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Boss Tells Engineer to Quit and “Chase His Hobby” – So He Does, and Lands a Job Paying Triple the Salary

by Charles Butler
October 29, 2025
in Social Issues

It started like any other week at a small engineering startup. The young engineer had been working hard for months – juggling blueprints, managing clients, even helping with payroll when things got messy.

Everyone relied on him because he could fix almost anything. But one careless comment from his boss would soon change everything, sending his life in a direction neither of them expected.

Boss Tells Engineer to Quit and “Chase His Hobby” - So He Does, and Lands a Job Paying Triple the Salary
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'Boss says I should quit because I like spending time on 'Hobbies' so I did?'

I was working for a startup engineering firm working as a Piping Design engineer. But since it was a start up firm, we didn't have a lot of man power...

I was one of the very few qualified enough to handle a team of my own. The boss trusted me with almost everything.

I was like the second in command after the boss only because I was managing a lot of things on the side as a volunteery basis.

Things like paycheck balancing, client meetings, quality assurance, documentation, and other stuff which he should had hired someone else to do.

I was good at it and he took full advantage of it by giving me things to do that never was under my job description.

One day he had this bright idea that we should revamp our website to attract more clients.

And he gave this project to his nephew who just graduated from college as a developer of sorts.

After a week or so the nephew came up with the first draft of the website and the boss was fairly disappointed as it didn't look anywhere near to what...

He then called me in and asked me if I knew anything about website design.

At that time I was very much interested on UI/UX and was doing an online course to learn about it more. So I told him that I'll see what I...

I spent the next week full making a proper information architure, wireframes and colour guidelines that the nephew could pick up

and build the website from scratch. In the end the website looked futuristic and the boss was pretty happy.

But during the week my other 'responsibilities' were put in a backlog and it just kept piling on.

I knew I would be able to cover it once am done with the website and didn't pay too much attention to it.

The next week my boss caught up with backlog and called me in to his cabin. He started yelling at me for all the 'responsibilities' that I didn't attend to.

I calmly told him that I was working on the website and its not a big deal. Told him that I would clear it out as soon as possible.

But he wasn't happy. He asked me why I spent so much time doing something that isn't even my responsibility.

I told him that I was learning about UI/UX and was pretty much interested to learn more.

(I obviously never thought about perusing it as a career because frankly I was a mechanical engineer by qualification and didn't think jumping to IT would be easy)

The boss snapped and told me that I should quit and peraue my 'hobby' as a living. He said that only then I will understand how lucky I am to...

I kind of got offended because 1. He doesn't even pay me the worth of things i do for the company and

2. He knew I could cover and yet took this as a opportunity to 'discipline' me.. I stepped out of this cabin, went to my desk and put in my...

He called me a couple of times asked me to revoke my resignation and then made other people from the organization call me to convince me to come back. I...

It's been 2 years now, I decided to persue UI/UX as a career now and am working as a product designer in one of the biggest organisations in the country

with a pay that's almost 300% more than what I was getting as a mechanical engineer.

Update 1: To all the people who wanted to know the company status today, the company was shut down because they had to pay a huge penalty for not being...

Then covid hit and they had to reduce pay for all the other staff which lead to people leaving. Eventually the company went bankrupt for not being able to keep...

Update 2: for all the people who want to know the steps I persued to have a career in UI/UX,

I did the online certification course from googIe and spent a lot of time solving whiteboard challenges preparing myself to be a problem solver.

Then I got the opportunity to intern for a service based agency for a few months where I dedicated my time to learn as much as possible

and then when I though I was ready, I applied to all the openings I found on LinkedIn and other job portals until I finally landed a job with this...

While I was working as an intern I also invested in a Bootcamp certificate course from an organization called designboat in India and also some certificate course from Interaction design...

Hope I was helpful, but if you still need to talk, hit me up on chat I will surely help you.

A Job That Asked for Too Much

From the outside, the company looked ambitious, even exciting. Inside, it was chaos. The engineer was officially hired as a piping designer, yet every time something went wrong, he was the one they called.

Need to handle client meetings? He did it. Someone messed up quality checks? He stayed late to fix it. When the boss’s nephew failed to design a proper website, guess who stepped in again?

At that time, he was taking an online course in UI/UX design, just as a hobby. He had always loved the creative side of building things, not just the technical part.

So when the boss asked for help, he worked nights to create a sleek, modern website that impressed everyone. For a brief moment, he felt proud. But soon, the workload grew heavier, the appreciation disappeared, and his efforts went unnoticed.

The breaking point came during a heated argument. The boss accused him of being distracted by his “little hobby” instead of focusing on his job. Then came the sentence that still echoed in his mind: “If you love that so much, maybe you should quit and do it full-time.”

So he did.

He packed his things that same week, quietly thanking the boss for the push he didn’t know he needed. At that moment, his future was uncertain but for the first time in years, he felt free.

