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Ex-Father-In-Law Takes Him To Court, But He Turns The Tables And Walks Out With A Win

by Layla Bui
November 14, 2025
in Social Issues

Sometimes, the things we do for family come back to haunt us, even when we think they’ve been forgotten. That’s exactly what happened to one Redditor, who thought a minor mishap with their ex-father-in-law’s car door was nothing more than a blip in the past. That is, until five years later when it suddenly became the center of a legal battle.

The ex-father-in-law, who had once been amicable about the whole situation, decided to bring the case to court for a made-up $2,000 claim. But rather than backing down, the Redditor took a stand and turned the tables. Scroll down to see how a simple misunderstanding turned into an epic courtroom win.

Ex-father-in-law takes his former son-in-law to court over a door ding, only to lose and get awarded far less than he asked for

Ex-Father-In-Law Takes Him To Court, But He Turns The Tables And Walks Out With A Win
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'Ex father in law threatens me with court. Fine, we can go to court?'

A year back, my ex father in law took me to court for an incident that had happened 5 years previously.

While still married, I got into a door dinger with his jeep.

At the time I offered to buy a new door and help install it ( he is a self proclaimed mechanic and had the know how).

The project fell to the way side, the door was never purchased and never brought up again.

That is, until his duaghter and I had a falling out and we divorced 5 years later.

So I got served and taken to court for $2,000. A made up number that he felt was adequate.

During mediation, I offered him $1,500 and to never contact me again. At which he scoffed.

So I told the mediator I'd like to go before the judge.

I informed the judge of the original deal, and found a matching door from a scrap yard for $400.

The judge took my side and granted my father in law $400.

It was incredibly gratifying hearing him throw a fit in front of the judge to "go ahead and file an appeal now"

and have the judge tell him that wasn't his job.

And walking out if the courtroom as he angrily yelled at me that "he would be seeing me again." Still haven't heard back :)

Navigating the world of office politics can be challenging, but when a manager’s behavior crosses into manipulation, the situation becomes even more complex.

In this case, OP found herself dealing with a manager who disguised hostility as “harsh management.” Rather than reacting with anger or resistance, OP chose to comply but on her terms.

This approach, known as “malicious compliance,” involves following the rules while subtly turning the situation to one’s own advantage. For OP, this turned into a profitable outcome, since her contract covered overtime and weekend work at elevated pay rates.

Psychologically, OP’s decision was rooted in self‑preservation and empowerment. She recognized that her manager was trying to push her out of the job, and instead of yielding to the pressure, she turned it into an opportunity to protect herself and benefit financially.

The manager, meanwhile, overlooked OP’s contractual rights and assumed she would simply work for free. When the manager tried to impose unnecessary restrictions, OP’s calm assertion of her rights revealed her real power, she didn’t create a scene; she protected her interests while playing by the rules.

From a psychological standpoint, OP’s response is a strong example of how individuals can reclaim control in the face of manipulative or toxic behavior. In her writing for Amy Morin, psychotherapist and licensed clinical social worker, she states that “Boundaries aren’t meant to punish or change someone else’s behavior. Instead, they should be guidelines that help you maintain inner peace so you can thrive.”

Meanwhile, psychologist George K. Simon identifies “covert aggressors” who use manipulative tactics that erode others’ sense of control, and he explains that recognising those tactics is the first step to breaking free.

By applying both Morin’s boundary principle and Simon’s manipulation‑awareness framework to this situation, it becomes clear that OP’s actions weren’t reactive drama, they were strategic self‑protection. She didn’t fight fire with fire; she chose to comply while safeguarding herself, lucratively.

The manager’s attempts to make life difficult ultimately backfired, highlighting OP’s resilience and her ability to navigate workplace challenges with both head and heart.

Here’s the input from the Reddit crowd:

This group shared stories about minor accidents and how they were handled with patience and practicality

oylaura − We had a little door bumper on the freeway. We pulled off; turns out this was a 17-year-old kid with a driver's license on which the ink was...

There was a tiny scratch on her car. I gave her my insurance information and told her that if she wants to have it checked out,

let me know how much it's going to cost before she calls the insurance company and if it's not outrageous I would just pay for the damages.

I explained to her that the odds of filing a claim for something so minor would not do her insurance rates any favors.

I also was extremely careful to tell her to check with her parents first,

and if they disagreed, I would happily go through the insurance company, and that I was not trying to take advantage of her.

I never heard from her.

42Cobras − I had a lady back her car into mine...in a parking lot...while we were both in a lane of travel.

She said she didn’t want to get police involved and just took my phone number.

I was only about 16 or 17 at the time, so I didn’t know any better.

It was where my dad worked, so I went in and casually mentioned it.

He was upset I didn’t get a report, because she could easily lie now or worse.

Come that evening, the woman’s husband actually calls me and profusely apologizes for his wife.

He is clearly pissed at her for the same thing since, frankly, she was in the wrong

and would be liable for any claims I might make up afterwards. It was funny.

No joke. A few months later, the exact same thing happened in the same parking lot just a few feet away.

An older man backs into me, gets out to look, then gets back in his truck and drives off before I can say anything.

Zoreb1 − Don't know why you got down voted. Most crimes have a statute of limitations and this wasn't even a crime.

Backing up in November I accidentally hit a neighbors bumper. Only slight damage (mine looked worse).

