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He’s Been Hiding Millions from Everyone – Was It a Clever Choice or a Betrayal of Trust?

by Sunny Nguyen
July 21, 2025
in Social Issues

Picture this: a young man in his late twenties, pulling up to work in a rusted-out car, splitting rent with his girlfriend, and quietly living on instant noodles while secretly sitting on a fortune big enough to retire ten times over.

That’s the double life one Redditor crafted after cashing in early on Bitcoin. To the outside world, he was just another modest guy, working a regular job, crashing at his parents’ cabin on weekends. But behind closed doors, he was managing a hidden empire of gold, real estate, and investments, known only to his father.

The day he told his dad the truth, it wasn’t out of pride. It was because he’d quietly bailed him out of a financial crisis. Ever since, the secret has felt heavier. His dad thinks it’s wrong to keep this much wealth under wraps, worried it’s driving a wedge through their family. But Crypto Covert, his fitting Reddit moniker, believes this is the only way to stay normal in a world where money can twist relationships beyond recognition.

He’s Been Hiding Millions from Everyone - Was It a Clever Choice or a Betrayal of Trust?

When Wealth Becomes a Secret Burden – Below’s The Original Post:

Aita For Hiding My Money To My Friends And Family?

In 2013 I started being interested in bitcoin and because of the price rise I've made a lot of money, enough to retire and not have to worry about money again in my life. I've been selling most of it through the yeas (I have about 15% left ) and I've been buying real state and gold.

The only person that knows about this is my dad and I made him promise me that he wouldn't tell my mom about it, I love her but she can't keep her mouth shut.

If you knew me, you would never say that I have money, I live in a one bedroom apartment (and I split rent with my girlfriend), I spend my holidays on a cabin my parents own in front of a lake, I love my job and I don't want to stop working, my car is 20 years old,

my motorcycle is 40 years old and my watch is a 100 euros Seiko. My dad has always told me that what I'm doing is not okay, he says that I can't live a lie my whole life and that I'm making him keep my secret and he sometimes feels uncomfortable.

I don't think I'm living a lie, I live the life that I want and for that I don't need to show everybody how much money I have, that is nobody's business. Also I'm scared that people are going to start treating me differently. AITA for hiding my money?

Sometimes I feel bad, but I love my life and I don't want any changes. Also, after all this years of hiding it, it would be weird for them to know that I've had money all this time.

Edit: Just to clarify, I told my dad because he needed money and I wanted to help him, I know that he is in a bad position because he has to keep my secret but I thought that it was the best solution.

The Secret Fortune That Changed Everything

Crypto Covert’s story didn’t start in luxury. Back in 2013, he was just another kid fascinated by the internet’s new toy, Bitcoin. He took a gamble most people laughed at, scraping together what little he had to buy in early. When the price soared, he cashed out enough to ensure he’d never need to work again.

But instead of buying a mansion or flexing on Instagram, he slipped back into the shadows. He bought up properties quietly, tucked cash into gold, and kept his lifestyle humble, almost to the point of self-denial.

His only confidant was his father, who’d needed help to avoid losing everything. In exchange for a lifeline, the older man agreed to a pact of silence. But over time, that secret started to feel like a burden. Crypto Covert’s dad watched him scrape by for appearances, sharing rent, wearing old clothes, pretending to worry about bills, and wondered if the price of privacy was worth it.

From the son’s perspective, the answer was obvious. He’d seen what happens when people smell money. Friends start asking for loans they’ll never repay. Family members question every choice. Even romantic partners begin to wonder what they’re owed. To him, hiding the fortune was the only way to keep his life real.

The Rift Between Father and Son

Still, the father’s unease only grew. It wasn’t just about lying by omission. It was about the constant tightrope walk of pretending. Every time his wife asked if their son needed help, he swallowed the truth. Every holiday gift or small favor came wrapped in the tension of unspoken wealth.

Dr. Gail Saltz, a psychiatrist specializing in family relationships, once said, “Secrets can create emotional distance in families, even if they’re meant to protect.” And in this case, the distance was starting to show.

Crypto Covert argued that his modest life wasn’t an act. He genuinely enjoyed it, working a job he liked, riding a forty-year-old motorcycle, knowing no one saw him as a human wallet. But he also couldn’t deny the strain on his father’s conscience.

A 2022 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that over half of wealthy individuals worry their fortune will corrode their closest bonds. For Crypto Covert, that fear was enough to keep the secret locked tight.

Yet with each passing year, the question loomed larger: Was he preserving his relationships or hollowing them out?

Reddit’s dropping takes juicier than a market rally!

Here's the feedback from the Reddit community:

Commenters mostly agreed you’re NTA for keeping your finances private, though some said it could be unfair if your girlfriend is splitting bills thinking you earn the same.

ShaneVis − NTA --- Your money your business nobody needs or has the right to know how much money you have you might want to share that with your girlfriend if you ever get married but other than that why does anybody else have to know??.

It's sometimes very surprising just how many friends you have all of a sudden when it is well known that you have money when at first everyone thought you had none.

newbeginingshey − You may be an AH to your gf if you’ve been splitting household costs 50/50 when she thought you both were working roughly similar jobs. No one else is entitled to know. But, I’d say you’re smart to keep it to yourself, even if it’s an AH move. Having money makes you a target.