From Overworked to Overjoyed

After quitting, he threw himself into studying design seriously. He completed Google certifications, joined online projects, and built a portfolio piece by piece.

Months later, a major company hired him as a product designer. Two years passed, and he was now earning three times his old salary – with less stress, more creativity, and genuine respect from his team.

Meanwhile, the old startup began to crumble. Projects failed, penalties piled up, and staff left after pay cuts. When the pandemic hit, the company never recovered.

In a strange twist of fate, the man once dismissed for his “hobby” was now thriving in a field that gave him both happiness and stability.

To some, it sounded like poetic justice. But beneath the success story lay a sad truth – how easily good employees can be driven away by a lack of respect.

As a career coach once said in the Harvard Business Review, “When leaders dismiss passions as ‘hobbies,’ they risk losing talent who could innovate elsewhere.” (Amy Gallo, HBR, 2021).

The boss’s mistake wasn’t only his words; it was his failure to see potential. What he called a distraction turned out to be the very skill that transformed his employee’s life.

I’ve seen something similar myself. Years ago, a friend of mine worked as an accountant but spent weekends writing code for fun. His boss mocked it as a “nerdy pastime.”

Two years later, that same friend was working in Silicon Valley, while his old firm was struggling to stay open. Stories like this remind us that passion often leads to growth – if only people are allowed to follow it.

What Could Have Been Done

This whole situation might have turned out differently if there had been honest communication. The boss could have recognized the engineer’s extra workload and offered support instead of criticism.

He could have said, “You’re talented at this. Let’s find a way to use those skills here.” A few kind words, a fair raise, or even a shared project plan might have kept him.

For employees, the lesson is about boundaries. Document your extra work, speak up when duties expand, and know your worth. Passion projects don’t mean you’re disloyal; they often make you more creative and resilient.

The Gallup Workplace Report from 2023 showed that 59% of workers feel burned out because of unclear boundaries and unrealistic expectations. Many of those cases, just like this one, happen in startups where “loyalty” too often means overwork.

Here’s what Redditors had to say:

Most felt inspired, calling it the perfect example of karma at work. 

Mountain-Turnover501 − I see no logic in the boss thinking process and action

Urb4nN0rd − "Hey Op, can you do this for me? " "Sure this even relates to a hobby of mine! "

"OP, your other work is slipping because of that thing i asked you to do! Maybe you shouldn't be spending so much time on hobbies!"

Like how many times did his parents drop him as a baby. ..

whoozywhatzitnow − When you have an employee that does way more than they were hired to because why pay someone else to do it

when you can get an employee to do the extra work for no extra pay, you don’t challenge them to quit.

Some admired his courage to leave so suddenly, while others admitted they’d stayed too long in similar jobs out of fear. 

313Wolverine − Funny how things like that work out. Kudos to you for not being bullied and sticking to your guns.

In 2009 I was fired from a job for laughing at the owner of a 50M / year company because he told me I was lucky to have a job...

Just a few years later I was making 120% more with another company that was happy to have my skill set.

the_anecdotist135 − Thank you all for a great response. To all the people asking about the company's whereabouts:

the last project I was working on had to be pulled back and the organization had to pay a huge penalty for not being able to deliver as promised.

Which wasn't enough because then covid hit and they to reduce pay for all the employees which then lead to all the staff leaving gradually.

They company went bankrupt last year due to not being able to keep up financially during covid

Charlie24601 − I hope you emailed him a thank you letter. “Hey man, I really want to thank you for your advice to quit and spend time on my hobbies.

I am now make triple the pay you were giving me, and 1/3 the work you piled on me with no regard of my job description, or even if I...

A few even sympathized with the boss, saying small-business owners often panic when employees seem distracted.

BrokenEye3 − You deleted all the UX design stuff you made for him before you left, right?

LordAxalon110 − Beatings will continue until staff moral improves.

harrywwc − sounds like a win to me - well, for OP old boss. .. not so much

SawkeeReemo − A guy I worked with always said, “The worst thing I ever did for my career was learn how to do anything. ”

In the end, the engineer didn’t just find a better job – he rediscovered himself. What looked like an insult became the best advice he ever received. The story is both a warning and a reminder: undervalue people, and they’ll show their true worth elsewhere.

So who was really right – the boss who pushed him out, or the man who turned that push into power? Maybe both played their part in creating a success story neither could have predicted.

Charles Butler

Charles Butler

Hey there, fellow spotlight seekers! As the PIC of our social issues beat—and a guy who's dived headfirst into journalism and media studies—I'm obsessed with unpacking how we chase thrills, swap stories, and tangle with the big, messy debates of inequality, justice, and resilience, whether on screens or over drinks in a dive bar. Life's an endless, twisty reel, so I love spotlighting its rawest edges in words. Growing up on early internet forums and endless news scrolls, I'm forever blending my inner fact-hoarder with the restless wanderer itching to uncover every hidden corner of the world.

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