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Biased Customer Asks For “One Of The Boys”, Young Male Employee Sides With Veteran Female Coworker And Pranks

by Jeffrey Stone
December 3, 2025
in Social Issues

A humming auto parts shop echoes with revs as an 18-year-old rookie, three months in, flips a sexist shopper’s script. The dude snubs a seven-year vet gal for “guy help only”. Newbie rallies the crew for a savage tag-team roast that sends him muttering off with his gears.

This gender-jab genius blew Reddit up, doling giggles and retail war stories. Mischief meets unity, frustration flipped to triumph!

Male employee takes female co-worker’s side, pulls a prank and exposes customer sexism in auto store.

Biased Customer Asks For "One Of The Boys", Young Male Employee Sides With Veteran Female Coworker And Pranks
Not the actual photo.

Don't want to speak to my female coworker and would rather talk to a man? How about we don't?'

This was a few years ago when I was around 18, I worked at a large chain of automotive parts stores.

The store had a roughly equal number of male and female staff and being automotive the women seemed to get a decent amount of men

(and other women) who would ask for "one of the boys" to help them.

I was out the back loading stock onto a trolley to run onto the floor when one of my female coworkers

(mind you she's worked here for around 7 years at this point compared to my ~3 months of employment) comes and finds me and asks me to help a customer.

I ask why she needs help because she usually knows more than I do considering how long she's been working here.

She explains she was standing at the service desk and a guy came up and asked her to "get one of the boys".

She tried explaining to him that she is more than competent to help him but he insisted that a man needs to help him.

So after hearing this I decide f__k it I may as well have some fun. I tell her to follow me back to the desk where he was and to...

I get to the customer and ask what he needed. He explained what he was after so I kinda just stare with a puzzled look for a moment.

Look at the customer and say "I'm sorry I actually don't know how to help with that one"

and turn to my coworker and say "Actually, she's an expert in that field she knows more about that than I do I'm sure she can help you".

He looks annoyed and asks for "another one of the boys" and on cue one of my other male coworkers who had overheard the entire conversation walks over.

The customer looks at him and asks for the same thing again to which he replies

"Oh actually she's an expert on that she's probably the best person to ask that question to" before wandering off again.

The customer begrudgingly got her help on the matter and walked out without talking to anyone else in the store.

Auto shops are usually male-dominated spots. Due to stereotypes, women in this field are not, sadly, as trusted as men when it comes to answering customers’ questions, despite their equal knowledge and capacity. However, some employees decide to deal with this stereotype differently.

Our Redditor’s quick-thinking prank highlights how everyday sexism sneaks into service counters, where a customer’s “preference” for “one of the boys” ignores years of expertise right in front of them.

From the customer’s side, he might’ve been stuck in old habits, assuming muscle and know-how come packaged with a certain gender, like thinking only dudes tinker under hoods on weekends.

But flip it: the female coworker, with her seven-year tenure, likely outpaced the newbie in cataloging carburetors. The Redditor’s puzzled stare and pivot to her as the “expert” cleverly exposed that gap without a showdown, turning annoyance into alliance.

Zoom out, and this mirrors broader workplace dynamics. A 2023 Pew Research Center report found that 42% of women in STEM fields report gender discrimination at work, often in subtle forms like being overlooked for expertise. In retail and trades, it’s the customer-facing version, dismissing capable staff based on stereotypes.

Workplace bias expert Amber L. Stephenson, Ph.D., in a Harvard Business Review article, notes: “Simply adding women into a workplace does not change the organizational structures and systems that benefit men more than women”.

Here, it applies perfectly. The customer’s insistence could’ve tanked the sale, but the staff’s unity flipped it, showing how supportive crews combat bias without escalating.

Neutral fixes? Stores could train on redirecting biases politely, or highlight staff creds via badges. For individuals, a calm “She’s our go-to on this” defuses while educating.

Here’s the input from the Reddit crowd:

Some share stories of women expertly handling sexist customers.

[Reddit User] − I used to work tech support for a major computer company about 15-20 years ago.

It was almost 50/50 men and women staffing the phones. I was seated next to a woman who took absolutely zero crap from anyone.

She got a call from a customer in his late 50s who kept demanding to speak to a male colleague

since it was a tech question and he wanted to make sure everyone understood the issue properly.

Her reply was "I'm sorry, none of my male colleagues are available but if you get your wife on the phone instead I'm sure we can solve the problem"

One of the best laughs I had at that job.

Edit: Wow, this really took off! Thanks for my first award and all the interesting threads that came from my story

writer978 − I used to work for a large farm equipment company, Sperry New Holland.

This was in 1980and I was around 20. We worked with farm equipment dealers all over our area.

One day, one of those particularly ornery dealers called my area and wanted to talk to a man that knew something.

My boss happened to be standing at my desk at the time so I tried to hand him the phone.

He said, you tell that guy that there aren’t any men around here that know any thing!! One of the best bosses I ever had.

Others recall bosses redirecting sexist demands to female managers.

rose_reader − I used to enjoy this in my hellscape retail role. The manager was a woman but all the desks on the shop floor looked the same,

so there was no way to tell when you walked in. So frequently, annoyed customers would go to the desk where the oldest male employee worked and begin their complaint.

He would then direct them to the younger woman who was actually the manager.

Alternatively: customer would go to her desk & demand to speak to the manager, “Where is he?”

She loved saying “I’m the manager, how can I help you?”

Same boss took significant delight in carrying heavy purchases to the customer’s car in high heels because they assumed she couldn’t.

