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Dog Owner Upset After Vet Removes Puppy’s Teeth During Neutering Without Consent

by Layla Bui
December 29, 2025
in Social Issues

Taking your pet in for a routine procedure usually comes with a clear set of expectations. One dog owner dropped off his six month old Goldendoodle for a scheduled neutering, part of a prepaid puppy care package he had been following for months. He expected a straightforward pickup, some aftercare instructions, and a groggy but healthy pup.

Instead, he was told that additional teeth had been extracted without any prior discussion or consent. While the cost was minimal and the medical reasoning made sense, the lack of communication left him feeling blindsided and uneasy.

Was his frustration justified, or was he making a big deal out of a routine veterinary decision? Keep reading to see how this situation unfolded.

A dog owner is caught off guard after a routine neutering includes surprise tooth extractions

Dog Owner Upset After Vet Removes Puppy’s Teeth During Neutering Without Consent
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'AITA for being peeved about surprise tooth extractions during neutering?'

Today I dropped my dog off to get neutered. He's a six-month Goldendoodle.

This was part of a "puppy package" of care, which covered all necessary shots and wellness checks,

and culminates with neutering and microchipping. I came back a few hours later to pick him up.

While receiving the aftercare instructions, I was informed that they pulled a few of my dog's teeth by the vet tech (VT).

Our conversation went something like this:

VT: The only thing not covered by the puppy package is $20 for the two teeth we removed while he was under anesthesia, so if we can settle this up....

Me: Excuse me, you removed teeth? He was here for neutering.

VT: His two canines were starting to come in but the baby teeth were not loose so we removed them.

It's very standard and what the vet regularly recommends.

Me: Well, you did more than recommend it, you went ahead and did it. \silence\.

VT: I'll be right back....now it's important to note that I don't care about the $20 charge.

Had I been contacted and told that they recommended this, I would have OF COURSE went with the vet's recommendation!

But come on, at least act like I'm involved in the process rather than making me feel like I'm being suckered into a forced up-sell situation.

A few minutes later, she came back...

VT: I spoke with the doctor and we are going to discount the $20 since we did not consult you first.

Me: It's not about the $20. I'm more concerned about the fact that I came here for one procedure,

and without any conversation or discussion, you expanded the scope of the visit to include tooth extraction.

VT: It was necessary. If we were to have done it at a separate visit, it would have been $250.

Me: I'm not concerned about the money if it's necessary. I'm concerned about not knowing about it or approving it beforehand.

VT: It's a very routine procedure. We regularly extract teeth while puppies are already under anesthesia.

Me: If it's so routine and done so regularly, why was it not discussed at one of the many prior visits or even this morning?

VT: You know if we didn't extract the teeth, it could have lead to issues with alignment, bacteria, and other complications.

Me: I'm not debating whether the extraction was necessary. I'm upset that I was not consulted first.

VT: I'll be right back....this time she brought my puppy back with her. I thanked her and left.

To be clear, I was not trying to be rude, difficult, or cheap in any way.

But I got into the car with my poor sedated pup feeling like I was being rude, difficult, and cheap.

I spoke with a few coworkers after I got back to my office, but I could use some other opinions as well.

So, AITA for being peeved about surprise tooth extractions during neutering?

Edit: this has, obviously, gotten way bigger than I had ever thought it would.

To anybody that posted on here to vent their spleen and then hit the front page, you know what I mean...that being said,

I wanted to offer a few points of clarification because I've seen quite a theme in the comments:

1. Most important of all: my puppy is snoozing next to me and seems to be in overall good shape - for that, I'm grateful to the vet.

2. It amazes me how many of you post things like "you're obviously NTA, why would you even post this"...

scroll the comments and look at some people on the other side.

The reason I posted this is that I was conflicted and was wondering what people thought - and wow, you folks did not let me down.

3. I don't plan on talking about who the vet/clinic/hospital is or where it is located.

I was not pleased by their customer service, but I am not trying to hurt their business in any way

(I will not even post a negative review even though I will be changing providers).

4. I'm not upset about the fact that they made a decision that they thought was necessary.

I'm upset that they could not explain that decision, or perhaps felt it was unnecessary to explain to me.

