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He Nearly Stopped Breathing After A Coworker’s Cupcake, Now Everyone Thinks He’s The Problem

by Katy Nguyen
October 20, 2025
in Social Issues

Navigating office politics is hard enough without throwing a life-threatening allergy into the mix. Add in a slightly overfriendly boss and a jealous coworker, and you’ve got a recipe for chaos, literally.

When a young intern suffered a severe allergic reaction after eating cupcakes labeled as “dairy-free,” the fallout was swift and serious. A coworker lost her job, tensions exploded, and the intern’s life became far more complicated than he ever expected.

But was it justice, or just another office misunderstanding gone too far?

He Nearly Stopped Breathing After A Coworker’s Cupcake, Now Everyone Thinks He’s The Problem
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'AITA for getting a coworker fired for “accidentally” making me have an allergic reaction?'

I (19M) am an intern at an office and last week we had a potluck/celebrating a manager coming back from maternity leave.

Well, my supervisor “Mr.K” is a little creepy but not concerningly. He just does weird things like, he asked for my social media which I guess isn’t that strange but...

It’s made some of the other interns not like me. “Sarah” in particular doesn’t like me.

I think she feels slighted because she definitely works the hardest out of all the interns but I’m given most of the praise and attention for the above reasons.

I let everyone know I’m allergic to milk not lactose intolerant and guess who made cupcakes that were “dairy free”.

Now, I don’t know if she intentionally lied, but she kept trying to get me to eat one of the red velvet cupcakes and I had an allergic reaction.

I always keep an EpiPen but I still had to go to the hospital because I was my throat and tongue swelled.

Sarah acted like she was so sorry saying that she used dairy free cream cheese. Mr.K went with me to the hospital and took me home.

I took off a few days and when I came back, Sarah was fired, I only knew after I asked someone I was kind of on good terms with but...

They think Sarah was fired unfairly and if it had been anyone else nothing that serious would have happened.

Either way the only reason I’m happy I got her fired is because of her Mr.K now has my address, and for all we know she could have been fired...

Edit: I guess it’s confusing people but I meant I’m happy she got fired because he now knows where I live meaning I DON'T want him having my address but...

Basically I meant she got what she deserved even though I don’t have 100 proof it wasn’t an accident it’s still made my life less private now.

This story captures the messy intersection of workplace favoritism, jealousy, and safety. What began as a potluck celebration spiraled into a professional fallout, an allergic reaction that exposed deeper dysfunction.

The intern’s medical emergency wasn’t just about dairy; it was about how blurred boundaries and unspoken power dynamics can poison an office faster than spoiled milk.

Favoritism from a superior often warps how colleagues perceive fairness. “Sarah” might have seen the intern’s special treatment as proof of bias, while management viewed her “accident” through the lens of potential liability.

According to Dr. Marcia Reynolds, a leadership and workplace behavior expert, “When you merely listen, you’re processing information through your own filters… When you receive, you create space for genuine understanding and connection.”

Her insight reflects what’s missing here, real dialogue and emotional clarity. Instead of communication, assumptions and resentments took over.

According to a recent Resume Now survey of 1,000 American workers, 70% say they’ve seen leaders play favorites. When power dynamics get personal, objectivity dissolves.

The supervisor’s “friendly” attention toward the intern blurred ethical lines, creating tension that likely influenced how everyone reacted after the allergy incident.

In such settings, even an accident feels like sabotage, and punishment becomes a performance of fairness rather than an act of justice.

If the intern wants to move forward, he should focus on protecting professional boundaries, keep communication with the supervisor transparent and documented, and engage HR if interactions become invasive.

Rebuilding trust with peers will require humility and honesty, not explanations or blame.

Ultimately, this story isn’t just about cupcakes or coworker rivalry. It’s a quiet reminder of how favoritism can unravel respect, how jealousy can distort compassion, and how silence in toxic workplaces lets small mistakes explode into lasting resentment.

Here’s what the community had to contribute:

These commenters fiercely defended OP, emphasizing that the coworker’s “dairy-free” cupcake stunt was no harmless mistake.

No-Chipmunk-4590 − NTA. People have been charged with attempted m__der for that sort of thing, or at least aggravated a__ault by poisoning.

She's lucky she isn't in prison, being fired is the least of her problems.

I'd suggest talking to a labor & personal injury lawyer near you (jurisdictions can vary a little). Watch out for that supervisor though.

They may have your back right now, but some of what you describe does look like they want to "date" which is ethically inappropriate between supervisor and employee and could...

Clean_Permit_3791 − NTA. She made cupcakes that she claimed were dairy free and even convinced you to eat one knowing you had an allergy.

If she hadn’t claimed they were dairy free or convinced you to eat them you absolutely wouldn’t have touched the cupcakes.

She genuinely could have killed you, she would have been charged with man slaughter if you died, you could probably take it to the police as a__ault. She did it...

If that had happened to anyone in the company she would have been fired because if they kept her on they’re opening themselves up to a massive lawsuit especially if...

They fired her to protect the company.

I would reply to anyone saying it’s unfair “I think she was fired to protect the company from being sued for being the cause of my severe allergic reaction and...

