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Teacher Bans Little Girl’s Lip Balm, So She Gives Her A Smile That Sends The Whole School Screaming

by Annie Nguyen
November 13, 2025
in Social Issues

Some teachers seem to carry a personal storm cloud into the classroom, raining disapproval on any child who dares to need something basic. For a second-grader with lips that crack and bleed at the slightest dryness, that storm arrived in the form of a single rule-obsessed adult who decided medicated lip balm belonged locked away in the office.

The original poster’s little sister, usually the picture of angelic compliance, handed over her Carmex without protest one morning and waited. By the time the teacher called on her for a simple math answer, the damage was ready.

What happened next left the classroom echoing with a scream that reached the third-grade hall across the way. Keep scrolling to see how a tiny tub of balm became the ultimate power move.

One second-grade angel hands over her lifesaving Carmex after the teacher brands it forbidden medication, only to unleash a bloody smile that rewrites classroom rules forever

Teacher Bans Little Girl’s Lip Balm, So She Gives Her A Smile That Sends The Whole School Screaming
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Teacher tells my little sister she can't have her lip balm, sister gives her a shriek inducing smile?

This is my sister's story, but it's too good to not share. This was back when she was in second grade,

and this girl was the perfect child. I wish I was kidding, but no. You know that ONE kid with the halo

and the sweet smile, the manners to make a parent proud, and cutesy little voice? Yep, that's her.

But, she DOES have a mean streak when you push her. You would think that ALL the teachers loved her, right?

Nope, not her second grade teacher. This woman was hellfire personified, and she for some reason hated my little sister.

More often that not, my little sister came out of that classroom trying to hold back tears.

Two more very important things about my sister - she has always had lips that would get so chapped they would bleed,

and she always carries around Carmex with her. So, one day, she's sitting in class with Hell's favorite teacher

when she pulls out her little tub of Carmex and the teacher immediately starts screeching at her to see her after class.

End of class, and the teacher tells her that she MUST keep the Carmex with the school's office

because it says "medicated", and back in the day you had to be literally dying just for the office

to give you your things (no joke, I'm asthmatic and it took almost dying on the office floor

for them to hand my inhaler over but that's another story). My sister tries to explain that without the Carmex

her lips will bleed, but the woman does not care. Well, Hell hath no fury little a sweet baby scorned.

Very next morning, she doesn't use any in the morning, doesn't use any for the ride to school,

doesn't use it before sister hands the little tub of Carmex over to the office lady (who looks at her very confused

but just does not give a s__t) and she heads off to class. She does her best to keep calm

when she starts to feel her lips get chapped, keeping her lips as drawn in and neutral as she can.

She spends most of the day with her head down and not speaking, until finally the teacher calls on her

to answer a math question. Now, I should probably warn everyone this might get a little graphic.

Sister lifts her head up, looks this woman right in the eyes and smiles as wide as she can.

Tears are rolling down her cheeks as she can feel her lips splitting open so badly that they're not just bleeding a little.

It's rolling down her chin, mixing with her tears, down her neck and onto the collar of her shirt.

This woman screamed so loudly that us third graders across the hall could hear it. She ended up ripping her lips

so badly they had to page little third grade me to call my mom to pick her up, and she had to stay home

for a couple of days to recover. When she came back, however, not only did the teacher personally hand her Carmex over,

she had bought her a few more little tubs of the stuff for "just in case she ever ran out"

and never bothered her again. I don't know if it was coincidence that year was the last year she taught,

but a little part of me likes to think that she met her match in my little sister.

In every classroom, teachers are entrusted not just with shaping young minds but with nurturing the fragile confidence that defines early childhood. In this story, that balance was broken, and a second grader’s quiet act of defiance revealed how cruelty can backfire in the most unexpected way.

The little girl, described as kind and well-behaved, faced a teacher who seemed determined to undermine her. When the teacher confiscated her medicated lip balm, something essential for her comfort, it wasn’t about policy or safety; it was about control.

Her subsequent decision to “obey” the rule, enduring pain until her lips split and bled, was not just compliance; it was a powerful, if heartbreaking, form of resistance.

