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She Demanded a Doctor for Her “Dying” Child, So the Clinic Took Her at Her Word

by Charles Butler
December 13, 2025
in Social Issues

Working in a downtown walk-in clinic teaches you things fast. Mostly patience. Sometimes restraint. And occasionally, the art of standing your ground when someone decides that rules, triage, and basic respect do not apply to them. For one registered nurse in a busy Canadian city, entitlement was not an occasional inconvenience. It was part of the nightly routine.

Patients tried to cut lines that stretched for hours. Others screamed when told registration had closed. Some crossed lines no one should ever cross. Worse, a few doctors made it harder by caving to aggressive behavior, quietly reinforcing the idea that nurses were just obstacles to be bypassed.

On one exhausting evening, all of that tension came to a head when a furious mother stormed in with her toddler and made one dramatic demand. What happened next turned into a rare and deeply satisfying moment of professional vindication.

Here is how it all unfolded.

'Lady said her child needed to go to the hospital?'

I am an RN. A few years ago, I was working at a walk in clinic in the middle of downtown in a large Canadian city.

Now, as a walk in clinic nurse, I am used to a lot of entitlement from patients,

those who believe that they can jump the line of other people who have been waiting 5+ hours to see the doctor simply

because their symptoms are more important, those that don't understand that

when we say that we have closed registration early in order to be able to close at our official time of 9:30 pm it means that they can't be seen

even if it is only 8 pm when they come in, those that have become verbally, physically, and s__ually abusive towards me if they don't get their way.

A lot of the doctors that worked with me seemed to have a lot when faced with patients' ire.

So if I told the patients that they couldn't be seen due to the clinic policy of wanting its employees to actually get sleep

before having to come back in the next morning, they would attempt to go around me and appeal to the doctor who would inevitably cave.

This angered me on a lot of levels. Firstly, these doctors were simply rewarding this disgustingly selfish behaviour by capitulating.

Secondly, they were lending credence to the belief that a lot of patients had, I was a mere subordinate to the doctor and not my own autonomous practitioner.

Thirdly, I was nurse manager of this clinic. The doctors were on call at the behest of the clinic and as such,

did not technically have authority upon our hours as nursing staff and receptionists. Fourthly, we are supposed to act as a united team.

So one particularly trying night, a lady came in with her toddler child. She came in at around 8:45, and we still had another two hours of people waiting to...

We had closed registration at 6 pm and we're not accepting any new patients.

I am in the back of the clinic performing a wound cleaning when the receptionist calls me

and asks me to come up front as there is an agressive patient demanding their child to be seen.

So I head out to the front. The lady is standing at the desk, arms folded, snapping at her child to sit still.

I glance at the child, who is sitting on a chair, swinging their legs and babbling away happily to anyone who will listen.

Eyes bright, smiling, laughing. Doesn't look unwell, I think to myself as a cursory assessment..

As soon as the lady sees me with my stethoscope, she launches her tirade.. "Doctor, my child is extremely unwell.

She has asthma and can barely breathe. She needs to be seen immediately.".

I glance deadpan back at the child who is singing loudly to herself. I look back to the lady..

"She doesn't seem to be in distress, ma'am.". The lady tenses up and stares at me as though I am a complete f__king moron.

"Well where the hell did you go to medical school?" She inquires with the auditory level of banshee.

"Kids present very differently than adults when they can't breathe. What are you, 12?"

I walk over to the child and place my hand gently on her back.

I count her respirations as she falls quiet under my touch and I observe her scapulae as they expand and contract, indicating full chest expansion.

I listen to the smooth sounds of her inspiration and expiration audible even without a stethoscope.

I observe the moistness of her conjunctivae as she rubs her eyes, and I see the glistening wetness of her tongue as she licks her lips. She's well hydrated.

"I'm not a doctor, I am a nurse," I say, as I plug my stethoscope into my ears and begin to listen to the child's lung fields.

"Of course you don't know what you're doing!!" She yells. "I didn't bring my ill child to see some stupid nurse,

I DEMAND TO SEE A DOCTOR! NOW!!! SHE NEEDS TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL AND IF SHE GETS WORSE, I'LL HAVE YOUR LICENCE."

Child's lung sounds are perfect. I lean down and smile at the child. "How are you feeling?" I ask her.

She wants my stethoscope. I hand it to her. "I'm bored," she says, understandably.

I look to the lady. "Registration closed some time ago because as you can see, we have many patients to see and will end up being here past closing.

I am afraid that we cannot see your child today. Based on my physical assessment,

I cannot triage her up the line as she does not seem to be in respiratory distress. There are several hospitals close by that I can direct you to, if...

A slow purple flush begins to crawl over her features. I smile blandly at her as I await the inevitable s__t storm about to erupt.

She walks up to me and leans into my face. I stand my ground, staring noncommitally back. The rest of the waiting room is staring intently.. "GET. THE. F__KING. DOCTOR.".

