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Teen Breaks Arm In Half, Nurse Doesn’t Believe Him So He Bends It To Prove It

by Leona Pham
November 6, 2025
in Social Issues

Being treated like a liar when you’re in intense pain is a feeling that no one should have to endure. For one teen at a summer camp in 2000, breaking their arm was only the beginning of a torturous experience. A nurse, skeptical of their injury, demanded proof before offering any pain relief, which led to a tense confrontation.

What happened next might sound unbelievable, but the teen’s reaction to the nurse’s cold demeanor was both courageous and painful. Read on to see how this 13-year-old went to extreme lengths to prove they weren’t exaggerating and what happened after that.

A 13-year-old with a freshly snapped forearm is doubted by an ER nurse, demanding proof before pain relief

Teen Breaks Arm In Half, Nurse Doesn’t Believe Him So He Bends It To Prove It
not the actual photo

'Prove I broke my arm? Sure?'

Bit of a warning for the queasy: Descriptions get a little graphic.

The background is kinda long, but it’s important to the story to understand how ridiculous this nurse was being (and how clumsy I am).

Background: Way back in the magical year of 2000, I was a teenager attending a summer camp. Usually, it was day-only.

Tons of outdoor activities: canoeing, hiking, swimming, archery, the works. I did not break my arm doing any of these.

For the older two years of kids, they would host an overnight in tents once a month. I was 13 and finally allowed to go and very excited.

Got my tent, sleeping bag and friends. The night went as you would expect when there’s 20 13-year-olds in tents with the adults nearby.

We tried to pull as many stupid stunts as we could get away with.

I got dared to stand on a picnic table and dance. (13 yr olds aren’t very creative).

So I got up there and did. In the dark. While it was raining. I did not break my arm dancing on a wet table in near darkness.

When we’d all had a good laugh, I went to step down (using the bench) and missed.

My leg plunged down in the gap between the bench and the table.

I went down and forward, hit the bench on my way, pivoted around it really fast, and landed on my outstretched hands. There was an audible snap.

My left forearm, bearing my full weight and sudden deceleration snapped in half.

Didn’t even break the skin. I remember rolling over, seeing my arm with suddenly two elbows, panicking, and pushing it back into place.

(Not perfectly, obviously. It was broken. But it was no longer at a 90 degree angle.). That’s when it started hurting. A lot.

The ambulance took forever to get to us as they kept missing the turn off for the campsite.

I found out later they drove past it for most of that time.. Eventually it arrives, I’m loaded in, and it’s off to the hospital.

When we finally arrive, it’s been about an hour since I broke my arm. I’ve been in intense pain the whole time,

and the EMTs hadn’t given me anything for it. (I don’t remember why. The whole ride is very fuzzy.)

Here’s where the malicious compliance comes in: I get brought in to the main desk/triage area.

This hag of a woman with permanent resting b__ch face starts asking me questions

while the EMTs are standing by with me after telling her what they knew. It’s a bit fuzzy, but the gist was this:

Nurse: “So, what happened?"

Me: “I fell and broke my arm. It really hurts. The EMTs said you could give me something while I wait?”

Nurse rolls eyes and makes a tut-tut noise.

Nurse: “We have to get your arm x-rayed first to make sure it’s really broken. We can’t give you anything until we’re sure. Now go take a seat.”

Me: “I’m sure. It broke in HALF.”

Nurse, smirking: “Really? You broke it in half? Prove it. I swear, I get kids like you all the time looking for drugs.”

Now, I am beyond pissed. I’ve been in agony for over an hour, and this woman is treating me like absolute garbage.

Even if it were just a sprain, shouldn’t that warrant some kind of pain management?

I’m holding my arm, think for a second, and decide: Eh, f__k it.

As the EMTs are about to interject, I raise my left arm, grab the far end of my forearm with my right hand, and PUSH.

It bends. Very, very far. Her face drains of all colour and she looks like she’s going to be sick. She immediately gets on the phone.

