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Babysitter Sneaks Her Dog Into House While Watching Infant, Parents Rush Home And Fire Her

by Annie Nguyen
November 5, 2025
in Social Issues

Parents hiring babysitters expect one thing above all: their child stays safe under clear boundaries discussed upfront. A quick date night should not turn into a surprise visit from an uninvited guest with four legs.

One couple, trusting a familiar college student with their six-month-old, stepped out confident in the routine they had outlined.

The original poster (OP) checked the baby cam mid-dinner and spotted a golden retriever sniffing their son. No dogs lived in the home, and none had been mentioned. Read on to find out how the evening ended with the sitter packing up sooner than planned.

One couple hires a familiar babysitter for date night, only to discover via camera she brought her dog unannounced, prompting an early return and immediate firing

Babysitter Sneaks Her Dog Into House While Watching Infant, Parents Rush Home And Fire Her
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AITA for firing the baby sitter because she brought her dog to my house?

My (M33) wife (F33) and I have a 6 month old kid. My wife and I planned a date night

and we hired our baby sitter we've used half a dozen times.

The baby sitter (F20) is a college student that lived in our neighborhood

and came recommended by some friends that had kids.

She came over to our house, we told her our sons schedule, then headed out.

We were going to go out for dinner and then meet up with friends for drinks.

We have 2 cameras in our house that we can access remotely to check in on our son.

One is over his bed and the other is over his play area in the living room.

The babysitter knows about both cameras, so it isn't like we were spying on her.

My wife gets a notification that there is motion in the play area, she pulls it up to check in.

She sees a dog sniffing our son. We are both like WTF.

We don't own any dogs and have no plans to ever own any dogs.

We try calling, no answer, so we rush home. We go inside

and the baby sitter is holding our son and there is a golden retriever just hanging out.

Everyone is calm and fine. The babysitter seems shocked we are already home.

I ask the babysitter why there is a dog in our house.

She says its her golden retriever and decided to bring it today.

The babysitter assures us the dog is baby and kid friendly and is sweet and safe.

I don't want my son around dogs at such a young age even if they are "sweet" and "safe".

I'm getting more and more angry. This was not something she was transparent about

and if we knew the dog was going to be there, I would have never okayed it.

I just firmly tell her to grab her dog and please leave.

I inform her we won't be using her in the future and pay her half her rate.

Mostly since we used her less than half the time we were going to be out. She asks for the full amount.

I told her no, you put my kid in danger, and you should leave.

She says she did nothing wrong, but I don't see it that way. So was i the a__hole?

We’ve all encountered moments where someone crosses a boundary they genuinely didn’t think existed, and we’re left holding both anger and confusion.

Parenthood, especially in those early months, sharpens instincts around safety. When something unexpected enters that sacred space, even a well-meaning gesture, it can feel like a breach of trust rather than a small misunderstanding.

In this situation, the core emotion isn’t simply anger; it’s vulnerability. A six-month-old baby represents fragility and total responsibility. The parents weren’t reacting only to a dog in their house; they were reacting to a moment where control and safety slipped without their consent.

For the babysitter, the motivation was likely convenience and affection for her pet, not malice. But intentions don’t erase impact. Trust is delicate, and when someone is responsible for your child, unexpectedly changing the environment, especially with something alive, unpredictable, and unapproved, can trigger protective instinct more than logic.

Child psychologist Dr. Laura Markham notes in Psychology Today that parents of infants operate with a heightened safety vigilance system, a biological and emotional mechanism tuned to detect and respond to threats, even perceived ones.

She writes that parents aren’t just reacting to risks themselves; their nervous systems are primed to anticipate danger for their child in every decision. From that lens, the parents’ reaction isn’t about disliking dogs; it’s about instinct, trust, and control over their child’s environment.

Meanwhile, psychologist and parenting educator Dr. Becky Kennedy often emphasizes that young adults sometimes assume comfort equals permission, especially when they feel familiar and trusted in a home.