Psychologically, what happened here reflects what researchers call reactance theory, a natural human response to having one’s autonomy restricted. When a person, even a child, feels powerless under unfair authority, they often rebel in ways that restore their sense of control.

In this case, the little girl’s silent protest was a cry for dignity. As social psychologist Dr. Jack Brehm’s work suggests, the more unjust a restriction feels, the stronger the urge to resist becomes.

From a broader perspective, the teacher’s behavior demonstrates how power, when unchecked by empathy, can distort judgment. Instead of seeing a child’s genuine need, she saw disobedience.

Yet, when confronted with the physical consequence of her decision, she was forced to face the reality of her cruelty and to correct it. Ironically, it took pain, not persuasion, to reawaken her humanity.

Dr. Brené Brown, a research professor known for her work on empathy, has said that empathy is the antidote to shame and disconnection. In this story, the teacher’s shame was the first step toward learning compassion, a lesson taught by a child.

Ultimately, this story reminds us that even small acts of “malicious compliance” can carry deep emotional meaning. They’re not always about revenge; sometimes, they’re a child’s way of saying, “See me. Hear me.”

Here’s the feedback from the Reddit community:

These Redditors shared gory payback tales where bodily proof silenced skeptical adults

flibbertygibbet100 − I think the keeping the inhalers at the nurses office is one of the stupidest ideas ever.

So you make a child who is having difficulty breathing walk to the office so they can start breathing.

Kids die of asthma at schools who do this.

EloquentGrl − I get really chapped lips during winter. One year, I was really into using those EOs lip balms.

You know how people tell you that lip balms were designed to make your lips more chapped? Come winter, I started believing that.

My lips were so dry, the corner of my mouth split. For weeks, no matter how much lip balm I'd apply,

I would keep ripping it open when I'd eat, no matter how careful I was. It was miserable. Then I realized there were medicated lip balms.

I bought a blistex one. By the end of the week, the corner of my mouth was healing.

Now I swear by medicated lip balms and refuse to use others. Glad your sister is okay and didn't cause some permanent damage.

That's some dedication! Ouch. .. Also, s__ew the whole 'medication must stay with the office' bs.

My nephew had an asthma attack at an after school activity and he didn't have his extra inhaler

because the school confiscated it despite his parents saying he was old enough to carry it with himself.

He was okay, but scared having to take an ambulance. My brother threatened to sue to school district.

SUDDENLY he was allowed to carry his inhaler with him.

makemusic25 − In the early 2000's, kids' high school did not allow students to keep ibuprofin, acetominophin or aspirin on them.

They had to go to the nurse's office to get them - and the office had to have a parent-signed permission form to take them.

(Part of the war on drugs. ) One day one of my kids (still a minor) came home and informed me

that he had donated blood that day when the Red Cross had set up in the high school. What? ???

They can stick a minor with a needle to draw blood, but can't give someone a bit of acetominaphin?

Sometimes laws make no sense.

This group slammed blanket medication bans that endanger kids’ health

pancreaticpotter − In the late 90's I was a junior in HS and my family moved from one state to another.

In the process of doing so, a lot of household things had to be moved out of storage.

The amount of dust that had accumulated was enough to cause me to have multiple sneezing fits.

To the point where, by the time we got everything unpacked in new state, I had blown a blood vessel in each nostril of my nose.

After copious nosebleeds, I go to the doctor and get them fixed by chemical cauterization.

A friend told me that she overheard our English teacher telling other students that I had to be making up the whole thing,

or was grossly exaggerating the truth, when I had to miss a class one or two times. Well, a day or two after the cauterization,

I was in class (NOT English) and started sneezing and the dam broke. I head up to the main office to call home

so I can go back to the doctor. I'm sitting there trying to staunch the bleeding while I wait, and guess who walks right past me?

My English teacher was waltzing through and literally did a double take when she saw me.

probably because in a desperate move to prevent recreating the elevator scene from The Shining, I had used my own shirt

until an alternative was acquired. I looked like a deranged murderer. Part of me really wanted to say, "You should see the other guy,"

but instead opted for the dejected waif look, to really nail home the shame. It must have worked, because she actually apologized

and never brought it up again.

