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She Wore Her Golf Uniform to School and Finally Made the Dress Code Fair

by Sunny Nguyen
November 10, 2025
in Social Issues

High school dress codes can feel like a minefield, especially when rules are applied unevenly. In 2013, a Texas sophomore discovered this the hard way. While cheerleaders and dance team members got a free pass to wear skimpy uniforms every Friday, she was pulled out of class for wearing a casual sun dress that barely broke the rules.

The excuse? “Only official school uniforms are allowed to break dress code.” For a student who played golf, this seemed like an obvious loophole. When the assistant principal dismissed her complaints, she decided to use the same logic the school had used on the cheerleaders. The next Friday, she showed up in her golf uniform – skort and all – ready to prove a point.

She Wore Her Golf Uniform to School and Finally Made the Dress Code Fair
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What followed was a masterclass in high school malicious compliance.

The Cheerleaders can break dress code because they’re school uniforms? Guess I’m wearing mine!

Someone’s story about their friend wearing a skirt to school and getting bloomers reminded me of my own malicious compliance in high school.

Waaaaay back in 2013 I was a sophomore in highschool, and there was a tradition that on fridays, the cheerleaders, football players

(without their pads of course) band members, and the other groups performing wore their uniforms to class.

This wasn’t a written tradition, and only the cheerleaders and dance team’s uniforms broke “dress code”, nobody really batted an eye to it.

I wasn’t a skirt person, but I liked dresses once and a while (once IN a while *sorry*). As one can tell by my user, I grew up in Texas,...

So one time while wearing a casual sun dress in September, I was pulled out of class and reprimanded because the end of my dress was 4 inches above the...

I pointed out the cheerleaders and dance teams uniforms every Friday and how they reached mid thigh at their longest,

but was told that was okay because “students can wear official school uniforms”. And was sent home to change.

Clearly, somehow someone had forgotten I was on the golf team. Immediately my mind was turning to the next Friday.

The school had recently upgraded the golf team uniforms the year prior, and the girls team uniforms consisted of a short sleeve collared polo shirt, and a skort.

If you don’t know what a skort is, it’s essentially a skirt and short shorts combined. It looks like a skirt, but they essentially act like built in bike shorts,...

So that next Friday (about 3 days later) to my parents surprise, I was ready to go that morning in my golf uniform, as compared to taking a bag to...

But I just said “Fridays, we can wear our uniforms to class”, and they accepted without question and took me to school.

Well by second period, I was sent to the office yet again and the first thing the assistant principal asked me was why I would “deliberately disobey her right after...

and threatened in school suspension, I’ll never get anywhere in life by not listening, yada yada yada.

When I finally had a chance to get a word in, I said “but this is my school golf uniform” and I pointed to our schools logo that was sewn...

“You said students can wear official school uniforms to class, why are the cheerleader uniforms okay and mine isn’t? This isn’t even a skirt, it’s a skort, it has pants!”

I still remember how pissed off she was. She stared me down for what seemed like a millennia. Then she snapped and told me to get out of her office,...

That I knew what she meant and she would be calling my parents about this blatant disrespect.

So I waited and played on my iPod and chatted with the nice secretary, trying to keep myself distracted, because in reality I had been really trying not to cry.

I had massive anxiety when it came to authority, but I still had my naive sense of injustice, and I didn’t just want to let this go.

After about 20 minutes, she popped her head out and in a very monotone voice, told me I could go back to class and to let teachers know I had...

Then she went back in and closed the door before I could even think to respond. I spent the rest of my day dealing with teachers questioning me about my...

and 1 or 2 calling the front office to double check my claim that I had in fact gotten permission, and went to practice after school as normal before being...

My dad met me at the front door with a small smirk and I asked him what in the world happened because I knew he was the go-to contact for...

so I knew she called him. He explained that when she called and tried to get him to come to the school and get me and talked about punishments for...

he immediately began to argue with her and admitted he raised his voice quite a bit, asking why I wasn’t allowed to wear my sport uniform that

the school provided to me as a dress requirement at my golf practice, and mentioned taking this all the way to the school board and resolving this “obvious favoritism”.

He then asked me not to do that again, but that he was proud of me, and told me “I know I had told you never to start a fight,...

Edit: I’m sorry for hurting my fellow 20 somethings with the reminder that 2013 was 8 years ago, please don’t look for gray hairs in the mirror for too long.

Edit 2: an even deeper apology for my 30-60 year olds who I offended even further with my edit

Edit 3: I do actually need to clear something up. The band did not wear those heavy wool uniforms to school, they had their own custom shirt/nice pants combo the...

Also sorry to my 30 year olds for grouping that age range, sorry to my 60+ for not mentioning it, those responsible for sacking those who are responsible for the...

The Injustice

The sophomore wasn’t a regular skirt-wearer, but she enjoyed the occasional sun dress. One September day, she wore a casual dress to school, only to be sent home because it was four inches above the knee, the dress code allowed no more than two.