Please keep in mind that I'm not a vet. I went to school for history and business.

If someone had explained things to me, I might have quickly calmed down and the situation deescalated.

This would have been best handled, in my opinion, had the vet came to speak to me.

5. For the men that are messaging me thinking I am a woman: I'm not.

To maybe lighten the mood a little bit, how about a laugh at how silly a Goldendoodle's shaved arm looks?

When a puppy has a mix of baby teeth (deciduous teeth) and adult teeth growing in, retained baby teeth can cause problems if they don’t fall out on their own.

Veterinarians often recommend removing those teeth while the puppy is already under anesthesia for sterilization because it avoids a second anesthesia session later, which increases risk and cost. This is a standard veterinary practice.

Persistent baby teeth can lead to misalignment, trauma to the mouth, periodontal disease, and difficulty chewing if left in place. Early extraction helps the adult teeth come in properly. (Vca)

Medical professionals also regularly advise that the six-month-old age is a common time for neutering, and removing retained puppy teeth at that same visit is often recommended to prevent future dental issues.

Veterinary dental sources highlight that evaluating and removing retained baby teeth during spay/neuter surgeries makes practical sense because the puppy is safely anesthetized and it avoids subjecting the dog to another procedure later. (Long Beach Animal Hospital)

However, medical justification does not override the importance of informed consent. Professional veterinary codes of conduct, such as those from veterinary regulatory bodies, clearly state that veterinarians must obtain a client’s informed consent before proceeding with treatment.

That means explaining the diagnosis or condition, presenting options (including risks and benefits), and ensuring the owner agrees before additional procedures are done. This is considered part of ethical veterinary practice. (Vetcouncil)

One guideline states that vets and vet nurses should provide sufficient information to owners so they can make decisions, including talking through options, costs, and potential outcomes, and should involve the client in the discussion rather than assuming consent because a procedure is “routine.” They are also expected to document consent, whether verbally or in writing.

Though vets and techs may see removing retained puppy teeth during a neuter as common practice, the ethical standard still calls for clear client communication beforehand.

The fact that this extraction is routine doesn’t replace the owner’s right to be informed about and agree to the procedure, especially when it goes beyond what was specifically discussed prior to surgery. (Veterinary Board of Victoria)

Ultimately, the dental work itself fits within standard veterinary practice, but the way communication was handled, doing an additional procedure under anesthesia without the owner’s explicit consent beforehand, is what understandably left the owner feeling uneasy.

Here’s what people had to say to OP:

This group agreed the extraction was medically normal but should’ve been clearly discussed or pre-approved

CheyBridgeMan − While it IS pretty normal to extract deciduous (baby) teeth at time of spay/neuter,

it should be on the consent form you signed or called in if there will be additional charges.

No clinic I’ve ever worked at charged for this though. It was just like doing a nail trim during surgery—complimentary service.

You should talk to the practice manager.

When I managed a hospital, these sorts of things happened from time to time due to new employees and it was an opportunity to counsel.

NTA at all. But I promise, they weren’t doing unnecessary procedures either.

Charilane83 − NTA. this procedure should have been discussed with you prior to being done. Period.

You have the right to approve all procedures done to your fur baby.

CSnarf − NTA I’m a vet. Look—the thing that they did—it was absolutely appropriate medicine, likely necessary

and often done at the time of spay/neuter. However communication is key here and they fell down on the job on that.

You aren’t wrong to be miffed. They should have called or pre-cleared it.

However, for perspective- if you would have approved it if they called- I might cut them some slack.

Absolutely express that wasn’t cool- and they should apologize for the communication break down. But if you can, please be kind.

We have a difficult job, and people yell at us all day long for things that are very much not our fault

(animals being sicker than people thought, medicine costing money, etc).

WholeESheep − NTA - This is something you should have been told about.

These commenters were angry about consent and poor communication, calling it unacceptable service

[Reddit User] − YTA but just barely. You really shouldn’t have had this conversation with the VT.

It wasn’t their call. You should’ve asked to speak with the vet and had the conversation with him/her.

You put someone in a really uncomfortable position trying to defend something that they had no control over.

Kinda like bitching at your waiter because your food is undercooked.

