looking at rings and clearly listening to our conversation, but I'm positive he hasn't noticed her. She sees the ring in my hand...

Me: Im not sure, but they are a smaller store, so their inventory is smaller. If they do have one, there isn't a guarantee the ring will be the correct...

Man: hmm. Okay, well can you hold the ring for me? I want to go see their inventory.

Me: I'm sorry, we can't. Company policy is that all items held must be put on layaway for holding. If someone wants to buy an item and it isn't in...

Man: Hmph, well, I'm gonna hold off and go check that store. IF someone comes in and sees THIS specific ring, yeah, go ahead and sell it, but I doubt...

He walked away with a kind of smug look on his face. Just as he left, the woman who was listening to our conversation walks up.

Woman: can I see that ring he didn't want? I hand it over to her. She slips it on her finger and smiles.

Woman: I'll take it.

She didn't even hesitate. She straight up bought this ring after wearing it for 5 second's.

During ring out I asked her why and she said she had been searching for a channel set ring for a few years at the pawn shops, but none had...

I told her have a nice day and cleaned it before she left. 45 minutes later, the man walked back in.

Man: okay, they didn't have anything, so I guess I'll take that one I was looking at.

Me: I'm sorry, sir, but just after you left a woman came up, tried on the ring and bought it. I don't have anymore in the carat weight you're looking...

Man: are you f__king serious? You knew I'd probably be back! Why did you sell it?

Me: well, you did say I should if someone came in and saw it. Just because you doubt something is going to happen doesn't mean it can't.

Edit: some of y'all are saying I didn't say the last line. Let me make something clear: the pawn industry is incredibly different than normal retail stores.

I have actually told customers to straight up "Get the f__k out of my store" and had 0 consequences. I promise I said this line.

If you're wondering what happened after, he demanded to speak to my manager who shouted through the window: "We don't hold s__t for assholes unless you put it in layaway....

That manager also looked exactly like the BTK serial k__ler, so...

A man walked into a pawn shop wanting a specific ring—and walked out with a lesson he did not expect.

Stories like this remind me why pawn shops might secretly be the best stage for human theater.

You’ve got pride, assumptions, urgency, and a sprinkle of cosmic timing all working together.

The instant the man said “sell it if someone comes in,” you could practically feel fate warming up its knuckles.

And the woman listening the entire time? That’s the kind of background character who suddenly becomes the main plot twist.

Honestly, the whole interaction feels less like a transaction and more like a masterclass in “don’t tempt the universe.”

Retail experts will tell you: one of the most predictable patterns in customer behavior is overconfidence mixed with unrealistic expectations.

According to Psychology Today, people often assume they have more control over situations than they actually do—a cognitive bias known as the “illusion of control”.

This man embodies that bias perfectly. He acted as though the ring would wait for him simply because he expected it to.

Another layer at play is “reactance,” the resistance people feel when presented with rules or limitations. VeryWellMind explains that when individuals are told they can’t do something (like “we cannot hold the ring without layaway”), they push harder against the rule, often out of sheer ego rather than logic.

The man didn’t want to follow the system-he wanted an exception made just for him.

The clerk, however, followed policy. And she did what experts recommend in retail settings: maintain boundaries, remain factual, and avoid emotional negotiation.

This aligns with a strategy described by the National Retail Federation as “procedural clarity,” meaning the employee’s responsibility is to keep the transaction predictable, fair, and consistent.

There’s also an interesting social twist with the woman who overheard the exchange.

Research from the Journal of Consumer Psychology notes that scarcity combined with social proof-the idea that someone else wants the item—dramatically increases desire and purchasing speed.

Her immediate purchase wasn’t just because the ring was perfect; hearing someone else be indecisive often motivates people to secure the item instantly.

As for the manager’s blunt response? While unconventional, assertive boundary-setting is sometimes necessary in environments where rules are frequently challenged.

It also reinforces the business model: pawn shops survive by moving inventory quickly, not by granting speculative holds.

In the end, the story shows how entitlement meets reality-and loses. And frankly, the lesson is timeless: if you want something, put money down.

Here’s what people had to say to OP:

Well, let’s just say Redditors had a field day with this one.

Swiggy1957 − I used to sell at flea markets. One year, I was helping out my father in law who made decorative lawn art. His main seller was a Dutch...

Season was basically over to sell this, but he needed working capital. I loaded up the truck and took it to the best flea market in the area.

Mind you, the season was over, but I decided the gamble was good enough. I had something like 50 of those things in the truck.

Shortly after noon, I was down to the last three. One guy asked me to hold on to the one he bought (yeah, he paid cash) so he could shop...

I told him I'd stick around til 1, even if I sold out. Down to my last two, and I have a tourist trying to haggle me down on the...

Normal price was $30, I was selling them close out for $25. She wanted both for $35. She wasn't budging.

I had agreed to let her have both for $40, but she never said she'd buy.