So this moment becomes less about whether the dog was friendly, and more about an unspoken expectation: when caring for a baby, no element of the environment should change without parental consent. And when those instincts collide with someone who didn’t fully grasp that boundary, conflict is almost inevitable.

Would you have reacted the same way? Or, if you were the babysitter, how do you think you might have seen the situation? Sometimes the question isn’t who was right, but how trust and communication could have protected everyone involved.

Here’s the feedback from the Reddit community:

These Redditors spot the sneaky dog drop-off as proof she knew it was wrong

MrsVashalgrim − NTA, if she thought it was no big deal then why didn't you see the dog arrive when she did before you left?

CurrentStill1096 − NTA. The fact that you didn't see the dog when she arrived, tells me she knew this was wrong

and therefore kept him out of sight. Intentional or not, you don't take pets along without clearing it with the parents.

FoolMe1nceShameOnU − NTA Of course you're NTA. Who brings an animal into someone else's home without asking?

What if you'd had horrific allergies? But also it was just incredibly unprofessional.

Again, who brings an ANIMAL INTO SOMEONE ELSE'S HOME without even asking permission?

But I'm terribly curious, how did you not see the dog when she arrived?

This group blasts unapproved pets and warns of allergy dangers

Flat-Detective2814 − NTA. I don't know who in their right mind

would bring an animal into a persons home without checking with them?

Spidermack − NTA, you don't bring an animal to someone else's house without clearing it first.

There are people who have serious allergies to certain pets,

and babies can be exceptionally sensitive to that sort of thing.

It is up to the parents to decide when and how they will introduce animals to their baby's space.

mike_hawks − NTA. I love dogs, but would never dream of bringing a dog to someone's home without their permission.

Users reject blind trust in “kid-friendly” dog claims sans training

[Reddit User] − NTA. I used to be a dog trainer and specialized in dog-child interactions.

There is absolutely no way in hell I would be comfortable with a strange dog in my home,

with a person who has no formal training in dog-child interactions. That is how children get hurt.

I have also seen many people SWEAR their dog is kid-friendly, when it is obvious to my eye the dog is not.

I do not trust people who aren’t trained in canine body language and behavior.

[Reddit User] − NTA- Any of you could be allergic, I don’t trust “friendly dogs” unless I have been around them myself

because everyone thinks their dog is nice even if they are not.

Geez the pandemic really stunted her common sense development

Folks slam the move as unprofessional and cheer the half-pay cut

CreativeMadness99 − NTA She’s old enough to know that what she did is extremely unprofessional.

That’s like bringing your kid to work with you or inviting friends over while she babysits

BuildingBridges23 − NTA-A college age student should know better

and for her to ask for full amount just confirms you did the best thing.

Redditors decry risks and entitlement in surprise pet invasions

BlaineTog − NTA. Maybe one of you had a dog allergy. Maybe your baby did.

Maybe this is the one time her dog did something aggressive.

Regardless, she absolutely should have cleared it with you in advance

so you could have weighed the risks and made an informed decision.

Paying her for half the time when she didn't even work that much was generous of you.

gella1214 − NTA- I don’t have a kid but I would be really upset if someone brought a dog into my house without asking.

I love dogs but don’t really want them all over my stuff because I’m allergic

and not everyone’s dog is very clean (sorry dog lovers, some dogs smell).

It’s that simple. You don’t bring your pet to someone else’s home without asking.

BeeYehWoo − NTA. This is the same line of reasoning where people choose to bring their dogs EVERYWHERE

To take such liberties with someone else's house while someone is paying you to work

for them is entitled and shows poor judgement. NTA whatsoever.

A sneaky golden guest crashed date night, cam-caught the sitter, and sealed her exit with half pay and zero future gigs. Would you have rushed home swinging or texted a warning first? Ever fired a helper on the spot? Dish your sitter shockers below!

Annie Nguyen

Annie Nguyen

Hi, I'm Annie Nguyen. I'm a freelance writer and editor for Daily Highlight with experience across lifestyle, wellness, and personal growth publications. Living in San Francisco gives me endless inspiration, from cozy coffee shop corners to weekend hikes along the coast. Thanks for reading!

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