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Boss Fires Employee, Then Asks For Access Codes Months Later

by Leona Pham
January 19, 2026
in Social Issues

Most people assume that once you’re fired or laid off, your responsibilities end the moment you walk out the door. That’s usually how it works, especially when there’s no proper handoff or follow-up.

For this Redditor, that assumption was tested months after losing his job. After being cut loose with minimal communication and no offboarding, he suddenly received a message from his former boss asking for help accessing something work-related. The request was casual, almost dismissive of how things ended.

Now he’s questioning whether refusing to respond makes him unreasonable or simply cautious. Keep reading to see what access his boss wanted and why the timing made it feel especially inappropriate.

A fired employee is contacted months later when a former boss needs access codes

Boss Fires Employee, Then Asks For Access Codes Months Later
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'AITA if I don’t provide the code my boss needs after they fired me?'

I got fired / laid off 3 months ago.

They made it look like a lay off because they wanted someone with more expertise than a senior manager,

more like a director level and there was nothing I could do.

I knew that was a BS excuse as they hired a junior level who was trained to fill my position.

My last two weeks my boss didn’t even ask for anything, he avoided any communication and directed me to HR if I wanted communication.

No exit or off boarding was done as he considered himself overqualified to do an off boarding with me.

Fast forward 3 months after my last day I received a message from him trying to log in to one of the systems

and because of the 2 step verification the second step comes to my phone.

He tried like 2 days and then reached out to me like nothing and wanted me to provide the code.

I ignored it completely but now I am wondering if I should have given the code to him??!!

EDIT: I did say system but it is not a system where you have a license,

it’s more like a website where I created an account to pay the states quarterly.

Anyone from my company can create a new account if they provide EIN and some security questions.

He is just trying to use my username and password.

When someone leaves a job, whether through resignation, layoff, or termination, the relationship between employer and employee changes legally and operationally.

Employers are expected to handle the employee’s departure in a structured way, called offboarding, which includes formally closing access to company systems and data. This process helps ensure security, compliance, and operational continuity after the employee is gone.

Practices repeatedly recommended by security and HR experts include revoking access to systems, deactivating credentials, and changing passwords immediately upon termination.

These steps protect company data and ensure that former employees no longer have login privileges, even if they previously had multi-factor authentication set up on their devices.

For example, one cybersecurity guide explains that offboarding should disable remote access, network accounts, cloud services, and any authentication tied to former employees so that the organization’s infrastructure remains protected.

Another resource notes that properly managed offboarding even includes revoking access to SaaS tools, email accounts, and internal collaboration platforms.

Best practices in professional offboarding also highlight that personal devices should not be used as corporate authentication tools after someone leaves the company.

Using a former employee’s phone for two-factor codes introduces security risks and violates standard security protocols precisely because offboarding is supposed to end access when someone is no longer employed.

In other words, once the OP’s employment ended, the former employer’s expectation that he should still provide access codes tied to his personal device went against typical security norms.

Proper procedure involves revoking and resetting access credentials on the employer’s side rather than asking an ex-employee to continue facilitating access from their personal account.

Additionally, if the system in question allows any authorized person (with the company’s EIN and security answers) to create a new account, that underscores that the employer did not need to depend on the OP’s credentials in the first place.

That strengthens the argument that providing a code after the fact was unnecessary and potentially risky for both parties.

Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

These commenters said any help now requires pay or HR involvement

HMS_Slartibartfast − NTA. Refer him to HR. Let him know HR will have to contact you for a contractor position,

but you are very generous in your rates...

sweetestpeony − NTA, if they want the code they should pay you for it.

(Also, it took them three months to realize the two-step verification was going to your phone? Yikes.)

[Reddit User] − I'm overqualified to provide that info, contact HR. NTA

These commenters said poor offboarding makes it fully the company’s problem

Low-Programmer-7447 − NTA. You owe them nothing. They had enough time for a handover, but they weren’t even communicating with you.

Tishers − That is no longer your problem.

My former employer laid off half of the US workforce and all of our overseas staff after we were bought by another company.

Now they are scrambling to figure out where the project statuses are for things that were in-flight.

Their customers are furious that they were left hanging.

They called me to ask if I could forward them any emails I might have kept a copy of.

I informed them that it was all on my old laptop that I mailed back to them...

A laptop they cannot find now. We received no prior notice, they owned our company for one week before terminating all of us.

I hope that they continue to suffer for their short-sightedness.

One of the employees who was retained told me about their first staff meeting after the rest of us were let-go.

They said that they did the terminations the way they did for the 'shock value' to those who remained.

It certainly worked; They are leaving at the first chance they get.

They are down to three of the six people who were kept on. At least I got a severance package out of it.

ECTO--1984 − You owe them nothing. It's their problem to sort out. Block and ignore future contact. NTA

These commenters flagged serious security flaws using personal devices

No-Comfortable-3918 − NTA but this company has bigger problems if system authentication requires verification to personal, not company, phones.

Large-Client-6024 − Reason #238 why you never use personal equipment for work.

If the job requires any equipment, they need to supply it. It doesn't matter if it's a phone, tools, or your personal vehicle.

These commenters framed it as karma and urged ignoring or blocking

gk052002 − NTA. This is KARMA and he deserves it.

If he would properly communicate the termination of job then yes you should have sent the code.

But he has treated you bad and you are just responding to the ignorance with ignorance.

Just delete that code so he never gets it and move on with your life

effects_junkie − Block whatever number the 2 factor Authentication is coming in. Block his number. Send the emails to the spam folder.

They already washed their hands of you. Time to repay the favor.

Failure to plan ahead on their part does not constitute an emergency on your part.

These commenters warned of risk and advised cutting contact entirely

SnoopyisCute − NTA He's up to no good. Your company has an IT person that can get into your login.

Whatever he's doing, he's trying to put some kind of trail under your name and given his treatment in your final days,

he should know the last person that would want to help him is one he deemed too lowly to offboard.

AJourneyer − My reply would be (has been in a similar situation)

Ex-Boss: It is not appropriate to contact me for information regarding employment

that was terminated in a non-amicable fashion three months ago.

Kindly do not contact me again. And that's it. And completely within your rights. NTA

These commenters stressed you owe nothing after termination

Grand-Amphibian-3887 − F__k em! My sister was a 25-year director of a prenatal center for a huge hospital with 400 nurses under supervision.

She built the unit into one of the best neonatal units in the midwest.

Same thing. She got letters from every one of them saying she was the best nurse manager they ever had they were all crying.

They hired a woman half her age that she trained as the new director.

Then they hired an additional director to help her because she had no idea what she was doing.

Then they asked my sister to come back to work with them because things were so screwed up. She told them to f__k off!

atmasabr − I ignored it completely but now I am wondering if I should have given the code to him?!!

NTA. Oh, no. He's overqualified enough to direct himself to HR.

If he didn't have the time and energy to force you to speak to HR and do exactly as they said, too bad.

You should, however, answer any calls from HR.

MsMarisol2023 − No, you don’t work there anymore, not your monkeys, not your circus.

Most readers agreed this was procedural. Once employment ended without proper offboarding, responsibility shifted entirely to the company. Ignoring the request wasn’t cruelty; it was caution.

Should former employees feel compelled to fix problems they were never asked to hand over? Or is this exactly why processes exist in the first place? If your old boss texted for access months later, would you respond or let HR handle it? Share your take below.

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Leona Pham

Leona Pham

Hi, I'm Leona. I'm a writer for Daily Highlight and have had my work published in a variety of other media outlets. I'm also a New York-based author, and am always interested in new opportunities to share my work with the world. When I'm not writing, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. Thanks for reading!

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