"The doctor is seeing patients, ma'am. I cannot interrupt him.".

"MY CHILD IS GOING TO DIE BECAUSE OF YOU, YOU DISGUSTING, LOW EDUCATED, PEICE OF FILTH. GETTHEFUCKINGDOCTOR!!!"

I am about to repeat my previous statement when I suddenly hear a slight cough behind me. It's the doctor.

Internally, I sag. Great. He's going to usher them in, and I get to look like an i__ot in front of everyone again..

"What seems to be the problem?" He asks, staring quizzically at the lady.

She rushes over to him and clings to his arm. "Oh, thank God, doctor. My child. She has asthma.

She has run out of her puffers and is in an attack. This.... nurse...refused to let her see you."

The doctor stands there, resolute, and disentangles his arm from her vice grip.

He takes a cursory glance at the child who has begun delightedly listening to her own stomach with my stethoscope.

He then walks over to me. Now this is a doctor whom I have not met before tonight. I prepare for the worst.. "Nurse. I assumed you performed triage?".

I nod. "Yes," I say. "I do not see any evidence of respiratory distress.". "Lung sounds?". "Non-adventitious." I say.

(Fancy way of saying clear as f__k). "Mucous membranes?" (Fancy way of asking about hydration status).

"Pink, moist.". "Capillary refill?" (Fancy way of asking about blood flow). "Immediate."

The doctor turns towards the lady. And this is when I realize that he has been watching this entire exchange from the beginning..

"I am calling you an ambulance.". The lady blinks. "What? Why?"

"You said that she needed to go to the hospital. If that is what you think, you know your child better than I do. I'd rather be safe than sorry.".

The lady looks nonplussed. "But...but...the nurse said that she isn't in distress...."

The doctor smiles humourlessly. "What, this nurse right here? The one you were accusing of negligence and lack of knowledge?

I trust this nurse's assessments. She has been very perceptive and professional for the long night that I have had the fortune to work with her.

However, she, like myself, cannot know the intricacies of your child's history.

It would be negligence indeed if we were to dismiss your concerns as a parent. Nurse, please call the ambulance."

Unable to keep the s__t eating grin off of my face, I walk to the phone. The lady is trying to argue with the doctor who is walking away.

"Best of luck to you, ma'am. I am sorry that you have had to wait so long, but it's best that we leave this to the professionals, hmm?

And a shame it is, too, as this is flu season and all of the emergency departments are full to bursting with people waiting to be seen. Prepare for a...

And with that, he returned to the examination rooms. I hung up after exiting the call with EMS. The lady was visibly shaking.

A few smiles littered the faces of those watching. "EMS should be here shortly.

If your child's status worsens, please have my receptionist call me back out. Have a good night, ma'am.". Vindication has never felt so sweet.

The Night Everything Came to a Boil

The clinic had closed registration at 6 p.m., even though it stayed open until 9:30. By 8:45, the waiting room was still packed, with nearly two hours of patients left to be seen. That was when the receptionist called the nurse to the front desk.

There stood a woman with her arms crossed, snapping at her toddler to sit still. The child, meanwhile, was happily swinging her legs, babbling, and smiling at strangers. Bright eyes. Pink cheeks. No visible distress.

The mother did not waste time. She pointed at the nurse’s stethoscope and snapped, calling her “doctor” and insisting her child was extremely ill, barely breathing, and in desperate need of immediate care.

The nurse took a calm look at the child. Nothing matched the panic in the mother’s voice. When she gently pointed that out, the woman exploded.

Insults followed fast and loud. She mocked the nurse’s education, questioned her competence, and accused her of being too young to understand medicine.

So the nurse did what nurses do. She assessed the patient.

She checked respirations. Watched chest expansion. Listened to lung sounds. Looked at hydration and circulation. Everything was normal. The child even asked to play with the stethoscope and cheerfully announced she was bored.

When told registration was closed and that her child did not qualify for urgent triage, the mother’s anger turned venomous. She demanded a doctor, threatened the nurse’s license, and screamed that her child would die because of her.

The waiting room went silent.

When the Doctor Did Not Do What She Expected

A soft cough came from behind the nurse. A doctor had been standing there, listening to everything.

The mother rushed to him, clung to his arm, and repeated her story. Asthma. No inhaler. Emergency. Negligent nurse.

Instead of ushering them back, the doctor asked one simple question. Had the nurse performed triage?

What followed was a calm, clinical exchange. Lung sounds were clear. Hydration was good. Circulation was normal. No signs of respiratory distress.

Then the doctor turned to the mother and made a decision she clearly did not expect.

He told her he was calling an ambulance.

She froze. Confused. Suddenly unsure. When she tried to backpedal and reference the nurse’s assessment, the doctor shut that door firmly.