I agree this shouldn’t have been done without your consent, but also having experience as a surgery tech,

sometimes they don’t notice this until it’s almost too late, and the anesthetic may have been close to wearing off

so they were trying to save you a bunch of money by not having to reanesthetize the animal.

Who knows what the reason was for them to make that decision on their own, and honestly it takes 3 minutes tops

so that 20 bucks isn’t going to hurt them not having it, but that is why you should’ve been speaking to the vet.

___totes_adorbs_x_ − Whew! This makes my blood boil. #NTA If a veterinarian removed my dogs teeth without asking me,

I would never use them again and I would report them to a licensing board.

Especially if they acted like I was freaking out about nothing.

INFO: Did you speak to the doctor directly? How did they know their adult teeth were coming in? Did they X-ray them?

What if they had accidentally pulled the adult canines? I’ve had lots of dogs and the vet has never removed their teeth.

My dogs have had cleanings and one even had a filling of sorts. That’s buuuullllllssshhhiiiitttt.

Talk to the vet, the owner and their greasy granny and make damn sure they never do it again. F__k.

flora_pompeii − NTA, that is really poor customer service on top of everything.

CheyBridgeMan − While it IS pretty normal to extract deciduous (baby) teeth at time of spay/neuter,

it should be on the consent form you signed or called in if there will be additional charges.

No clinic I’ve ever worked at charged for this though. It was just like doing a nail trim during surgery—complimentary service.

You should talk to the practice manager.

When I managed a hospital, these sorts of things happened from time to time due to new employees and it was an opportunity to counsel.

NTA at all. But I promise, they weren’t doing unnecessary procedures either.

Charilane83 − NTA. this procedure should have been discussed with you prior to being done. Period.

You have the right to approve all procedures done to your fur baby.

CSnarf − NTA I’m a vet. Look—the thing that they did—it was absolutely appropriate medicine, likely necessary

and often done at the time of spay/neuter. However communication is key here and they fell down on the job on that.

You aren’t wrong to be miffed. They should have called or pre-cleared it.

However, for perspective- if you would have approved it if they called- I might cut them some slack.

Absolutely express that wasn’t cool- and they should apologize for the communication break down. But if you can, please be kind.

We have a difficult job, and people yell at us all day long for things that are very much not our fault

(animals being sicker than people thought, medicine costing money, etc).

___totes_adorbs_x_ − Whew! This makes my blood boil. #NTA If a veterinarian removed my dogs teeth without asking me,

I would never use them again and I would report them to a licensing board.

Especially if they acted like I was freaking out about nothing.

INFO: Did you speak to the doctor directly? How did they know their adult teeth were coming in? Did they X-ray them?

What if they had accidentally pulled the adult canines? I’ve had lots of dogs and the vet has never removed their teeth.

My dogs have had cleanings and one even had a filling of sorts. That’s buuuullllllssshhhiiiitttt.

Talk to the vet, the owner and their greasy granny and make damn sure they never do it again. F__k.

WholeESheep − NTA - This is something you should have been told about.

flora_pompeii − NTA, that is really poor customer service on top of everything.

This group felt OP overreacted, saying vets acted reasonably to avoid extra anesthesia

Carwash3000 − ESH i honestly think you made a big deal about nothing. what was your ideal outcome here?

Since they (initially) fucked up by not getting consent,

did you really want them to hold off on the tooth extraction so you would be pointlessly out another 250 bucks? really?

You have this weird fixation on them trying to "pull one over" on when in reality they simply made an honest mistake

by failing to get prior consent. "suckered into a forced up-sell situation. " Seriously how do you come to that conclusion?

If they really wanted to bleed you dry they would NOT have extracted the teeth and then proceeded to b__lshit you

with "there were complications with his teeth, you gotta come back again btw its 250 dollars xtra".

Carwash3000 − ESH i honestly think you made a big deal about nothing. what was your ideal outcome here?

Since they (initially) fucked up by not getting consent,

did you really want them to hold off on the tooth extraction so you would be pointlessly out another 250 bucks? really?

You have this weird fixation on them trying to "pull one over" on when in reality they simply made an honest mistake

by failing to get prior consent. "suckered into a forced up-sell situation. " Seriously how do you come to that conclusion?