I would hope if she almost killed one of you they would have fired her then too” Also if Mr K is freaking you out please make detailed notes of...

You’re NTA, you’re possibly the victim of attempted poisoning.

Lucky-Guess8786 − NTA. Anyone who claims a product is allergy free and it isn't deserves the full force of retribution for their actions and claims.

No matter what the allergen is, ingesting even a trace amount could result in severe consequences, including death.

Sarah deserved her consequences for her false claims. No matter how you look at it, she lied and endangered your life.

Mr K is a whole other issue. You need to talk to HR, or whatever body passes for Human Resources.

Your comfort and security in the workplace supersede his desire to be creepy and know everything about you.

Even if your comments are dismissed by HR, they could support a future complainant.

Others echoed that Sarah’s persistence in convincing OP to eat the cupcake hinted at deliberate harm.

Gueld − If she kept trying to get you to eat a cupcake, it sounds more like she was trying to make you sick deliberately tbh.

pupperoni42 − NTA. Sarah was wildly reckless at best, but it really sounds like she did this deliberately.

Getting fired was appropriate. The company should be paying your medical bills that aren't covered by insurance.

Send an email to HR and your boss asking if you need to file paperwork about the workplace accident to have that taken care of properly.

Do it via email so the fact that you asked and whatever their response is, you have in writing.

And forward it to your personal email address once you receive it. Do not be alone with your boss except for normal office interactions.

If he ever shows up at your house, suggests the two of you get dinner, or anything else unprofessional, you need to talk with HR.

If you refuse him and he then gives you a bad reference, that's s__ual harassment. You can protect yourself by making sure there's a record of what he's doing.

For now, keep a detailed log of everything he does that feels odd to you. Google docs is a good way to go since it timestamps your edits.

It should be on your personal account, not your work account.

A second wave of Redditors turned their attention to the creepy boss, describing his behavior as manipulative and unethical.

Alex5331 − Forget the dairy situation, it's over. You have another serious concern. What's going on with your boss?

He should not be giving you this attention, nor should he be following your social media and commenting on everything you post.

He also should not be reaching out to you outside of work with social stuff.

I don't know if it's safe to report him to HR, e.g., is your company big enough to have a robust HR department? Are they beholden to your boss, like...

The coworkers are angry bec they assume you two are an item and you're getting special favors, which you are if you get glowing reviews that do not correlate to...

You can get a mistaken reputation for something that you are not doing, a reputation that can follow you.

I know you're likely young and inexperienced bec you're an intern.

It's not your fault, but it's your problem. You need to share this with an experienced adult outside the company to figure out how to proceed.

PlantLadyI − Your boss is grooming you. You said yourself she works the hardest, but you get the praise.

Did she do a SUPER fucked up thing as retaliation? Yes and it's unacceptable.

But there's an equally important issue here you're completely failing to acknowledge, and that issue is, why your boss is treating you differently... and VERY inappropriately?

unexpectedlytired − You didn't get her fired, but you should be more concerned with the attention your supervisor gives you.

As a general policy to protect your personal and professional lives, you should make your social media private and not give access to your coworkers.

Especially not your supervisors.

thirdtryisthecharm − My dude, your supervisor is grooming you. And this sounds like an honest mistake by Sarah.

desertboots − Unfriend Mr. Kreep and block him. He's trying to groom you. Let him know you want him to lose your address and keep it professional and at work...

[Reddit User] − NTA, but why would someone with a severe (life threatening) allergy eat homemade food at a potluck? You need to be smarter.

shayjax- − So many of these comments are so weird. You immediately says that the original poster is a victim and Sara had to purposely try to cause an allergic...

It could’ve been accidentally crossed contaminated. Several other factors have nothing to do with someone purposely causing an allergic reaction with someone.

balalaikaction − "Creepy but not concerningly he just does weird things like he asked for my social media which I guess isn’t that strange but he comments under everything I...

Then came the practical voices, who reminded OP to always be cautious about food allergies and document any inappropriate behavior.

imf4rds − I carry an epi-pen and I always recommend not eating anything if you don't know what their kitchen is like. Cross contamination has made me sick a lot...

You are not responsible for her employment but she shouldn't encourage you eating anything if she doesn't understand your allergy. Document his behavior. Do you have an HR?

New_Willow_6972 − NTA. You are not responsible for your supervisor's actions or your coworker's continued employment.

The story leaves readers torn between two unsettling realities: a toxic workplace where favoritism fuels resentment, and an “accident” that could have ended much worse.

Was this justice or collateral damage in a messy office dynamic? Share your thoughts, who’s the real villain here?

Katy Nguyen

Katy Nguyen

Hey there! I’m Katy Nguyễn, a writer at Dailyhighlight.com. I’m a woman in my 30s with a passion for storytelling and a degree in Journalism. My goal is to craft engaging, heartfelt articles that resonate with our readers, whether I’m diving into the latest lifestyle trends, exploring travel adventures, or sharing tips on personal growth. I’ve written about everything from cozy coffee shop vibes to navigating career changes with confidence. When I’m not typing away, you’ll likely find me sipping a matcha latte, strolling through local markets, or curled up with a good book under fairy lights. I love sunrises, yoga, and chasing moments of inspiration.

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