Friends and family who were happy to pay their share on outings and vacations may now expect you to pay for them, just because you can. That’s not fun and can make you feel used. With your current set up, you know who actually cares about you.

[Reddit User] − NTA for hiding your wealth but YTA for expecting your dad to keep it a secret, especially from people such as your mum. It could upset her that he has lied for you to her.

This commenter said YTA because hiding your wealth can make people feel betrayed if they’ve shared struggles you can’t really relate to.

[Reddit User] − My dad has always told me that what I'm doing is not okay, he says that I can't live a lie my whole life and that I'm making him keep my secret and he sometimes feels uncomfortable.

The problem is that you are marking him uncomfortable, and you might end up alienating a lot of people when they find out that they've shared their worries with someone that instead of being a friend that share the same worries/situations actually is rich enough to not have to care about anything

at all. Personally I wouldn't want to share any worries that could be solved with money with someone that has the financial ability to just make my life better that way.

Like I wouldn't complain about private stuff, and I wouldn't complain about needing venture capital for my business; and I wouldn't even complain about how it'd be nice with a vacation somewhere warmer. And so on.

With a friend not rich enough to just solve things like that it's a great release of stress to just complain for a couple of minutes. To get it out of the system.

But if I later on found out that that person couldn't relate at all, and could easily have taken care of those worries of mine, then I would feel like such a fool. No amount of you saying 'but I can relate because I was once like you' could fix that; my feelings towards you would just be different.

And I would probably distance myself way far away. Like if I'd known beforehand it wouldn't have been a problem, and I wouldn't have assumed you to fix my worries, but I would have shared differently. And at least to make that makes all the difference.

Edit: Forgot the verdict: YTA (but an understandable one, because gaining more money than those around you will cause problems no matter what you do).

On the other hand, several commenters said YTA, mainly because they felt keeping your wealth secret from a long-term partner is unfair and could damage trust.

flonc − I am going to say soft YTA. Most of the comments here are right, your money = your business.

But lying to your partner of six years about your financial status when you are clearly planning a future together from your comments is a huge problem and the longer this goes on, the worse it's going to be.

You are right to fear that people might treat you differently because of your financial status, so I would say it's okay not to share this with everyone, but you should share this with your partner at some point.

I don't know how I would react if someone didn't trust me enough tho share this huge part of my life with me if I was with them in a relationship for 6+ years, but I can assure you that my reaction wouldn't be 'Neat! Good for you! Our relationship won't be filled with trust issues, no worries!

ghfjdkslapqowieuruty − YTA for not telling your girlfriend how much money you have, presumably leaving her with the impression that you have an average-ish income.

I inherited a significant amount of money, I told my boyfriend as soon as things got serious between us, and I pay for most things in our relationship because that’s what’s fair. If I didn’t trust him because I thought he was a gold digger, I wouldn’t be with him. So, if you think she’s a gold digger, dump her.

If you don’t think she’s a gold digger, there’s no reason to continue lying by omission and misrepresenting your financial situation.

NetOk2467 − YTA for still making the person you love & want to spend the 'rest of your life with ' still pay 50% of the financial responsibilities. If you're so scared, maybe she isn't the one for you.

I assume she's great if you want to spend your life with her & she deserves to be trusted & treated as well as you have the capacity... It's your money tho & you can be alone with it if you want to.

Some commenters leaned YTA, saying it’s unfair to burden your dad with a secret and to hide your wealth from people close to you.

From_Over_The_Pond − NTA for hiding your money - you can do whatever you want with that! Although I'm not sure it's nice towards your parents and girlfriend that you don't share. But... YTA when it comes to telling your dad your little secret and asking him to keep it a secret.

You're putting an eternal burden on him, just so you can have someone to share your secret with because you couldn't handle not sharing it...

Scissors4215 − I’m on the fence. Your finances are no ones business but your own. You’re not obligated to tell anyone. However your activity keeping secrets from close family and significant others. When your dad says “you’re living a lie” he’s not referring to your modest lifestyle, that’s fine.

He’s referring to the fact your keeping secrets from your mother and your gf. A gf you say you want to spend the rest of your life with. Depending where you live, even if you don’t get married your gf could be entitled to some of your assets in a common law situation If you were to split.

Problem is you’ve waiting so long that if you tell her now she’s likely to feel hurt you didn’t trust her. I’m going slight, and I do mean slight YTA. Come clean, tell your significant other at least and let the chips fall where they lie.

Are these Redditors trading wisdom or just HODLing hot air? You tell us!

Now, as Reddit debates whether he’s protecting his peace or deceiving everyone he loves, Crypto Covert faces an impossible choice.

Was he right to keep his millions hidden to avoid the fallout, or has his secrecy turned into a betrayal that could cost him the trust of the people who matter most?

If you had a fortune to your name, would you live like a king or keep it a secret to stay the person you’ve always been?

Sunny Nguyen

Sunny Nguyen

Sunny Nguyen writes for DailyHighlight.com, focusing on social issues and the stories that matter most to everyday people. She’s passionate about uncovering voices and experiences that often go unheard, blending empathy with insight in every article. Outside of work, Sunny can be found wandering galleries, sipping coffee while people-watching, or snapping photos of everyday life - always chasing moments that reveal the world in a new light.

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