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Office Bully Laughs When Coworker Quits, Can’t Believe His Reputation Follows Him

by Annie Nguyen
December 1, 2025
in Social Issues

Some people seem to thrive on making others miserable, and it’s always surprising how long they can get away with it. Workplace bullies often hide behind their competence, leaving everyone around them walking on eggshells. Most of us hope that karma eventually catches up, but it doesn’t always happen quickly.

One Redditor discovered that karma has its own timing. After dealing with a particularly ruthless colleague during a trial period at a highly specialized company, he moved on to a new job.

Months later, that same colleague crossed paths with him in an unexpected way, and what happened next completely shifted the course of the bully’s career.

The story sparked a lot of debate online, and the community’s reactions were priceless. Scroll down to see how everything unfolded and whether justice was finally served.

A young professional dodges a toxic colleague, only to see him resurface in her new workplace

Office Bully Laughs When Coworker Quits, Can’t Believe His Reputation Follows Him
not the actual photo

Man Bullies Coworkers for Years, Then Wonders Why the Industry Won’t Hire Him

So to preface, I know I'm something of a nepo baby, but it is what it is.

My mom is incredibly successful in a very niche, but very lucrative field of business.

This allowed my dad to be a SAHD & for me & my siblings to get a good education.

When I graduated from college I decided to go into the same field as my mom.

While I love her & our relationship is good, I very much did not want to only be viewed as her kid,

or receive special treatment due to how well regarded she is, so I use my dad's surname,

and generally keep who my mom is to myself. I also avoided coming to work for her.

In my field & country it's generally accepted that people are hired for a trial period, at the end of which either the employee or employer can cut ties with...

So anyway I went to work at one company (again I'll remind you - very niche market, very few employment opportunities).

I went in for my trial period and everyone seemed pretty happy with me.

I put out some fires & one superior describes me as "a workhorse" because I'm first to the office, last out the door.

It goes pretty well. Except for one colleague in my team.

This dude is a HUGE jerk.

I'm a bit of a people pleaser and try to be on good terms with everyone, but Jerk will have NONE of it. Dude is incredibly rude.

He keeps being very confrontational.

Like if a colleague (not just me) was getting any sort of acknowledgment, Jerk would belittle them and their accomplishment.

If someone was saying they had a rough time with something, Jerk would pop up going "oh yeah I did that a while back it was SUPER EASY."

Whenever someone tried talking about future plans with me, Jerk would go "oh yeah we'll see about that".

He also apparently says some very unkind things about my appearance and masculinity, but those at least he had the decency to say behind my back, I suppose, and I...

Like dude was incredibly mean, for apparently no reason except trying to make himself look better by making everyone else look worse.

This one thing wasn't true to me specifically because I'm male, but his meanness seemed to apply especially to women.

A few comments were about how working in this field isn't for moms and they should be raising kids or whatever, and some other very bad stuff.

But management seemed pretty content keeping him around because apparently he was a pretty good worker and they liked that he was ambitious. Fine.

My trial period ends. I am offered a permanent position, but decide this is not the place for me, as I don't love being anybody's workhorse, and have very little...

I respectfully inform them I will not be sticking around and go find work elsewhere.

On my last day I come to say goodbye. Management says they're sorry to see me go.

Colleagues wish me well & say they're gonna miss me.

Jerk goes "HA! Told you OP wasn't gonna stick around! Good riddance! Maybe this field isn't for you either!"

Very loudly. I leave. I'm not very confrontational & I don't have to deal with him anymore anyway, so I just go.

Some time goes by, I am now employed elsewhere. I'm happy & doing well.

I love my work & my colleagues. I've been promoted, and I don't really think about Jerk anymore, except...

Apparently there's a relative influx of applicants from Jerk's company? (relative because again - very niche market).

Whatever. My boss knows I did a trial period over there, so whenever an applicant comes up - he asks me about my experience with them.

There are very few people I dislike, so when asked, I usually give my honest opinion, which is usually very positive.

But guess who's application we suddenly receive?

It's Jerk! My boss asks for my opinion, and I say "look, I have personal feelings about this person, and I can't be objective".

Boss, knowing just how positive I usually am about basically everyone, asks me what's up, and eventually I tell him.

I tell him everything. Jerk, obviously, doesn't get hired. I assume that's the end of that.

Few days later we have family dinner. My mom goes "wait, you had a trial period at that company, right?

Do you know Jerk?" Well my mom knew there was a person I really didn't get along with at that company and the s__tty things they did.

I tell her it was him. Obviously - she ain't gonna hire him either, especially given his views on women.

So my company ends up hiring one of Jerk's company's former workers.

Me & her are on great terms and this is how I discover what happened there - Jerk got promoted and that made a bunch of people wanna leave.

This caused management to look into why, and why strong applicants were leaving after their trial period was over.

Turned out it was Jerk.

Someone had a talk with him and from what I gather he was not receptive to criticism. He was let go.

This is when he applied to the company I work for & to my mom's.

From what I understand he no longer works in our field (there are, as I mentioned, not many employers around), but unfortunately I have no idea what he does do.

Will update if I find out.
It’s tempting to see this story as simple “karma,” but it actually highlights deeper workplace dynamics around toxic employees, team culture, and organizational health.

What the Redditor faced qualifies as “toxic workplace behavior.” Such employees don’t just make life miserable; they erode trust, damage morale, and impose hidden costs on organizations.

Research shows that rooting out toxic employees can be more valuable than keeping a top-performing “superstar,” because toxicity reduces retention, collaboration, and overall team performance.