She didn't want to get insurance involved. I told her that if the repair was a few hundred dollars I'd pay for it;

if it was a few thousand then insurance will be involved.

Haven't heard back about it though have talked to her and even sat on a chair on her lawn and had some wine.

I didn't bring it up since it is up to her to provide me the estimate.

Once we reach November again I won't feel obligated to fix it (but will if the cost is reasonable).

These commenters emphasized the importance of remaining civil and reasonable in small accidents

SSB63 − Jeep owner here, those of us who actually off road, dont worry about a ding here or there.

It's expected. And a "pick and pull" is our auto parts store. It's cheaper.

1stEleven − You should have made the case that the debt was half your exes debt, and only give him $200.

markedasred − I pulled out from a side street and the guy in his old Mercedes was driving really slow,

so I braked and our cars touched, hardly any impact damage, but a bit of some loose trim came away from his.

I picked it up, wiped it on my shirt and pressed it back in place.

I asked him what he wanted to do, and he said, Give me £20 for the can of paint and my time.

I agreed, he pulled over, I drove to the cash point and he was there when I got back, took the money, thanked me and drove off.

We can be civil about these things.

This group shared stories about minor accidents or dings and how they led to unexpected situations

redditorial_comment − One November evening 30 years ago I stopped at a light with a slight downhill

on a very slippery night( sudden black ice is a b__ch).

While I'm waiting for it to change I see a 4x4 behind me coming around a turn towards the light. He's going too fast I said.

I had no time to start up again so I released the brake pedal and reached over and held my 6 year olds head back against his seat.

To his credit he almost got stopped so he only just booped the bumper enough to send me 5 feet or so

( would have been less if it wasn't so slippery) the kids fine I'm fine so I get out to check it out.

The kids driving the 4x4 is upset as it's the first time his dad let him drive the truck.

I look over the damage aaaand there's a tiny scratch on my s__tty bumper( was an old k car beater) and a tiny rub of black paint on his bumper.

I reached down and rubbed off the paint spot and saw no scratches under it so I said to him," didn't happen drive slower next time" then I drove off.

maniaxuk − Need to be careful, you never know where door dings are going to lead

A friend of mine opened his door onto the car next to him in his work car park.

There was no actual damage but it did leave a bit of a scuff mark that he offered to spend his lunchtime trying to clean up which the other driver...

That was about 8 years ago, he's now living with her and has 2 children with her :)

[Reddit User] − Statute of limitations is only 2 years on stuff like this. You should have told him to pound sand and asked the judge to dismiss the case.

These commenters reflected on legal matters or settlements

Alert-Potato − If he had been a remotely reasonable person, he could have asked for the market rate

for a mechanic’s wage for the length of time needed to do the replacement

as well to cover his time and probably gotten it. Not acting like a total d__k can get you far in life.

[Reddit User] − Here in England & Wales a party can make what's called a "Part 36 offer to settle".

Basically, when you win a case the normal rule is that the loser pays the winner's reasonable costs.

The judge has absolute discretion on the costs to award, and these are either assessed on the "standard basis" or the "indemnity basis".

Coats can be high and are one of the main barriers to people pursuing or defending litigation

- and a big weapon to use to pursuade people to drop s__tty claims.

Standard basis means that if there's uncertainty over whether or not an incurred cost (say, paying an expert witness) was "reasonable",

the judge will decide in favour of the paying party (the loser) i.e. they won't have to pay for that thing.

Indemnity basis however means the other way round - the decision goes in favour of the receiving party (the winner).

This overall means the loser has to pay more costs and is saved for where the loser has after unreasonably etc.

Settlement offers can be made by either side to the other, and are made "without prejudice save as to costs,"

which means genuine offers/attempts to negotiate a settlement can't be presented to the judge to say

"LOOK THEY OFFERED SETTLEMENT, THEY MUST ADMIT FAULT."

The offers are only shown to the judge after judgment has been made, if costs are disputed.

Anyway, a Part 36 Offer is a specific mechanism where one party offers a settlement,

specifically says it's a Part 36 offer, and the other side has a fixed amount of time to accept that offer.

If they accept it then fine, settlement is paid and it doesn't go any further in Court.

However, if the winner declines the offer but the Court awards them a similar amount to, or less than, the offer

(or, if the winner made the offer like, 'pay us or losses of £10,000 and we'll drop things',

and the loser declines the offer and judgment is for a similar amount or more)

then the party who declines the offer has to pay all the legal costs on the indemnity basis.

This is beautiful because it forces the party to actually consider the offer and the likelihood of getting more or less,

rather than just barrelling on on whatever chance of getting more.

So here, if there were lawyers involved, even though your ex-father-in-law "won",

because he was awarded less than you offered then he would have to pay all his own legal costs plus yours,

incurred after the offer, which would likely be more than the award

Goalie_deacon − I still feel the judge didn't get it right.

Since the incident happen when OP was married to ex-fil's daughter, then she should be held to half.

OP should've only had to pay $200, and ex-fil can go after his daughter for the other $200. That's my opinion.

By standing firm and presenting the facts, OP not only managed to save themselves money but also saw the court side with them. The ex-father-in-law’s threats turned out to be empty, and OP walked out of the courtroom with a satisfying victory.

Sometimes the best way to deal with difficult people is by holding your ground and letting the legal system work in your favor. What do you think? Did OP handle this situation well, or was there a better way to approach it? Share your thoughts below!

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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