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Woman Calls Out Stranger For Fat-Shaming Her At The Store, His Wife Couldn’t Stop Laughing

by Layla Bui
November 4, 2025
in Social Issues

Sometimes, the world forgets that kindness costs nothing. After giving birth to two beautiful babies and juggling the chaos of motherhood, one woman finally started feeling good in her skin again. Shopping for new clothes should’ve been a celebration of that progress.

Instead, she found herself face-to-face with strangers who couldn’t keep their comments about her body to themselves. What they didn’t expect was how gracefully, and sharply she’d handle each situation, leaving them speechless.

One Redditor shared two real-life moments that went from humiliating to empowering in seconds

Woman Calls Out Stranger For Fat-Shaming Her At The Store, His Wife Couldn’t Stop Laughing
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'Sorry I’m “fat”?'

I have birthed two large babies, my first in 2018 (almost 8 lbs) and my second in 2020 (almost 9 lbs).

Add in COVID, my oldest (who was adopted) and a foster kiddo for a while,

needless to say I’ve had trouble losing weight and reducing my mom pooch.

But I’ve been working on it pretty hard the past few months, and I’m now noticing that a lot of my clothes are getting looser.

I decided to reward myself by getting some new clothes that fit better.

At one store, I was simply looking at some clothes when I overheard a guy say

“man, why do people look at skimpy clothes when they clearly don’t have the body for it?”

I subtly sneak a peak and I see him giving angry looks at me

(I’m the only other person in this section other than I’m assuming his wife).

Now, not trying to body shame, but this guy had NO room to be talking.

He was over here looking like Winnie the Pooh with several inches of his massive stomach on display.

I sweetly turned to him and said “I popped out two big babies, what’s your stomach’s excuse?”

His wife just about died laughing as this guy turned purple.

Later at another store trying on some dresses.

It’s one of those stores where they have a mirror in the dressing room,

but have the better multi-sided mirror and better light outside of the dressing room.

I popped out to check myself in the better mirror when a woman came over excitedly and said “ooooh congrats on the baby!”

I was obviously not thrilled because it is a bit of a sore spot with me that I DO still look pregnant after all this time.

But instead I just said “thanks! She was born in 2020!” The woman’s face fell and she scampered off.

Moral of the stories: keep your mouth shut about other people’s bodies.

Body-shaming, especially postpartum, is one of the most normalized yet emotionally damaging experiences women endure.

The Redditor’s story highlights how society often expects mothers to “bounce back,” as though childbirth and caregiving were minor detours, not life-altering events.

According to a 2022 study published in the National Institutes of Health, nearly 68.8% of women were dissatisfied with their body weight and figure after childbirth, largely driven by unrealistic beauty standards and unsolicited comments from others.

Dr. Sarah Duvall, a physical therapist and postpartum recovery expert, explains that “Many women experience abdominal separation (diastasis recti) after pregnancy, yet they’re judged as though their bodies failed. It’s not failure, it’s physiology.”

Beyond biology, the emotional impact runs deep. Clinical psychologist Dr. Jessica Alleva from Maastricht University notes that “public commentary about someone’s appearance, especially from strangers, can create lasting self-objectification and shame.”

Studies even show that such comments increase cortisol levels, reinforcing stress-related weight gain. In other words, the more society criticizes, the harder it becomes to heal.

This mom’s quick wit, though humorous, was more than a clapback, it was a self-defense mechanism.

As sociologist Dr. Susan Bordo argues in The Male Body: A New Look at Men in Public and in Private, “humor allows women to subvert power structures without open confrontation.” Her “Winnie the Pooh” quip was a sharp, socially acceptable way to reclaim dignity in an uncomfortable space.

In a world obsessed with perfection, her story reminds us of the quiet resilience behind every so-called “mom body.” It’s not about vanity, it’s survival, compassion, and a fight to exist without apology.

So next time someone feels tempted to comment on another person’s appearance, maybe they should ask themselves: What’s my stomach’s excuse?

Here’s what Redditors had to say:

These Redditors shared postpartum body stories and praised the OP’s quick wit

mobilegamegeek − Oohhh been there. You had awesome comebacks.