She pointed out that cheerleaders and dancers wore outfits well above mid-thigh every Friday, yet faced no reprimand. The explanation was simple: “Students can wear official school uniforms.” At the time, she wasn’t part of any group that qualified. Golf practice didn’t count, apparently.

The injustice simmered. She was frustrated, anxious, and ready to fight but in a way that wouldn’t get her into actual trouble. Her mind started turning toward the next Friday and the recent upgrade to the girls’ golf uniforms: short-sleeved polo and skort.

The skort looked like a skirt but included built-in shorts and they were even shorter than the average cheerleader skirt.

Malicious Compliance

Friday arrived, and she walked into school in her golf uniform, much to her parents’ surprise. “Fridays, we can wear our uniforms to class,” she explained. No argument from home.

By second period, she was summoned to the assistant principal’s office, accused of deliberately disobeying the prior warning. Threats of suspension and lectures about respecting authority followed.

Finally, she spoke up: “This is my school golf uniform. You said official school uniforms are allowed, why are cheerleaders okay and mine isn’t? This isn’t even a skirt, it’s a skort with shorts built in.”

The assistant principal froze, then ordered her to sit in the lobby while she called her parents. The student quietly waited, chatting with the secretary and trying not to cry, as the anxiety of standing up to authority weighed heavily.

Victory

About twenty minutes later, the assistant principal returned and gave a monotone permission to continue wearing the uniform to class, instructing teachers to honor it. The rest of the day involved teachers double-checking, but she went to golf practice afterward, victorious.

At home, her dad explained that he had loudly argued with the principal about favoritism and had insisted on defending the uniform rule. “I knew I had told you never to start a fight, but to always fight back… you damn sure took the advice,” he said with a smirk.

See what others had to share with OP:

Commenters loved the mix of adolescent defiance and smart strategy.

Nat1CommonSense − Great story, great MC, but let’s not gloss over the fact your dad was prepared for you to throw down at school😂

[Reddit User] − Here's a question for Americans. I'm Irish and cheerleading is not a thing here.

Is it really that much of a thing in schools as tv programmes would have us believe?​ I'm afraid if I google 'cheerleaders/high school/America' I'll end up divorced.

Theresajhall − Personally I never understood why it okay for things like cheerleaders uniforms to break the rules but nothing else can.

And Personally this fear of girls bodies in school needs to go then we wouldn't have half the dress code problems we have.

Others, questioned why cheerleader uniforms are allowed to break rules while other students aren’t, highlighting ongoing dress code frustrations.

Idenwen − Like your style. But what never ever makes it into my brain is why in hell such regulations exist in the first place.

My school times where "wear whatever you like" and the last people on earth who should dare to have a word about it where teachers.

KazukiDC − Waaaaay back in 2013. Lol

orionterron99 − Did no one address the issue that your school uniform. was so lascivious that teachers thought it broke the rules? That seems like a big issue that needs...

whoozywhatzitnow − OP:” Waaaaay back in 2013 I was a sophomore in high school “ Also OP:”

Sorry for the reminder that 2013 was 8 years ago, don’t look for gray hairs too long” Me a HS graduate class of 91: I feel old reading this :’(

Katiebug1987 − Love it! Love even more that your dad had your back. So many of these stories I read, the parents are total jerks.

[Reddit User] − You don’t happen to live in SE Texas do ya? Sounds exactly like our schools down here.

Fall sports i. e. football and everything associated with it wore their skimpy uniforms but it was the end of the universe if a girls skirt was 1/4 too short...

Some were amused by the Texas context, noting familiar experiences of fall sports uniforms bending the rules.

unepommeverte − Ok i love the story but as a former band kid i'm stuck on the part where you included band in the list of who would wear their...

did they have some sort of casual jeans/tshirt type of "uniform" because idk of any band kid who would willingly wear that expensive weirdass wool thing longer than necessary,

and idk of any band director who would willingly let anyone wear said expensive weirdass wool things outside of when it was necessary lol

This high school golfer turned a minor dress code grievance into a triumph of logic and patience. By using the school’s own rules, she exposed favoritism and proved that consistency matters.

Sometimes, the smartest way to fight authority isn’t shouting or breaking rules, it’s carefully following them to the letter. It’s a reminder that standing up for fairness, even in a skort, can leave a lasting impression. Who knew a uniform could be so powerful?

Sunny Nguyen

Sunny Nguyen

Sunny Nguyen writes for DailyHighlight.com, focusing on social issues and the stories that matter most to everyday people. She’s passionate about uncovering voices and experiences that often go unheard, blending empathy with insight in every article. Outside of work, Sunny can be found wandering galleries, sipping coffee while people-watching, or snapping photos of everyday life - always chasing moments that reveal the world in a new light.

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