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Professor Says He “Doesn’t Believe In Special Treatment,” Student Reports Him

by Layla Bui
March 8, 2026
in Social Issues

Access to education is not supposed to depend on perfect health. Universities put formal accommodation systems in place precisely so students with documented disabilities can succeed without being penalized for circumstances beyond their control.

This 21-year-old psychology major says she has consistently followed the proper process for receiving accommodations that allow online submissions and recorded lectures during hospitalizations. Most professors have complied without issue.

One, however, allegedly dismissed her paperwork as “special treatment” and deducted 20% from a major assignment because it was not handed in physically while she was hospitalized.

After reporting him to the disability office, she was accused of making him “look bad.” Scroll down to decide whether she overreacted or stood up for her rights.

A student reported her professor after he refused legally approved accommodations

Professor Says He “Doesn’t Believe In Special Treatment,” Student Reports Him
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'AITA for reporting my professor for refusing to accommodate my disability?'

I (21F) am a Canadian university student, majoring in psychology with an 87% average.

I have a documented disability that frequently requires hospitalization, which is why I need certain accommodations,

like being allowed to submit assignments online and recording lectures if I’m too ill to attend.

With these in place, I’ve been able to keep up my grades.

This semester, I’m taking an elective course, as you have to take several to graduate, taught by Dr. X (70sM).

At the beginning of the semester, I submitted all the paperwork for my accommodations, as I do for every class.

These accommodations aren’t anything excessive—just being allowed to submit work online without penalty

and being sent a recording lectures in case I’m hospitalized or unable to attend in person.

Other professors this semester have gone above and beyond and I couldn't be more happy with them!

Dr. X however was immediately dismissive and told me he “didn’t believe in special treatment”

and that I should “learn to prioritize attending class like everyone else.”

I tried explaining that my condition makes it impossible for me to always attend in person

and that these accommodations are necessary for me to succeed.

He said I was using my disability as a crutch and that “life doesn’t hand out exceptions.”

I emailed him afterward to clarify and ask again that he respect the accommodations.

He responded that I “should be grateful” he hadn’t already penalized me for missing

one of his lectures and that “in the real world, there are no special privileges.”

This honestly broke me because I’ve worked so hard to keep my grades up despite my condition.

Things escalated during a major assignment.

I had submitted it online, as per my accommodation, because I was hospitalized at the time.

Dr. X deducted 20% from my grade, moving an 80 I'd earned to a 60, saying it was late because I didn’t submit it in person.

I tried to talk to him about it, but he refused to budge and said I should’ve found a way to submit it in person.

I reminded him that my accommodations allow for online submissions,

and he just brushed it off, saying I should’ve figured out another way.

At that point, I reported him to the university’s disability office.

They were really supportive and told me he was absolutely in the wrong.

A few days later, yesterday, Dr. X pulled me aside after lecture, which I attended in person,

and said I had “made him look bad” by going to the administration.

He called me entitled and said I should “suck it up and deal with life’s unfairness.”

Now, some classmates have heard about it,

and a few said I overreacted by reporting him and should’ve just accepted the situation

since it’s only one class and one professor, they keep saying I just need a 50 to pass the class.

But I don’t think I should have to accept discrimination just because this class is an elective and because I'm still passing.

My accommodations are legally required, and I’ve worked really hard to maintain my grades in spite of my health issues. AITAH?

Pain often deepens when someone’s genuine effort is dismissed as an excuse. For many students with disabilities, the real struggle is not only managing their health but also convincing others that their challenges are legitimate. When that recognition disappears, the situation can feel isolating and unfair.

In this story, the student wasn’t simply requesting convenience. She had a documented disability and had already proven her dedication by maintaining an 87% average while dealing with recurring hospitalizations.

The accommodations she requested, such as submitting assignments online or accessing recorded lectures, were approved through her university’s disability services.

From her perspective, these supports were not advantages but necessary adjustments that allowed her to demonstrate her academic ability despite medical barriers.

When the professor dismissed those accommodations and deducted 20% from an assignment submitted while she was hospitalized, the issue became more than a disagreement about classroom rules. It became a conflict between institutional policy and an individual instructor’s personal beliefs about fairness.

Situations like this often expose a deeper generational or philosophical divide. Some people were raised with the idea that perseverance means pushing through hardship without adjustments. Within that worldview, accommodations can appear like “special treatment.”

Yet modern educational systems recognize that equality does not always mean identical treatment. Sometimes fairness requires flexibility so that individuals with disabilities can participate under comparable conditions.

What one person views as a shortcut, another understands as an essential support that removes barriers unrelated to intelligence or effort.

Education experts consistently emphasize that accommodations exist to create equal access rather than reduce standards.

According to disability education resources, academic accommodations are modifications or adjustments that enable students with disabilities to participate equally in learning environments and demonstrate their abilities.

Similarly, research on accessibility in higher education explains that universities provide accommodations so students with documented disabilities can have equal opportunity to access benefits and services available to other students.