I’m now in ten times the amount of pain, but I’m grinning as only a s__t-disturbing teen can.

It took them less than 5 minutes to put me in a room, pump me full of morphine, set my arm in a temporary wrap.

They then x-ray me and schedule the surgery.

I had a plate and 5 screws put in, along with a full cast that I kept on for about 6 weeks.

They took the plate and pins out 6 months later. It was very painful and annoying, but other than a gnarly scar my arm is totally fine.

Thinking back on it 20 years later? Still worth it.

TL;DR Broke my forearm in half (but still intact), nurse didn’t believe me, so I bent it 90 degrees in front of her. She believed me.

Edit: A sentence. Remembering 20 years ago is hard.

Edit 2: Wow, I can't believe how this blew up! Thank you so much to the kind strangers who gave me my first silver and my first gold (x2!).

I've read through most of the comments and I'll try to answer some of the most common questions.

Edit 3: Formatting and a few minor corrections.

First, here's a photo of the scar now:

Here's the plate and screws they put in then took out:

Teen Breaks Arm In Half, Nurse Doesn’t Believe Him So He Bends It To Prove It
Plate and screws from my broken arm.

Q: How did you break your arm to do that/90 degrees is impossible.

A: Both bones in my forearm essentially shattered. They called it a greenstick fracture.

I don't know that it was exactly 90 degrees; unfortunately, I left my protractor in my other pants.

But it did look like a second elbow. That was freaky enough.

Q: What about nerve/circulation damage? A: I was really, really lucky. The doctor told me (after I came out of the surgery anesthetic)

that it was a good thing I pushed it back when I first broke it.

The position it was originally in WAS cutting off circulation and I probably would have lost the arm. That's what he told me, anyway.

Q: How did you push your arm like that through all that pain? A: I was in so much pain I was quite literally delirious.

It was a snap decision and really not smart, but I'm also proud of 13-yr old me. He was badass. I don't think I could do that now.

Q: The EMTs didn't do anything wrong, etc. A: No, they were really nice from what I remember.

Q: Where was this? A: Southern Ontario, Canada.

Q: Where were your parents? A: It was about 3am at this point. The camp had been trying to call my Dad the whole time, but he slept through it...

One of the camp counsellors rode with me in the ambulance. Apparently, he was more shaken up by the whole thing than I was.

He didn't come back for a few weeks. My Dad eventually picked up, rushed over immediately, and felt really bad.

I was already under by this point, but I woke up to him in my room. He's a good Dad.

Q: This didn't happen. A: It did! Sorry if you don't believe me, but that's okay.

In this story, a 13‑year‑old camper suffered a severe forearm fracture and endured a prolonged wait for pain relief in an emergency department. The nurse at triage allegedly doubted the injury, demanded proof, and refused analgesia until after imaging. In response, the teen, highly distressed, demonstrated the injury by bending his arm dramatically.

Within minutes, he was given morphine, placed in a cast, and scheduled for surgery. This scenario raises critical issues around patient care, pain management, and nursing judgment.

According to nursing scholar Dr. Kathleen A. Puntillo, effective pain assessment must start at the first point of contact. She writes that “unrelieved pain may progress to altered physiologic responses, including immune dysfunction and chronic pain syndromes.”

ScienceDirect highlights how inadequate pain management in emergent settings is a known risk factor for poorer outcomes. While the teen’s extreme demonstration pushed the system into action, the delay aligns with research indicating gaps in pain protocols.

From a broader perspective, the incident also touches on issues of trust and communication in healthcare. A systematic review of “patient neglect” found that nurse‑patient interactions often suffer when staff do not respond to patient expressions of pain or need, this is termed “caring neglect.” BioMed Central

In this case, the nurse appeared to assume the teenager might be “seeking drugs,” a stigma‑laden mental model that may have contributed to slower care. Indeed, literature shows that patients who are perceived (rightly or wrongly) as “difficult” are more likely to experience delays in assessment and treatment. ResearchGate

What can healthcare professionals and patients learn from this?