She was a bit of a trainwreck as a boss but you couldn’t fault her ability to annihilate sexist assumptions.

Some describe rerouting sexist requests to petite female supervisors.

Sunlit53 − I filled in for a year as shipper/receiver at work. Got used to breaking down and shifting 2000lb loads manually every few days.

Every 50lb box of product had to be lifted and moved up to 6 times before I got it to the unpacking table.

Very inefficient set up but we were stuck with it at the time. I’m 5’10” and fairly sturdy. I had the biggest veiniest arms I’ve ever had.

It was fine, lots of lifting, lots of exercise, got first look at all the new stuff while unpacking.

Then ‘that’ delivery guy shows up and asks, you guessed it, to ‘talk to someone else’. Someone male was implied.

So I deliberately misunderstood and took him upstairs to the offices and introduced him to my supervisor.

All 5’2” of her totally disinclined to take s__t from anyone. I just grinned and went back to breaking down the pallet and moving boxes.

Wouldn’t have done him any good to go up another rung either, it was girls in charge all the way to the top.

Others share sarcastic comebacks from male coworkers.

C-romero80 − Wow this story sounds super familiar. . I worked in a parts store for about 5 years, ASE certified, and I would get that sooo much

(part of what drove me to leave). The best responses my male coworkers gave were from 2 who were also Navy and they worked with me part time.

Went to test a battery and woman asked if I knew what I was doing, senior chief says "nah we just hired her for her looks" oooh the look on...

Other time, went to turn rotors, dude says "you're going to let her get away with that? She has a red collar and you don't? "

(Assistant manager at the time) his reply "we'll, yeah she's my wife" (I was most definitely not his wife but it shut that guy up quickly)

I laughed so hard because it shocked those people dumb and I still laugh about it.

Conversely I had a couple of guys who would solely speak to me or two others I worked with because they knew I could actually figure it out.

Miss the crew, not the sexism of the customers

Some recount refusing help to racist/sexist customers.

ForceAccomplished890 − Reminds me of when I got a temp job at a sporting goods store.

I was asked to dust off the plexiglass trays on the wall where the shoes were displayed.

So while I'm doing that, a family comes in and is looking at the shoes. One of the shoe salespeople, a non-white woman who was obviously not born in Belgium

(she had a very heavy accent and sometimes formulated her sentences a bit weird, but hey, at least she was trying),

went up to them and asked them if she could help them with anything.

They told her no and she went back to straightening out the displays in another section of the shoe department.

The father immediately after she left turns to me and asks me for a certain shoe in a certain size.

Now, this was my first day in the store, I didn't know how the system to find shoes in the storage room worked

and even if I did, I didn't have access to the storage room. I also realized that this guy didn't want the saleswoman's help because she was foreign.

So I just go: "I'm sorry, sir, but I'm not a salesperson. I'm just here to clean. If you need help with shoes, you'll have to ask my co-worker over...

and I point to the saleswoman, who was at that moment the only salesperson on the floor,

because it was the calmest time of day of the calmest day of the week. This family were literally the only people in the store next to us employees.

The man didn't say anything and he and his family just stormed out of the store mumbling (I presume some very things).

Again, this was my first day and this store had given me a chance after being unemployed for nearly a year,

so I felt very guilty that they had lost a sale because I couldn't help the customer,

so when the manager of the store came to check up on me, I told him what happened.

He just shrugged and said "I prefer not to indulge people like that". This happened 8-9 years ago and I have worked there as a temp several times (mostly as...

and the things I've seen that manager deal with... let's just say if more store managers were like him, the world would be a better place.

Some describe male paramedics forcing report to female interns.

Competitive-Slice567 − I run in an area as a paramedic where many of the population and even the EMTs are stuck in the 1950s.

Had a crew ignore my female paramedic intern and give report to me cause the prevailing attitude was "women can't be paramedics, let alone good ones".

I thanked them for their report, then said they could look at her and repeat the same report to her as she was in charge for the call and I...

I swear you could've seen smoke come out of their ears, but they did as they were told and never gave me that attitude when I had an intern again.

Some note persistent sexism in technical and manual fields.

MusicalMerlin1973 − Yeah this sucks. It was happening 20 years ago to my wife when she worked in a plant nursery. She had an associates degree.

The guy they were asking for had a much less rigorous certification from the local county extension.

Personally, stuff like buying cars I’ve had much better luck either with old nice guys or women in general salespeople.

It shouldn’t matter who is managing the counter. If the person knows their stuff they know their stuff

sucks2bdoxxed − I work as a meat cutter in a grocery store and I can't tell you how many times people ring the meat buzzer

and when I go out they stammer "uh, is one oh the meat GUYS?". I find it's equally men and women that say that to me.

Then if they insist and I get a male coworker, 99% of the time it's such a basic meat question like which roast is best for pot roast? Really?

Some suggest mimicking the question to a female coworker.

au-smurf − I would have just turned to the female coworker and repeated the question word for word then repeated the answer back to the customer.

In the end, our Redditor’s playful plot twist reminds us: sexism might rev up, but clever camaraderie shifts gears faster. Do you think the tag-team expert redirect was genius teamwork, or could a direct chat have nipped it sooner?

How would you handle a “boys only” demand without losing your cool? Share your hot takes!

Jeffrey Stone

Jeffrey Stone

Jeffrey Stone is a valuable freelance writer at DAILY HIGHLIGHT. As a senior entertainment and news writer, Jarvis brings a wealth of expertise in the field, specifically focusing on the entertainment industry.

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