In Canada, colleges and universities also maintain disability service offices because students with disabilities have legal rights to accessible education and reasonable accommodations.

These insights highlight why the student’s decision to report the professor was not simply about protecting one grade.

Disability accommodation systems exist precisely to prevent individual instructors from deciding whether a student “deserves” support. When accommodations are officially approved, they become part of the institutional responsibility to ensure equal access.

Seen through that lens, the student’s choice to involve the university’s disability office reflects advocacy rather than entitlement. Many students with disabilities hesitate to speak up because they fear being perceived as difficult or unfair.

Yet when policies designed to protect accessibility are ignored, reporting the issue can be the only realistic way to ensure fairness.

Ultimately, this situation illustrates a broader truth about education. Equality in the classroom is not achieved by ignoring differences in health or ability. It is achieved by creating systems where every student has a genuine opportunity to succeed.

Standing up for accommodations may feel uncomfortable in the moment, but it can help ensure that future students facing similar challenges are treated with understanding rather than skepticism.

Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

These Reddit users said the professor should “suck it up” himself and that he made himself look bad

GielM − I'd reverse his statements: "Listen, buttercup! Every other professor has to deal with my legally required accomodations.

You're not special! Just suck it up and deal with life's unfairness. "

Mad_Cat_Lady − NTA I think Dr X should “suck it up and deal with life’s unfairness.”

originalgenghismom − ”…and said I had ‘made him look bad’ by going to the administration.

He called me entitled and said I should suck it up and deal with life’s unfairness’. l NTA.

You should’ve looked him in the eye and said, “You should suck it up and deal with life’s unfairness.”

CareyAHHH − "Dr. X pulled me aside after lecture, which I attended in person,

and said I had “made him look bad” by going to the administration.

He called me entitled and said I should “suck it up and deal with life’s unfairness.”

" If what he said and did looks bad, that is on him. It is like blaming security footage for making a criminal look bad.

And sounds like he needs to take his own advice and "sick it up and deal with life's unfairness. " NTA

This group urged her to document everything and report the retaliation immediately

mynameisnotjennifer1 − You need to let them know he pulled you aside and chastised you.

That’s retaliation and is not allowed. You may also need to request a grade review at the end of the class.

This is where someone like the department chair looks over your work and decides if the grade is warranted.

This professor is breaking the law (as far as I’m aware disability laws in Canada are similar to the US).

It’s going to suck because this professor has his head on backwards if he thinks disability accommodations are privileges.

It’s not a special right to need an elevator because a person’s wheelchair cannot go up stairs.

Your accommodations are different but they are no less necessary.

Stand your ground, keep records of everything, and report this professor every time you need to. NTA

Resting_NiceFace − I'm a professor. PLEASE report his recent comments to the disability office as well.

What he's doing is completely illegal and could be classed as retaliation against you.

The office needs to know exactly what he's doing in case he tries to tank your grade through other means.

Do not drop this, he is 100%wrong and you are right.

L6b1 − Document, document, document, and report him to the university disability office again,

because singling you out like this, especially in front of fellow students, counts as harrassment

and is generally 100% a violation of the university's accessibility program.

You may also have to bring this up to your uni's equivalent of the ombudsman.

Next-Drummer-9280 − Don't listen to your classmates and be sure to tell the disability office about what he said to you. NTA

These commenters emphasized that disability accommodations are legal rights, not privileges

DrTeethPhD − NTA If he whines to you again, tell him that "In the real world there are consequences for

discrimination and failing to follow both employer policy and federal and provincial legislation.

Further, he should learn to prioritize following the policy and the legislation,

and if that conflicts with his personal beliefs, he should try harder to make it work. "

[Reddit User] − Absolutely NTA. The law exists for a reason; Dr X does not get to flout it because he's an ableist a**.

I would let the university know about him pulling you aside, that's not on.

Also, you didn't make him look bad. His own discriminatory b__lshit did.

These Redditors said she did nothing wrong and that discrimination deserves consequences

TheFinalPhilter − I mad him look bad Lol he made himself look bad NTA.

Caspian4136 − NTA He was discriminating against you and you had every right to report him.

Grades in uni are important and you're doing everything you can to maintain a decent average.

This commenter encouraged her to report him every time he steps out of line

Lus_wife − The overachiever in me would be so pissed off if someone took my grade from an 80 to a 60.

I have lupus and understand your situation. He's the AH.

Victor-Grimm − NTA-Do it again anytime he tries to say anything that is not academia related.

PineappleParking6567 − Report him again for retaliatory actions. He doesn’t get a free pass from the law.

University classrooms are meant to challenge students intellectually, not create unnecessary barriers to learning. In this case, many readers felt the student simply followed the rules set by her school and advocated for herself when those rules were ignored.

Disability accommodations exist so students can succeed despite health challenges, not so they gain an advantage over others.

What do you think? Did the student do the right thing by reporting the professor, or should she have just tried to move on since it was only one course? Share your thoughts below.

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Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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