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Woman With Schizophrenia Has A Breakdown After Friends’ Prank, Now They Accuse Her Of Not Sharing Medical History

by Layla Bui
November 26, 2025
in Social Issues

For someone living with schizophrenia, the world can sometimes feel like a confusing and unpredictable place, where everyday events can trigger intense fear and paranoia.

One individual, managing their condition in private, was put in a deeply distressing situation when their friends decided to prank them, dressing in ridiculous costumes and making bizarre, conspiracy-laden comments.

What was meant to be harmless fun turned into a terrifying experience, causing them to check themselves into a hospital to ensure they weren’t spiraling into psychosis.

When the prank was revealed and apologies came flooding in, the individual found themselves wondering if they were at fault for not disclosing their diagnosis earlier. Should they have been more open about their schizophrenia, or did their friends go too far in their

attempt at a joke? Scroll down to see how this situation played out and whether the individual’s reaction was justified.

A person with schizophrenia is pranked by friends, leading to a hospitalization and tension

Woman With Schizophrenia Has A Breakdown After Friends’ Prank, Now They Accuse Her Of Not Sharing Medical History
not the actual photo

'AITA for not sharing medical history before being pranked?'

Heyo, I'm a schizophrenic. Started when I was 22, and will last till I die.

I'm active in schizophrenic communities, go to groups, the works but I am fairly private about it to most people to include friends.

It's fairly common for people to think I'm eccentric (comes with the turf) due to some of my habits.

Those habits include not going to parties or other places with lots of people,

suddenly deciding not to do something (I have to be protective not to do or go to certain things if I think a delusion might be coming on),

saying the occasional odd quip, normal schizophrenic stuff.

Some friends thought it would be funny to make it seem like I might be going crazy as a group.

They would individually wear something silly like a wizard hat or dinosaur costume (TRex blow up costume) to a group event

or say something totally out of the ordinary and pretend like it was normal

(Police like to track people like you, covid is just a way to microchip you, etc).

These are very real scary thoughts to me. I would ask members of the group if they had heard concerns

about these conspiracies or weird garb from the other members,

but they all acted like they had hung out with that particular member that day and I hadn't been involved.

I was really, really scared that this could have been a massive delusion morphing into a full psychosis

so I preemptively checked myself into a hospital to stop myself from potentially hurting myself

or diving further into the rabbit hole(common in schizophrenic community).

I was so scared my medications stopped working.

No one heard from me for a few days while I was in the hospital, and when I checked out I confided in one of them about what had happened.

I got a really long apology explaining what had happened and I blew up at them.

I have ignored attempts from the others trying to apologize and have no desire to talk with them again.

AITA for not previously stating that I am schizophrenic?

Edit: People have been asking saying to post the length of the prank. Around 3 weeks.

Edit 2: Thank you for the awards and stuff, but I really want to highlight some of the messages I have gotten.

I'm at around 150 messages and counting and am trying to respond to the ones where I can hopefully offer insight.

Resources that I find helpful- r/schizophrenia

For groups just google schizophrenia support groups in my area,

something will pop up and when you actually get there someone will have a further list.

You get what you put into groups. You don't have to talk your first couple of times.

But no one will look at you with the batshit look if you say "Reality check- is there a bird in the room or something in that regard".

That did happen once and the audible sigh of relief from 8 other people and the laughter that followed was hysterical.

Medication helps so much. It's the difference between being able to go for a walk with my dog and staying in bed all day. But it takes time.

So many people have asked what d__g and dosage a loved on should go on. I cannot answer that.

There are so many drugs out there and different dosages.

I can tell you that you (probably) will not have a noticable difference in behavior in two weeks after trying a medication.

You start small, and work your way up to a therapeutic effect (when it actually helps).

It might take some time to actually get to feeling human again. Not every medication is meant for every person, but don't give up!

OP later provided an update in another post:

UPDATE: Heyo! I had a few folks message me over the last couple of months, the latest tonight.

I touches me that so many of you still message me to see if things are going well, so I wanted to update people en masse.

Life is going phenomenally. I axed the friend group, and have since been kicking butt.

I realized that if my close friend group was consistently putting me down or taking advantage of me, who else could be.

The biggest answer was myself. I stopped doing things I enjoyed to invest in people that took joy in hurting me

(Turns out it went so much deeper than gas lighting).

I got two new hobbies, wood working and brewing. I absolutely love them both, and have made friends in those communities.

I started cooking instead of take out and I met the woman who is now my girlfriend at the local market and we do most things together now.

I realized my job had been taking a huge advantage over me.

I worked significantly harder and longer hours for less pay than the employees under me.