Edit: Just to share a similar story. After I had my daughter, we went to a birthday party

and someone looked at me and said "congrats, when are you due?" and I said "last month".

The person looked at me not understanding, until I pointed to my daughter who was in her baby carriage.

She was mortified and in 2 seconds she had just disappeared from the party.

Many-Pirate2712 − Went to my sister inlaws gender reveal and she was sitting with her friends

and they were talking about how many pregnant women were there and someone mentioned me

and sil said are you fing stupid she just had a baby. I'm sorry some women just don't bounce back after having kids.

I had 3 babies in 3 years 3 months I'm sorry that happened to you but love the comebacks

whoozywhatzitnow − I popped out 6 babies. Biggest was 8.2 and smallest was 6.1 and all close in age.

My youngest just turned 18 and I still look like I’m about 6-7 months pregnant.

I thought it was stubborn belly fat. If I gained weight, my belly got big.

If I lost weight my belly would shrink. I still looked pregnant though.

I recently found out that it’s a problem with my stomach muscles.

Technically it’s called Ventral abdominal wall laxity with Diastasis recti.

I’m not fat, it’s an undiagnosed (until now) muscle separation issue.

This group stood up against body shaming and stressed basic decency and respect

MaryGodfree − I was working at a bar one afternoon when a table of middle-aged men drunkenly

and loudly complained about their wives putting on weight after having their children.

I tried to ignore them but they just wouldn't shut up about how out of shape the wives were and eventually I just snapped.

I gave these fat asses both barrels for their hypocrisy, letting them know

that they should be ashamed of themselves for how they disrespect the mothers of their children.

I suggested they get a look in a mirror, too, since their dad bods were more keg than six-pack.

They stfu pretty good after I was finished with them.

BananaNo2916 − Big facts! When I see someone that’s comfortable in their own skin, I compliment them bc they look great!

If I see someone being kinda shy or wearing something unique I compliment them!

What was the lesson we learned as children? IF YOU HAVE NOTHING BUCE TO SAY THEN STFU!

Or something along those lines just know I’m sure you looked amazing in that dress

and as someone who has had 6 pregnancies, I get the FUPA,

but aye if the person you’re physical with loves it then eff everyone else!

I also would’ve told the husband that maybe checking out other women, albeit positive or negative,

in front of your wife is tacky and gross Winnie the Pooh (loved that btw)

Bitter-Fishing-Butt − you Do Not make pregnancy comments to a stranger unless:

a) they have explicitly said "I am pregnant" or b) they are actively giving birth in front of you

These folks celebrated humor and confidence as the best response to rude remarks

JustSendMeCatPics − When my friend was pregnant, her go-to response to people

who asked about the baby was “I’m not pregnant, I have liver failure.”

I loved it because not only did it shut people up it also made them feel super awkward.

TinyManatees − I'm a big girl, I hate shopping for clothes.

I had my first positive experience in Torrid, where the women were actually nice and enthusiastic about helping me,

whereas other stores are incredibly quick to pawn me off on someone else.

Good for you on standing up for yourself, I wish I had that kind of confidence!

[Reddit User] − I loved both your responses, especially to Mister Winnie The Pooh!

So happy his wife laughed at him, hope she didn’t pay for that later though LOL.

Seaweed8888 − Not a baby weight story. Sorry. But i was a bit overwieght all my Life. Still am.

Having some medical and/or body issues. Went to one store once. Always Just passed.

They had exactly what i wanted. A dress. As soon as I stepped in the lady checked me out.

"I am sorry, we do not have XXL sizes." I was a size M/L.

"You can not try anything as you will tear it and stretch it. And I also don't think you have the money for it."

I had. Not that expensive store. I said. . well then. Such a shame. And left.

Went to some other store with similar things. Spent half of my paycheck on clothes there. I was working as a teen.

The lady there was so cool and nice. Told her the story after paying. She gave me a hug.

Kindness costs nothing, and silence costs even less. Would you have had the courage to fire back like she did, or would you have walked away?

Either way, her story proves one thing, confidence after cruelty is the sweetest revenge.

 

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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