In practical terms, toxic coworkers increase turnover and organizational costs. A CMSWire report notes that good employees are 54% more likely to leave if a toxic worker is present, costing roughly $12,800 per lost team member.

This matches the Redditor’s story, where multiple strong applicants eventually left, prompting management to investigate and ultimately remove the disruptive employee.

Toxicity also creates emotional exhaustion and cynicism. A 2024 study in BMC Nursing showed that exposure to toxic colleagues raises stress, reduces engagement, and harms team cohesion.

Similarly, a Vietnamese review on workplace mental health emphasizes that poor psychological environments directly affect both employees’ well-being and organizational performance.

The Redditor didn’t plot revenge; they shared honest feedback when asked, which helped employers make informed hiring decisions. Experts advise documenting problematic behaviors, speaking factually, and prioritizing psychological safety.

In this case, transparency acted as a protective mechanism, preventing further harm to teams and future colleagues.

Ultimately, the story demonstrates that competence alone isn’t enough; unchecked toxic behavior erodes intangible assets like trust, team cohesion, and retention.

In tight-knit, niche industries, reputations travel fast, and repeated patterns of disrespect eventually catch up with employees.

The outcome here wasn’t dramatic vengeance but the natural consequence of sustained harmful behavior, a clear example of how organizational health often outweighs individual performance.

Here’s what the community had to contribute:

These Redditors agree the jerk’s own attitude caused his downfall, not the OP

grumoytoad − Maybe this field wasn’t for him! 🤣

Mapilean − That was satisfactory. Dude made his bed and now has to sleep in it. Pity Management enabled him for so long.

God1101 − This isn't really petty revenge. He kinda torpedoed himself with his attitude

HappyIntrovertDev - Love the story even though I am not sure it qualifies as petty revenge.

It is more like just karma finally caught up with him.

Sadly, these kinds of people never learn and never admit that they could be the problem

These users shared stories of toxic coworkers and how they affected workplaces.

my_milkshakes − I had a coworker who would purposely exclude me in conversations and invites. I’d be standing next to somebody talking and she’d walk up and pretend I wasn’t...

Only talking to or inviting the other person to some after work event and not even look at me. She was rude and aggressive and would try to get people...

Fast forward a few years and she applied for a promotion to manager at my new company.

I was a regional supervisor so, my director saw we both worked at the same company and asked my opinion.

Sobakee − I enjoyed your story, but man does it bring back unpleasant memories for me.

After supervising a manufacturing plant laboratory, I got promoted to manager of our central laboratory.

It seems like every lab had 1 if not 2 jerks in them. I felt like I was in middle school with the jealous remarks, gossip, misogyny etc.

Unfortunately for me, all I was able to do was wait them out as all but 1 were nearing retirement.

CraigLake − I had this coworker! ! He was absolutely awful. Always negative and would directly belittle and insult new employees who were trying to learn the work.

At that point in my life I had never worked with someone like that and couldn’t believe people like that really existed. He drove several new employees away while I...

My supervisor tried to get him canned on some technicalities but the union stepped in and my supervisor was reprimanded for it. She left as well.

I still can’t wrap my head around how that’s a good way to live. I guess some miserable people need to create misery.

taintsauce - I had a jerk kinda like this in an old job. Manager of another team we worked with.

He wasn't as obviously s__tty, but would subtly put people down and do weird stuff like try and backchannel through employees in other teams to get access to/info on their...

or get them to make changes the employee's manager didn't approve of, or plain try to just get them to work on his stuff for free.

Jerk got promoted to a higher-level management position and I kid you not three *entire teams*, including ours, managed to get themselves moved to other departments/directors to avoid his b__lshit.

Cut the headcount of his shiny new department by at least 50%, not to mention budget from the money those teams were bringing in.

He's, unfortunately, still jerking around over there though.

This commenter made a sarcastic joke about the jerk (jerk store)

Andysue28 − Maybe he can get a job at the jerk store, they called and said they were all out.

These users noted using LinkedIn strategically and niche market context

LawfulnessPossible20 − There are some people I connect with on LinkedIn just to make sure I will never need to work with them again.

adfx − I have a feeling you work in a very niche market

This user doubted whether the revenge was truly petty or impactful

Great-Willingness-57 − nice story but i dont think you did much to hurt Jerk nor was very it petty. Was hopping he got banned from the industry and had to...

This commenter tied the story to toxic employee patterns in companies

thwgrandpigeon − There's a ted talk about the trap of low trust high competence employees and how they ruin companies. This is a great example of that.

This user hoped the jerk would see the story and reflect on their attitude

[Reddit User] − Hope Jerk reads this, and realizes it is all about him and his crappy attitude.

This user clarified that the OP isn’t technically a nepo baby.

apietenpol − FYI - from my understanding of the definition, you aren't a nepo baby. If you'd have been hired because of your last name or because your mom pulled...

In the end, this story isn’t about revenge; it’s about consequences catching up with someone who underestimated the impact of their own behavior. One honest assessment from a trusted colleague and the ripple effect through a small professional network was enough to close doors that remained open far too long.

Do you think the OP’s honesty was fair or too harsh? How would you handle a colleague whose attitude threatens a team’s morale? Share your thoughts below!

Annie Nguyen

Annie Nguyen

Hi, I'm Annie Nguyen. I'm a freelance writer and editor for Daily Highlight with experience across lifestyle, wellness, and personal growth publications. Living in San Francisco gives me endless inspiration, from cozy coffee shop corners to weekend hikes along the coast. Thanks for reading!

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