After I transitioned to taking better care of myself I successfully created a resume that outlined my successes

(Recognizing those successes took quite a bit of effort!) and got a new job in higher management for significantly more pay.

I'm also going to buy a house this December with a yard for my dog and I.

Nothing big, just a nice one bedroom with a large yard for my buddy and I to play fetch in.

So thanks Reddit. Owe you one. Never would have made life improvement if it weren't for an external force.

It hurts to feel betrayed by people you once trusted. When someone carries a hidden mental‑health condition, every social interaction can carry unseen weight.

In this story, the person did not simply withhold a fact, they guarded a fragile inner reality. The prank against them didn’t just feel like harmless fun. It cracked open trust, triggered fear, and made their world feel unsafe.

At the heart of this are emotional dynamics of vulnerability, betrayal, and self‑protection. The OP’s choice to stay private about their schizophrenia was not avoidance but preservation. Their friends’ prank, costumes, bizarre claims, staged conspiracies, shattered that preservation.

What might seem funny to one person can feel terrifying to another. For someone prone to paranoia or delusion, such jokes can tip the balance from coping to crisis. Their hospital check‑in shows awareness and courage; their refusal to reengage reveals a boundary drawn in the name of personal safety.

Experts studying psychosis and schizophrenia emphasize the role of stress and social adversity in triggering symptoms. A 2023 systematic review found that frequent psychosocial stressors, daily life strain, emotional abuse, and perceived discrimination significantly raise the risk of conversion to full psychosis in vulnerable individuals.

Another body of research links traumatic experiences, chronic stress or interpersonal stress to exacerbation of symptoms in persons already diagnosed with schizophrenia‑spectrum disorders.

This aligns with the broader biopsychosocial model of mental illness: genetic predisposition interacts with environmental triggers, stress, trauma, social instability, influencing whether symptoms surface or worsen.

From that perspective, the OP’s reaction becomes not just understandable but psychologically sound. When individuals with schizophrenia face unpredictable social pranks, it isn’t mere discomfort, it risks destabilization.

Their decision to seek immediate help demonstrates self‑awareness. Their refusal to reconnect with those who violated trust becomes a protective act. It isn’t about vengeance; it’s about preserving mental stability and dignity.

This incident raises broader questions about empathy and responsibility. Laughter or bonding by social jokes can seem innocent. But when directed, intentionally or not, toward someone with mental health vulnerabilities, the impact can be deep and damaging.

In social groups, it matters to treat differences with respect, to understand that what seems like a joke may feel like gaslighting to someone else.

So, if you know someone who carries hidden struggles, honor their boundaries. If you suspect a joke might target sensitive issues like mental illness, reconsider, and choose compassion over chaos.

For those living with invisible conditions: your boundaries matter. Protect your peace. Seek support when needed. You deserve safety and respect, not pranks.

Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

These users argue that the friends’ actions were not a harmless prank but rather bullying

Boliele − NTA - Even if you didn't disclose your medical history, they knew enough that saying those things would f__k with you.

If a "prank" doesn't leave both parties laughing, it isn't a prank, it's bullying.

BaddestPatsy − Oh honey, this breaks my heart. My partner is schizophrenic

and it's hard enough on its own without some group of AH's DECIDING IT WOULD BE FUN TO COLLECTIVELY GASLIGHT YOU.

Please go with your gut and never talk to these AH's again.

As far as whether not telling them ahead of time makes you an AH, maybe in some alternate reality where schizophrenia-stigma didn't exist.

Also, I have never even heard of a group of "friends" doing this particular "prank" en masse,

so I don't know how you could have anticipated this happening--because for the most part, this doesn't happen.

I'm proud of you for going to the hospital when you felt you needed to, that's a hard thing to do.

A lot of people look back at the friends they had at your age and can't believe they ever put up with such an immature pack of AH's.

You'll meet better people, and hopefully some of your ex-friends will learn a lesson and become better friends in their futures.

[Reddit User] − NTA. Schizophrenia or not, this wasn’t a harmless prank

- this was disrespectful and manipulative b__lshit that good friends don’t pull on each other.

This group agrees that the “prank” was cruel and manipulative, regardless of whether the friends knew about the OP’s condition

ayalseinaj − NTA. That’s a cruel prank whether you’re schizophrenic or not. I’d never talk to them again.

MyBunIsMyBestFriend − NTA, your medical history is your own private information. You don’t owe it to anyone.

They could, at the very least, tell that you had anxiety about things, and it was wrong of them to try to “mess” with you

- especially once they could tell you were starting to get really upset, anxious, and confused. Time for some new friends.

fluidsoulcreative − It seems like your “friends” actually suspected that you may have been affected by this disorde

and completely fucked with you because of it. They are all a**holes. Not you.

