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Man Was Kicked Out Of A Meeting For Not Wearing A White Shirt, So He Made The Boss Wear One

by Layla Bui
November 10, 2025
in Social Issues

Office politics have never been for the faint of heart. But back in the 80s, when power suits and egos were even bigger than the computers they sold, things could spiral quickly over the smallest detail.

A technical expert was invited to a sales meeting expecting business as usual until a regional VP stopped everything to call him out for not wearing the “right” shirt.

What followed became an unforgettable display of pride and poetic justice, showing that sometimes the best comeback doesn’t require shouting, it just needs perfect timing. Keep reading to see how it all unfolded.

A mainframe network expert, ejected from a sales meeting for a non-white shirt, refuses return until the VP apologizes in a colored shirt

Man Was Kicked Out Of A Meeting For Not Wearing A White Shirt, So He Made The Boss Wear One
not the actual photo

'All of my employees wear white shirts?'

This is from the 80's. I was the East Coast expert on a big mainframe company network gear.

I was associated with the manufacturing plant, but I did customer site visits

to help field engineering either install or more often fix installations that were not working.

On customer visits, it was suit and tie. Since I often worked in computer rooms

I never wore white shirts because of the dirt issue. (Plus TBH they make me look like the Sta-Puff Marshmallow guy.)

Normal was an up and down striped button down shirt in a blue, pale green, etc.

Fly to Boston to work with a sales droid on configuration of a system they were trying to sell to a big bank.

Sales droid says minor change, first we need to go to this mandatory sales droid

meeting headed up by the regional VP of sales. Fine.

Get there, sea of white shirts ties and me in my colored shirt. Sit in 5th row, room has about 50-60 droids.

Regional VP gets on stage, doing his best "excite the troops to go out and sell millions" speech.

Clapping and cheering, etc. Mid sentence he sees me and stops. "Hey you, where is your white shirt?"

Look around, figure he may be talking to me, so I point to myself.

"Yea you in the blue shirt. ALL of my staff, everyone that works for me wears a white shirt".

"Ok, good to know, thanks". "Thanks?!?! Get out. And don't come back until you are wearing a white shirt".

"You want me to go, and not come back unless I'm wearing a white shirt?"

"Yes, get out now". So I get up, walk to the aisle, turn and go "Hey, do you know who I am?"

"No, I don't fing know who you are and I don't fing care. Out"

"Super, then for the rest of you, I'm kiltedturtle the east coast expert in 'networking' product out of 'plantname'

and I work for the Director of Engineering there.

So I don't work for him, and it's unlikely that I'll be back since I don't own a white shirt."

Left. Flew home. Frantic voice mails from the sales droid about his customer.

Next day, dropped into Director of Engineering's office to give a trip report.

He starts "So kiltedturtle, you were a big hit at the sales meeting.

VP of sales called to apologize and wants you to come back."

"Nope, not going to happen. He comes here, wearing a colored shirt and apologizes to me, I'll consider it."

"He's not going to do that"

"Fine, not traveling to that region, I'll talk to people on the phone, I can do my job that way just fine" and walked out.

Called my sales droid and said we'd work on the phone, not coming back up. Droid not happy, but understood.

Week later reception calls that I have a guest. Go to lobby and there is my director

and the regional VP of sales wearing a BLUE SHIRT. Best apology ever!!

Edited to add: /u/Striderfighter asked why it was such a fast apology.

So in the 80's network stuff was crazy expensive.

The networking part of the deal was worth ~$1+ million tying customers existing mainframes

(fast host to host connections were new and a big deal) and some new mainframes;

together so all in all $4-5 million. And it wasn't going fly without some help.

So commissions for sales droid, manager, upper manager and VP of sales.

So a ton of money on the table for them. They got the deal. And I got a surprise bonus. But I still had to go to Boston.

Edited to add: Wow, this got huge overnight. Thanks for all the awards!

And the points!!! And especially thanks for all the great comments!!!!

Even strict corporate traditions sometimes crumble under the weight of arrogance. In the 1980s, a network engineer, one of the top technical experts on the East Coast, was ordered out of a meeting for the crime of wearing a blue shirt.

The confrontation revealed more than just outdated dress codes; it exposed how ego and hierarchy often override logic in corporate culture.

According to management researcher Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer of Stanford University, such behavior reflects “status rituals” in business culture.

Uniforms, titles, and office symbolism are ways leaders maintain power, often at the expense of inclusion and respect. “When appearance outweighs competence, the organization risks alienating its most capable people,” Pfeffer notes in Leadership BS.

In this case, the engineer was attending a sales meeting at a major tech firm. The regional VP of sales, mistaking him for a subordinate, demanded he leave for not wearing white like everyone else.

Calmly, the engineer revealed his identity, the East Coast expert from the company’s engineering division, and walked out.