If they really wanted to bleed you dry they would NOT have extracted the teeth and then proceeded to b__lshit you

with "there were complications with his teeth, you gotta come back again btw its 250 dollars xtra".

Spaceshipjackaloo − YTA— a little. I get it, you want to be consulted and you’re right

if it’s so routine, they should have mentioned it beforehand.

But what I really wouldn’t want is my dog to be kept under longer while they call me and wait for my response, etc

or to refrain from doing what’s best for my dog because I’m THAT patient who gave them hell last time.

khdkhfulflulu − YTA -the doggie is under anesthesia, they checked, did necessary work, saved you heaps.

-alternatively they could have brought them round, let you know the findings,

and you could organise a second round of surgery involving the associated costs of anesthesia, operating theater costs and Vet/VT time -

I guess it's about trusting the animsl health professional's judgement , and hoping they aren't gouging you for unnecessary work

[Reddit User] − YTA but just barely. You really shouldn’t have had this conversation with the VT.

It wasn’t their call. You should’ve asked to speak with the vet and had the conversation with him/her.

You put someone in a really uncomfortable position trying to defend something that they had no control over.

Kinda like bitching at your waiter because your food is undercooked.

I agree this shouldn’t have been done without your consent, but also having experience as a surgery tech,

sometimes they don’t notice this until it’s almost too late, and the anesthetic may have been close to wearing off

so they were trying to save you a bunch of money by not having to reanesthetize the animal.

Who knows what the reason was for them to make that decision on their own, and honestly it takes 3 minutes tops

so that 20 bucks isn’t going to hurt them not having it, but that is why you should’ve been speaking to the vet.

These Redditors leaned YTA, arguing trust in vets and minimal impact made complaints excessive

maynard4pres − YTA - A certain amount of trust has to be given between you and your vet.

The procedure that they did was exceptionally minor, they removed two baby teeth that

they deemed necessary to remove for the betterment of your dogs health.

I can see how it would be upsetting not not to be notified had the additional procedure been major or had been costly—but this was neither.

By taking your dog to your vet at all you're entrusting them and their breadth of knowledge to give the best care to your dog.

In this case, you came in for a minor procedure, they saw an additional minor problem, and they rectified it.

Case closed. Would you have had this reaction if they noticed your dog's nails were dangerously long

and they trimmed them without consulting you? Ultimately, you are not a vet.

Getting your approval for something you know little to nothing about seems like a gross misuse of time.

Again, had what they did been significant, very different story—but what was done had so little impact financially

and on your dog that the fact that you had anything other to say besides "thank you" makes YTA.

PeachBlossom1234 − YTA - this is totally normal and you’re overreacting.

Baby puppy teeth can be a nightmare when they don’t loosen and fall out, then a further anaesthetic is needed and you would have had to pay.

Seriously it’s nothing to worry about and they would only have noticed them when the puppy was sleeping

ReaderofHarlaw − YTA seriously? If you are so adamant that you don’t have a problem with the procedure or the cost

and you agree that it was medically necessary (TRUST ME IT WAS) then I don’t see the issue?

Do you want them to reinsert the teeth and do the procedure over? YTA for wanting them to kiss your rude, difficult, and cheap ass.

kristinez − YTA for continuing to b__ch about it multiple times even though it was explained that it was necessary.

What exactly do you want them to do with your 15th "im upset?"

They already deducted the cost. Do you want them to put the dogs teeth back in? You're overreacting and not letting it go.

you should honestly be happy they did it and that they were only going to charge you $20 instead of the routine $250.

Spaceshipjackaloo − YTA— a little. I get it, you want to be consulted and you’re right

if it’s so routine, they should have mentioned it beforehand.

But what I really wouldn’t want is my dog to be kept under longer while they call me and wait for my response, etc

or to refrain from doing what’s best for my dog because I’m THAT patient who gave them hell last time.

maynard4pres − YTA - A certain amount of trust has to be given between you and your vet.

The procedure that they did was exceptionally minor, they removed two baby teeth that

they deemed necessary to remove for the betterment of your dogs health.

I can see how it would be upsetting not not to be notified had the additional procedure been major or had been costly—but this was neither.

By taking your dog to your vet at all you're entrusting them and their breadth of knowledge to give the best care to your dog.