Terpsichorean_Wombat − NTA. These aren't friends. They're jackals.

I'm so sorry this happened to you, especially when it sounds like you've done a ton of hard work to learn about and manage your condition.

I really respect the strength it takes for you to deal with such painful challenges,

and I'm sorry that you got mixed up with what sounds like a really awful set of people.

I think you're right to cut them off.

This group is more lenient, suggesting that while the prank was unfortunate, it wasn’t malicious in intent

Jurassic-Jay − Unpopular: NAH. Not sure what your group dynamic was but that’s a tried and true prank.

They seemed to be kindof excessive with it maybe but I respect commitment with a prank.

They probably started small, then once you didn’t call them out on something they got more

and more confused as to why you weren’t pointing out the wizard hat or disagreed with the c__spiracy theories.

They probably thought you were gullible or oblivious and wanted to see how much you would ignore.

Even if they knew you weren’t that oblivious, you were acting like it and the rules of the prank are

that you keep doing more and more extreme stuff until the person being pranked notices.

Again, although the extent they went to seems like it became more and more extreme, this is a common prank.

I have done this. Others have done this to me.

In my experience, it is generally funny- Funny for people to do, then funny for you all to laugh about after.

They clearly did not know you had schizophrenia and this genuinely just concerned you.

That is awful and unfair and I am sorry you suffer from this. But how were your friends supposed to know?

They were not trying to get you to check into a medical facility and genuinely think you were crazy.

They clearly saw you as one of the guy and schizophrenia is uncommon enough I do not ask my friends if they are schizophrenic.

If their apologies seem genuine, I would wait some time but probably forgive them.

It is justified you feel upset, but this was one of the oldest pranks in the book.

They did it in the office with seeing what Stanley wouldn’t notice, and other versions of it have happened in other shows and comedy skits as well.

This post in particular seems to have fallen victim to a sort of reddit echo chamber or inexperienced respondents.

This prank is not an unforgivable offense to cut off all your friends for. It is a tragic misunderstanding and mistake on their part.

If their apologies are genuine and you can find it within yourself to forgive, I would encourage it. But there are no TA people here.

Arenty_Nigh − NTA, you deserve better friends

doorapennifoot − What in the everliving f__k. Regardless of whether or not they knew you are schizoprenic, this is cruel. NTA.

KatJen76 − NTA your friends are horrible, horrible people and I bet some part of you knew instinctively,

subconsciously, that you couldn't trust them with anything personal.

That's not a funny prank. The funny version of that is "Let's all show up to Dave's barbecue in dumb hats."

That's incredibly cruel and vicious, and they cost you several days of your life and maybe even a lot of money.

WildestParsnip − This is a prank. It’s a good prank. Just not for OP. OP isn’t TA. Friends aren’t TA. NAH.

OP has a right to privacy. I’ve had this type of prank done to me, and it was funny.

Just a really unfortunate situation. I’d definitely give your friends the chance to make it right. The intent was never malicious.

They just didn’t know, and upon discovery, they immediately wanted to apologize.

OP has the right to not respond for a while as mental illness is no joke. Time is a great healer. NAH but lessons learned.

These commenters highlight the emotional harm caused by the prank

mandabeanbean − edit: NTA. that’s not a badly though through prank, it’s malicious and they’re bad people.

Genuinely curious: how long did this “prank” by them go on?

because i think if it was long enough that they saw you getting bothered and never said anything

then they are absolutely TAs buuuuuut if it was for a short period (two days or maybe like one event)

then it wasn’t deeply malicious and probably not well thought out about what that kind of gaslighting can do to someone.

also no one is owed your mental health diagnosis or anything. I’m open about my social anxiety but not my depression

and that’s none of my friends business but my own.

maverickmain − NAH I saw an earlier respond saying that if both parties don't laugh its bullying, not a prank.

That's mostly true but I'm fairly certain that someone without schizophrenia would absolutely find this funny or

at the very least entertaining and a good story to tell. You're under no obligation to tell anyone about your medical history.

However, because you didn't they couldn't know this would be a bad prank under the circumstances.

Neither of you are a**holes or even a little at fault. It's understandable that you don't want to trust these friends now,

but I'd say you should explain your condition to them and be a little more open with those close to you.

Not to prevent situations like this, but to have meaningful relationships

with people that have a better understanding of your thinking and potential obstacles.

ffghtffyrdmns − NTA, at all. First off, that’s private information you shouldn’t have to share unless you feel comfortable.

If you didn’t share, their actions are not your fault.

Secondly, that was terrible of them to do to you and you had every right to be as angry as you were. They sound terrible.

What do you think? Was OP justified in cutting them off, or could she have handled the situation differently? Let us know in the comments below!

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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