First, the provider’s role: Triage nurses should treat self‑reported pain, especially clinical signs of major fracture, with urgency, and initiate analgesia while diagnostics proceed. The teenager’s condition warranted immediate pain relief.

Second, the patient’s standpoint: While it is not typical or advisable to force a painful demonstration, the young patient’s case highlights the reality that when clinicians doubt patients, delayed care can result.

Third, systemic change: Hospitals should audit their pain‑assessment pathways and ensure protocols guard against bias wherein patients must prove their injuries before treatment, as this undermines both safety and dignity.

Check out how the community responded:

This group shared a mix of humor and sympathy, emphasizing how dealing with condescending medical professionals or stubborn circumstances can lead to some hilarious and satisfying outcomes

Acid_Fetish_Toy − That is hilarious and so awful. I winced. Great story OP, glad you healed well, and maybe taught that cranky nurse a lesson.

jocax188723 − It's when you reach that level of agonized pain where your judgement is ever so slightly impaired and you know it's going to hurt

but just proving somebody obnoxious hilariously wrong makes it worth it somehow. I get you, OP.

boidbreath − That's ducking beautiful Edit: First silver, thank you kind stranger.

These commenters told stories of physical pain or injury and shared how being dismissed or doubted by medical professionals made their experiences even worse

[Reddit User] − I had a similar situation in the 7th grade where I fell on my arm in gym class and my arm broke in a similar way.

The school nurse didn't believe me and was about to send me back to class with a note when she got distracted by some other kid who came in with...

By the time she got back to writing that note my arm had swollen to like twice it's size, it was only then she decided to call my parents.

Loftyjojo − My hubby cut the end of his finger off and the triage nurse insisted she had to see it first.

So he took off the towel and squirted blood on her window.

PM_ME_FOR_REFERRAL − F__k. The year 2000 was 20 years ago.

These Redditors highlighted their frustrating experiences with medical staff who didn’t believe them about their injuries

Sallux14 − Ok so this is back in 1983 when I was the grand old age of 5.

This tale gets better as it goes on and explains why I hate going to see drs and dont trust them.

Fell off PE equipment, leg going between the rungs to climb it landing on the mat belie in a heap Teacher "walks" me to the first aid area

(leg giving way with every step Teacher drives me home and gives me to my mother Mum pushes me in an old push chair to the drs

(she knows I have done something seriously wrong ) GP decides I have ligament damage and proceeds to push,

pull and twist my leg (I just remember having my head buried in my mums chest screaming)

Grandad drives me to the hospital (we had no car) to be told its broken just below the knee and get a temp plaster put on.

Go back the next day with dad borrowing grandad car.

Only for it to break down on the way home. Cranky five year old in July in a hot car with a broken leg.

Nice coach full of footballers pushed us out of traffic.

Return two weeks later to the hospital to have the plaster replaced

(I was too tall for kids crutches, too short for adults so they were putting me a plaster I could walk in).

Nurse starts up the circular saw thing used to remove plaster casts.

She gets a few inches down and I start screaming (again) to be told it doesn't hurt stop making a fuss.

Plaster removed blood all over the place and a nice 2 inch scar to prove that yes I did feel the saw slicing through my skin.

And people wonder why I wont go to the drs.

Gisch03 − Similar break the weekend before finals my freshman year of high school. Ended up having to have surgery.

I was helping my sisters’ Girl Scout troop set up a telescope, ran back to the main campsite to grab something,

and when running back out tripped over an unmarked black 550 cord guyline on a tent.

I got up, walked back to the adults and told my mom “I think I broke my arm”. I was immediately asked “why do you think that?”

Well, my smart self decided to lift the sleeve of the oversized hoodie I was wearing to show them... that was a mistake.

I looked at it, and about 2 seconds later I was passed out.

Thankfully someone caught me before I hit the ground and broke anything else.

Similar ambulance story too... campsite was across an open field from the fire station, but 911 couldn’t figure out where we were.