The fallout was swift: the VP realized he had just humiliated the key person needed to secure a multimillion-dollar client deal. Within a week, the VP appeared in person, wearing a blue shirt, to apologize.

Workplace psychologist Dr. Tasha Eurich explains that humility is essential for leaders to build credibility. “Self-awareness and respect are far more persuasive than fear-based control,” she told Harvard Business Review. “Leaders who humiliate employees publicly erode trust and often end up apologizing privately.”

The lesson transcends the 1980s corporate setting. When expertise meets insecurity, the latter often tries to assert dominance through surface rules. Yet real leadership requires discernment, knowing when to value substance over symbolism.

In the end, the engineer got the last laugh and a bonus. The deal went through, the VP swallowed his pride, and one blue shirt quietly redefined what authority should look like.

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

These commenters agreed the VP was arrogant and deserved the humiliation for trying to assert dominance in a petty way

tactman − Even if you worked for the VP, he was a jerk for calling out a person in a big meeting over a shirt color.

It was a big power move to show everyone who is the boss (he failed in this case)

but I would never want to work for someone that is big on showing off his authority.

bothsidesofthemoon − This just goes to show that if you're going to start a d__k measuring competition

in front of everyone like that, you need to be beyond certain you have the biggest d__k or it'll backfire spectacularly.

Gumball_Purple − I hope that VP of regional sales learned a valuable lesson.

This group shared personal anecdotes or parallels, connecting the story to real-world experiences with rigid dress codes and corporate posturing

HeismanLock − This reminds me of Atlanta Falcons owner Arthur Blank.

There’s a YouTube interview of him saying he tried to pitch the Home Depot idea to Ross Perot.

Only a few ppl in the meeting, but Perot told him like “we all wear white collared shirts here.”

Also told him no mustache, and his car brand wasn't what he should drive. Home Depot blew up lol.

Zoreb1 − Working in government procurement. For decades wore dress pants, shirt and tire.

At lunch I would take the tie off and put it back on. Since I worked in a cubicle,

no one really saw me outside of fellow employees. Stopped wearing the tie after lunch.

Then a notice came out that there was no dress code.

Already had my wardrobe, so kept wearing the same stuff but skipped the tie

unless I had a meeting with a vendor or being interviewed for a promotion.

StudioDroid − My dad was a photographer who was hired by Mega Corps to shoot their events and big wigs.

As an artist part of his style was to wear tweed jackets, corduroy trousers and non white shirts.

He looked professional and business like, but still looked like the artist.

There was the one company however where he figured out he needed to blend in.

He has a dark suit and a set of 5 starched white shirts.

They only came out when he was headed to Armonk or the 100 Percent Club events.

In the 70s when streaking was a thing he had a joke...

Did you hear about the streaker in the executive wing at Insanely Big Mega Corp?

A guy went running down the hall with no jacket and wearing a blue shirt.

When I cleared his closet after he passed away I found the set of 5 white shirts. They are in perfect shape.

Both enjoyed the poetic justice, cheering on how the power dynamic flipped and how the VP likely learned humility the hard way

gromit1991 − One of our area directors had a go at a field engineers for wearing jeans. Didn't go down well.

A few other staff took the p__s out the director by wearing decent quality charity shop clothes;

suits, paisley cravat and matching handkerchief, bright orange braces,...

The director was a know bully and eventually left although they should have been publicly pushed!

28 upvotes in as many minutes! Cheers. Here's a bit more to the story.

Bully director complains to the actual director above the 'dressy' staff, who, disliking bully director basically ignores him.

Can't remember exactly how long this went on for but it was something like a year or three.

Edit 2: 10 more votes whilst I typed out first edit.

Dear_Analysis_5116 − And we have a winner! I'm thinking he _might_ have learned something from that...

These users emphasized the business hierarchy logic

[Reddit User] − Man this reminds of that gobshite story of that specialized contractor

who refused to get the foreman a coffee and quit, leaving them f**ked

on the historical restoration stuff they were working on. Remember that guy? Amazing.

LaserGuidedPolarBear − For people asking why: Sales drones need engineers.

Engineers don't need sales drones. A sales VP is much more replaceable than any mid level engineer

who has been good at their job for more than a couple years.

A SME engineer is worth a lot more than that. As a IT guy, this malicious compliance is delicious.

These commenters added humor and practicality

[Reddit User] − At this point, he knew he fucked up and the only thing he could do was wear a blue shirt and apologize.

Give him props for doing that. Also props to your director for being understanding.

I'm sure he had to deal with s__t from the VP before the VP gave in.

paipai130 − Having a similar problem at my work. Talked to my boss about it and they said that

a white button-down shirt is fine... So I plan on spending like 10$ on a white shirt and buttons to sew on

So what do you think? Did the engineer play it perfectly, or should he have let the VP’s arrogance slide for the sake of diplomacy? Would you have stood your ground… or changed your shirt?

Share your thoughts below; every workplace has its own shade of blue rebellion.

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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