He explained that if she believed her child needed a hospital, it would be irresponsible to dismiss her concerns. Better safe than sorry.

He praised the nurse’s professionalism, made it clear he trusted her judgment, and reminded the mother that emergency departments were overflowing due to flu season. The wait would be long.

Then he walked away.

The nurse called EMS, unable to hide her grin. The mother stood shaking, surrounded by strangers who had witnessed the entire meltdown. Vindication does not always arrive loudly. Sometimes it comes with sirens.

Why This Hit a Nerve

At its core, this was not just about one angry parent. It was about a system where nurses are routinely treated as lesser, despite being highly trained professionals who often serve as the first and most accurate line of assessment.

The mother’s behavior escalated because she believed volume could replace evidence. That shouting could override clinical judgment.

The doctor’s response flipped that dynamic. Instead of undermining the nurse, he backed her fully and followed the logic of the demand to its most inconvenient conclusion.

It was not revenge. It was consistency.

Here's the feedback from the Reddit community:

Most commenters applauded the nurse’s calm professionalism and the doctor’s solidarity.

ScourJFul − Man, I really hate that nurses get such a bad rep. My mother's a nurse and that s__t isn't easy at all.

It takes a lot of dedication and education, it's not something people just do easily.

Nurses aren't less than doctors, but just part of the overall gears that function hospitals, clinics, etc.

The idea that nurses are somehow less than doctors in the hierarchy just bother me.

Nurses are medical professionals, not personal assistants. They deserve some g__damn respect for putting themselves in situations to save lives.

Edit: For some odd reason, some people have taken my comment to mean that nurses are somehow better than doctors

and need to remind me that doctors work harder to get where they are.

My point was that nurses are such an important part yet are the most likely to get treated like s__t.

Just cause the doctor spent more time in school, doesn't mean the nurse is doing nothing.

The nurses are practically running the damn place with how much they do.

Treat them like how you would treat doctors cause nurses let doctors do what they can do.

Plus, nurses have a s__t ton of education to go through along with training. Nurses do a f__king lot.

nefhithiel − I don't even know what she wanted in this situation. Meds? Do people even use asthma meds inappropriately?

BanksKnowsBest − I want this to have taken place in Toronto. I really, really do. Regardless, absolutely glorious.

Many shared stories of nurses being dismissed, insulted, or treated like obstacles rather than clinicians. 

SirEDCaLot − Hahaha this is great The even better part is the ambulance service will charge her $500-$1000 for the ride to the hospital.

And hospital EDs are notoriously expensive, on top of the ambulance. So she's probably going to pay $1500+ and get the flu. Great job, lady!

beatokko − I'd like to see this particular kind of doctor. If they can take care of their colleagues like this, they must be great with kids.

Not_a_throwaway-edu − Clinic work really puts you in the line of all sorts of people.

It's always a challenge to be seen as glorified assistant, rather than the highly trained and experienced medical professional that you are.

I think many health professionals that are not an MD face the discrimination of being uneducated, when that's simply not true.

TBH I've seen plenty of nurses I'd trust over several doctors.

A few people working in EMS admitted the ambulance call was frustrating but still acknowledged that the mother brought it on herself. 

PlayfulClown − As someone who works in EMS, It would really rustle my jimmies if I had to show up to this call.

At the same time though she did get what she deserved.

RedBird1989 − As a paramedic, your doc is a d__k for involving us in that.

Our call volume is through the f__king roof as it is. We rarely are able to eat lunch or take a p__s.

Others simply enjoyed the poetic justice.

goatcoat − I don't understand why she didn't trust your assessment in the first place,

especially when it jived with how the daughter was acting. What did she think was going on?

E34M20 − So I'm going to choose not to believe this story. Not because of anything you've written, it's all believable. ..

Other than: to believe this story, I would have to be under the impression that such a thing as a rude Canadian actually exists. And I'm just not comfortable with...

Healthcare runs on trust, teamwork, and respect. When one of those breaks down, everything suffers. This story resonated because it showed what happens when professionals finally present a united front.

The mother wanted authority. She demanded escalation. She got exactly what she asked for.

The real lesson is simple. You cannot bully your way past clinical reality. And sometimes, the most satisfying justice is not loud or cruel. It is just letting someone live with the full weight of their own words.

So was this harmless justice, or a perfect example of malicious compliance done right?

Charles Butler

Charles Butler

Hey there, fellow spotlight seekers! As the PIC of our social issues beat—and a guy who's dived headfirst into journalism and media studies—I'm obsessed with unpacking how we chase thrills, swap stories, and tangle with the big, messy debates of inequality, justice, and resilience, whether on screens or over drinks in a dive bar. Life's an endless, twisty reel, so I love spotlighting its rawest edges in words. Growing up on early internet forums and endless news scrolls, I'm forever blending my inner fact-hoarder with the restless wanderer itching to uncover every hidden corner of the world.

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