Once they got there and were transporting me, the ambulance got lost on some old back roads.

You could see the hospital from the campsite, and we still were lost.

No crazy ER staff... they had me in the back immediately. Tried a couple times to re set my arm normally,

then they sedated me and used this Chinese finger trap looking thing.

(The sedation didn’t work... I woke up) Ended up having surgery to put in permanent plates and screws.

In the end, I have a couple of big scars on my arm, permanent metal in my body (no, I don’t set off metal detectors) and I got out of...

KhalamMekhar − I had a snap clean through one of the bones of my wrist when I was about 9-10,

from falling off the bottom level of one of them spider-web climbing frames.

I remember my mum acting really panicked while driving to A&E,

but she kept saying along the lines of "it's probably only sprained or bruised, but let's get it checked out anyway".

Just reassuring me, only told me afterwards that she'd clearly heard the snap when I fell and was definitely not in a state to drive.

Anyways, got to the hospital and found that they just don't believe you when you self-diagnose broken bones.

They had me in a waiting room for ages, finally got to a triage nurse who felt it a bit and gave me some paracetamol and scheduled an X-ray saying:

"It could be broken but probably just sprained, we'll take a look." Wait up to an hour more

(mum exaggerates and I don't remember too well) and get into the X-ray.

Here the technician is acting real short, sits me down on a chair to take an image of one angle,

doesn't say anything, just suddenly twists my wrist to take an image at another angle.

I remember being so close to passing out from the pain of that, mum described me as instantly turning as white as the hospital walls.

This trio shared their own painful medical moments, recounting how their injuries or issues were handled poorly at first

Natnar10 − Ah man I am just imagining her face over and over! The malicious compliance was delicious! That’s the type of thing I would do. Lol

rdkitchens − I cut my leg really bad once. Down to the bone bad. 30 something stitches bad.

My mom drove me to the ER and I hobbled in shirtless cause I was using it as a tourniquet.

The lady behind the glass was ignoring me. I was talking and she literally wouldn't even look at me.

When I smacked a blood covered hand on the glass she sighed and finally looked up.

The look of bored contempt changed real quick when she saw the blood. Some people just shouldn't work in places that care for the injured.

isspecialist − Bravo OP. It's so weird that doctors and nurses have no good way of judging pain. It is so subjective.

I had a minor car accident about 10 years ago, and afterwards I felt fine except for when I kneeled down on my right knee. It hurt a LOT.

I go to my family doctor and he pushes around on my knee and looks really skeptical.

I keep telling him it doesn't hurt when I sit there or when he pokes around. Very specific place that hurts.

So I use my own hands to work around my knee and find the one little spot that hurts to push on and show him.

He pushed on it HARD and my vision blurred, my stomache turned, and I fell backwards nearly fainting.

His eyes went wide and he apologized. I remember he said "I'd call that excruciating," and I replied, "So would I".

These users admired the OP’s resilience in dealing with pain and medical staff

Ohmalley-thealliecat − I was playing softball and a girl got me in the face with the ball and I said “oh my god, I think you broke my nose!”

And the coach was like “you can’t have broken your nose from softball” so I removed my shirt from covering my nose

and all this blood and clear fluid gushed out, which it turns out, the clear fluid is from around your brain! Nice!

Anyway it was broken, right at the bridge, so the bone rather than the cartilage,

and I got out of the rest of the season of softball because another blow would’ve shattered it

XxDarkRagexX1 − Dude. That’s f__king metal I respect the F__K out of you for that lmfao. Talk about a major power move.

Was the flex fierce or foolish? Would you X-ray first next time, or badge the scar? How do you fracture-fight doubt? Snap your stories below, we’re casting the comeback!

Leona Pham

Leona Pham

Hi, I'm Leona. I'm a writer for Daily Highlight and have had my work published in a variety of other media outlets. I'm also a New York-based author, and am always interested in new opportunities to share my work with the world. When I'm not writing, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. Thanks for reading!

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