In this case, you came in for a minor procedure, they saw an additional minor problem, and they rectified it.

Case closed. Would you have had this reaction if they noticed your dog's nails were dangerously long

and they trimmed them without consulting you? Ultimately, you are not a vet.

Getting your approval for something you know little to nothing about seems like a gross misuse of time.

Again, had what they did been significant, very different story—but what was done had so little impact financially

and on your dog that the fact that you had anything other to say besides "thank you" makes YTA.

PeachBlossom1234 − YTA - this is totally normal and you’re overreacting.

Baby puppy teeth can be a nightmare when they don’t loosen and fall out, then a further anaesthetic is needed and you would have had to pay.

Seriously it’s nothing to worry about and they would only have noticed them when the puppy was sleeping

kristinez − YTA for continuing to b__ch about it multiple times even though it was explained that it was necessary.

What exactly do you want them to do with your 15th "im upset?"

They already deducted the cost. Do you want them to put the dogs teeth back in? You're overreacting and not letting it go.

you should honestly be happy they did it and that they were only going to charge you $20 instead of the routine $250.

khdkhfulflulu − YTA -the doggie is under anesthesia, they checked, did necessary work, saved you heaps.

-alternatively they could have brought them round, let you know the findings,

and you could organise a second round of surgery involving the associated costs of anesthesia, operating theater costs and Vet/VT time -

I guess it's about trusting the animsl health professional's judgement , and hoping they aren't gouging you for unnecessary work

ReaderofHarlaw − YTA seriously? If you are so adamant that you don’t have a problem with the procedure or the cost

and you agree that it was medically necessary (TRUST ME IT WAS) then I don’t see the issue?

Do you want them to reinsert the teeth and do the procedure over? YTA for wanting them to kiss your rude, difficult, and cheap ass.

This user took a neutral stance, explaining standard vet practice and emphasizing better future communication

cat_lady3219 − NAH — former vet tech here! No one is really TA in this situation.

You were upset that you weren’t consulted and that’s okay.

The vets office was doing what was best for the dog while under anesthesia.

They would have called and kept you in the loop if it were something bigger or more invasive (I.

e a cryptorchid or retained testicle), but baby teeth extractions are just a little pulling.

In the time it would have taken to get you on the phone, the extraction would be done, and with all anesthesia,

ESPECIALLY puppies and kittens, the goal is to get them off the anesthetic and into recovery as soon as possible.

The teeth could be getting pulled while the neuter was taking place (neutering is super quick).

My vet never made calls during surgery for little stuff like that — it’s just doing what’s best for the pet which is their job.

If you still feel icky about the situation, maybe go up there once you’ve cooled off (maybe even take the staff a treat—

we love sweets and coffee) and let them know that you’re thankful that they were looking out for you and your dog,

but in the future you’d like to be kept more in the loop.

I’m sure they’ll make a note in the chart (: Also good for you for getting your pupper neutered and vaccinated!

Way to be a great, responsible pet parent

cat_lady3219 − NAH — former vet tech here! No one is really TA in this situation.

You were upset that you weren’t consulted and that’s okay.

The vets office was doing what was best for the dog while under anesthesia.

They would have called and kept you in the loop if it were something bigger or more invasive (I.

e a cryptorchid or retained testicle), but baby teeth extractions are just a little pulling.

In the time it would have taken to get you on the phone, the extraction would be done, and with all anesthesia,

ESPECIALLY puppies and kittens, the goal is to get them off the anesthetic and into recovery as soon as possible.

The teeth could be getting pulled while the neuter was taking place (neutering is super quick).

My vet never made calls during surgery for little stuff like that — it’s just doing what’s best for the pet which is their job.

If you still feel icky about the situation, maybe go up there once you’ve cooled off (maybe even take the staff a treat—

we love sweets and coffee) and let them know that you’re thankful that they were looking out for you and your dog,

but in the future you’d like to be kept more in the loop.

I’m sure they’ll make a note in the chart (: Also good for you for getting your pupper neutered and vaccinated!

Way to be a great, responsible pet parent

Is trust in professionals enough, or should consent always come first, even for routine decisions? If this were your pet, would you feel grateful or frustrated? Share your thoughts below.

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Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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