Cukimonster − Some teachers are just so jaded, they really should have some kind of testing to see about relocating

some away from kids. I too was one of those innocent kids who followed all the rules, and never got in trouble.

Around the 4th grade, I suddenly started having spurts of low blood sugar, that actually had me passing out

if I didn't get some oj or something in me quickly. Since the 4th grade teacher witnessed me drop,

and the 5th grade watched as my poor old grandpa had to fireman carry me from the room to see a doc,

I didn't have many issues. I would tell them I was lightheaded, and they would have me sit in the corner

with graham crackers and oj till I could take my seat. But one day, we had a sub. We also had some lame pop quiz,

and wouldn't you know it 3 questions in I feel the darkness pulling at me from the corners.

I got up quietly, and whispered to the sub about what was happening. She straight up wasn't having it.

She has subbed a few times before, so I knew her to be bitchy, but again, I was a kid who never lied or got in trouble,

so it didn't occur to me she wouldn't believe me. She reamed me about trying to get out of the test,

which I assure you was more distracting than me whispering about feeling dizzy, and sent me back to do my work.

So add in desperately thing to hold back tears, while fighting off the darkness, and you can guess what happened.

I was leaning my face on both arms, trying to at least look like I was working, when the darkness took me.

My arms slipped, and my face slammed hard into my desk. Worst bloody nose I've ever had. I was out cold

during the first part of the gushing, so it basically just went where it wanted. Other kids desks, and if I remember right,

some kids were hit with the spray. I woke up to the sub desperately screaming for help, and cramming tissues or something to my face.

In the end, I missed the quiz (drenched in blood as it was lol) and was sent home early. The sub followed me to the office

crying and apologizing. My grandpa came to get me again, which as sweet and close to senile as he was,

likely saved the school a huge issue, though it was the 90s. Anyways, I saw the sub a few more times that year.

From that day on, she didn't show up without purchasing me oj and those white powdered donuts "just in case" lol.

Oh, and because I tainted some of the other tests, (or you know, the trauma) the whole class got out of taking the quiz too.

Totally backfired on the sub. 😂😂

lejoo − I still remember the new mean middle school teacher who said " you can wait for a band-aide until after the test".

I remember her telling me the next day when she handed it back she was docking me for writing half the test in red ink

and me just smiling and saying but I don't even own a red pen then tossing the test.

Fun fact that teacher also bought my childhood home a few years ago and all the neighbors refuse to talk to her,

we had weekly block parties, because she is just that s__t of a person.

Folks cheered the sister’s steel nerves and devilish timing

epi_introvert − As a teacher, I think I would have LOVED teaching your sister. I love kids who have a bit of the devil in them -

they tend to be very smart and funny.

A_Wizards_Staff − Your little sister had balls of steel. I love her.

grumpy_munchkin − I absolutely love your witch of a little sister.

runthereszombies − Aw hahaha poor kid mastered the art of mutually assured destruction early in life

ghaelon − as someone who EASILY gets chapped lips in winter, and has known the pain of having a lip split RIGHT DOWN THE MIDDLE

(shich makes smiling TORTURE), i really empathise with your sister.

lydialost − I completely know that feeling. I don't always have chapped lips, but when I do they go from fine to cracked

and bleeding in no time at all. I left the house one day to drive to see a friend about 40 minutes away,

through the middle of no where. Half way through the drive I can tell that if I smile or talk my lips will crack.

I stopped at a random gas station (the only place as far as the eye could see) and bought whatever lip balm they had.

I didn't care that it was over $5 for a little tube of whatever. It was a necessity.

Now I keep them all over (but mainly in bags I use when I travel, because planes seem to trigger it)

so I'm not caught without.

PearlButton − Poor little sis! Does she still suffer with the terribly chapped lips?

DisturbedRecipient − I always feel solidarity with other redheads and ginger me cackled at the fury comment.

Carmex is also the only thing that works for me too! I have tried everything. Maybe that is a ginger thing as well?

Users bonded over chronic chapped lips and Carmex loyalty

pancreaticpotter − In the late 90's I was a junior in HS and my family moved from one state to another.

In the process of doing so, a lot of household things had to be moved out of storage.