Meanwhile, the guy That bought the other windmill came back to pick it up, I excused myself, telling her I'd be right back, turned around, handed him his windmill, and...

She was gone. Oh well.

Almost immediately, a guy steps up and asks how much. I told him $25 each, both for $45. He whipped out the cash, paid for them and walked away with...

Okay, I sold all of my inventory, didn't have much in the way of clean-up, and the guy I would have waited on picked up his product. All done.

I go to get in the truck and the woman came back and said, "Okay, I've thought it over and I'll buy those two for the $40 you said. "

"Sorry, Ma'am, but I already sold them for $45. " "But you knew I wanted them. " "Yeah, but you never said you'd buy them, so when I didn't see...

And he didn't haggle. He headed that way," pointing east, "I don't think he'll sell them, though, because he bought them as Christmas gifts. "

"Don't you have any more? " "Nope, I brought 50, I sold 50."

Took the truck back to the shop, handed Dad the money and told him I sold out. It always surprised him when I did this.

I did this every week for a month and a half, kept his business afloat, then headed out of state.

He turned the sales over to my brother in law. BIL was lucky to sell one.

Bring back the classic rule: if you like it, put something down. Smugness is not a layaway plan.

djseifer − If he liked it, then he should've put some cash on it.

[Reddit User] − I love when people (who don't have the slightest clue about statistics or probability) get upset at me when they're not prepared when bad things happen.

"I know FlightOfTheTigers is always talking about being prepared for the worst case, but who could've guessed we'd have an earthquake in the middle of a pandemic?"

Being my job to anticipate these things: \raises hand\ \*In my line of work. ..bad things are not if; they're when.

TangoMano − That guy, with no doubt, got what was coming to him!

LisaW481 − I__ot he could have put it on layaway and then had a refund if he found something he liked better. Being cheap bit him good!

[Reddit User] − I would love to read more of your storys from the pawn shop! This one was hilarious!

A lot of users shared their own stories of customers who refused to secure an item, only to return outraged when it was gone.

Their theme? “No deposit, no promise.”

byjimini − I do the same with Facebook Marketplace these days, due to so many no-shows. You want it? Put some money down, otherwise it’s still available until you come...

Where this fails is in giving away stuff. I swear we had 7 people who were “dropping in tonight” to pick up a free mirror before someone eventually did.

mcherm − I have to wonder if she hung around nearby to watch him come me back for it then after he left offered it to him for a 50%...

db2 − Man: are you f__king serious? You knew I'd probably be back! Why did you sell it? The correct answer is "that's my job. " You could elaborate but...

heppytiteass − So satisfying when that happens. Had the same thing happen to me when selling cars.

Smug asshat gives a lowball offer on a Cadi Escalade which I turn down. He says, can find a better one cheaper, but hold it for him anyway with no...

Explained that's not how it works, gives me more smartass talk and leaves.

Comes back next morning with his wife while the Escalade is out on a test drive. He gets all mouthy again as the people pull in in "his" Escalade.

So I walk over to the test drivers and ask if they are serious buyers, they are and say We will take it. Now I'm the happy one.

Go back across the lot tell him and his snotty wife it's sold. The wife starts cussing and making a scene.

I tell her no deposit was left last night so 1st come 1st serve. Now her s__t talk turns it venom on husband.

I tell them to clear out and don't come back. Best day ever!

chasmd − Friend of mine. I show him retail space in the perfect location for him.

Says he wants it but it's a Friday, " nobody will write a lease over the weekend " Called broker Monday morning, somebody wrote a lease over the weekend.

My friend got a less desirable space in an older building for the same money.

Some pointed out the poetic justice-nothing motivates a buyer quite like watching someone else hesitate.

BaconConnoisseur − The greatest selling point for that woman was that someone else was interested in the ring first.

It was cheap and now she had a story about how some i__ot passed it up to tell to anyone who would listen.

morgan423 − "You and I just had a long and complicated conversation in our shared English language, but you can't comprehend the phrase 'We can't hold items unless they are...

At its core, this story is the retail version of “play stupid games, win stupid prizes.”

The clerk followed policy, a ready buyer appeared, and the man who refused layaway discovered the very real consequences of indecision.

It’s a reminder that timing matters, rules exist for a reason, and sometimes the universe delivers its lessons with sparkling efficiency.

What would you have done in the clerk’s shoes? And have you ever watched someone lose an item because they assumed the world would wait for them?

Share your stories below!

Charles Butler

Charles Butler

Hey there, fellow spotlight seekers! As the PIC of our social issues beat—and a guy who's dived headfirst into journalism and media studies—I'm obsessed with unpacking how we chase thrills, swap stories, and tangle with the big, messy debates of inequality, justice, and resilience, whether on screens or over drinks in a dive bar. Life's an endless, twisty reel, so I love spotlighting its rawest edges in words. Growing up on early internet forums and endless news scrolls, I'm forever blending my inner fact-hoarder with the restless wanderer itching to uncover every hidden corner of the world.

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