The amount of dust that had accumulated was enough to cause me to have multiple sneezing fits.

To the point where, by the time we got everything unpacked in new state, I had blown a blood vessel in each nostril of my nose.

After copious nosebleeds, I go to the doctor and get them fixed by chemical cauterization.

A friend told me that she overheard our English teacher telling other students that I had to be making up the whole thing,

or was grossly exaggerating the truth, when I had to miss a class one or two times. Well, a day or two after the cauterization,

I was in class (NOT English) and started sneezing and the dam broke. I head up to the main office to call home

so I can go back to the doctor. I'm sitting there trying to staunch the bleeding while I wait, and guess who walks right past me?

My English teacher was waltzing through and literally did a double take when she saw me.

probably because in a desperate move to prevent recreating the elevator scene from The Shining, I had used my own shirt

until an alternative was acquired. I looked like a deranged murderer. Part of me really wanted to say, "You should see the other guy,"

but instead opted for the dejected waif look, to really nail home the shame. It must have worked, because she actually apologized

and never brought it up again.

Cukimonster − Some teachers are just so jaded, they really should have some kind of testing to see about relocating

some away from kids. I too was one of those innocent kids who followed all the rules, and never got in trouble.

Around the 4th grade, I suddenly started having spurts of low blood sugar, that actually had me passing out

if I didn't get some oj or something in me quickly. Since the 4th grade teacher witnessed me drop,

and the 5th grade watched as my poor old grandpa had to fireman carry me from the room to see a doc,

I didn't have many issues. I would tell them I was lightheaded, and they would have me sit in the corner

with graham crackers and oj till I could take my seat. But one day, we had a sub. We also had some lame pop quiz,

and wouldn't you know it 3 questions in I feel the darkness pulling at me from the corners.

I got up quietly, and whispered to the sub about what was happening. She straight up wasn't having it.

She has subbed a few times before, so I knew her to be bitchy, but again, I was a kid who never lied or got in trouble,

so it didn't occur to me she wouldn't believe me. She reamed me about trying to get out of the test,

which I assure you was more distracting than me whispering about feeling dizzy, and sent me back to do my work.

So add in desperately thing to hold back tears, while fighting off the darkness, and you can guess what happened.

I was leaning my face on both arms, trying to at least look like I was working, when the darkness took me.

My arms slipped, and my face slammed hard into my desk. Worst bloody nose I've ever had. I was out cold

during the first part of the gushing, so it basically just went where it wanted. Other kids desks, and if I remember right,

some kids were hit with the spray. I woke up to the sub desperately screaming for help, and cramming tissues or something to my face.

In the end, I missed the quiz (drenched in blood as it was lol) and was sent home early. The sub followed me to the office

crying and apologizing. My grandpa came to get me again, which as sweet and close to senile as he was,

likely saved the school a huge issue, though it was the 90s. Anyways, I saw the sub a few more times that year.

From that day on, she didn't show up without purchasing me oj and those white powdered donuts "just in case" lol.

Oh, and because I tainted some of the other tests, (or you know, the trauma) the whole class got out of taking the quiz too.

Totally backfired on the sub. 😂😂

lejoo − I still remember the new mean middle school teacher who said " you can wait for a band-aide until after the test".

I remember her telling me the next day when she handed it back she was docking me for writing half the test in red ink

and me just smiling and saying but I don't even own a red pen then tossing the test.

Fun fact that teacher also bought my childhood home a few years ago and all the neighbors refuse to talk to her,

we had weekly block parties, because she is just that s__t of a person.

A tub of Carmex became a second-grader’s Excalibur, pulled only after blood proved her point. People adored the pint-sized strategist, though a few worried about the trauma behind the tactic. Was the grin genius or a cry for help in horror makeup? Would you let a kid bleed to win, or intervene sooner? Drop your verdict below!

Annie Nguyen

Annie Nguyen

Hi, I'm Annie Nguyen. I'm a freelance writer and editor for Daily Highlight with experience across lifestyle, wellness, and personal growth publications. Living in San Francisco gives me endless inspiration, from cozy coffee shop corners to weekend hikes along the coast. Thanks for reading!

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