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This Boss Fired an Employee Who Was ‘Just Trying to Make a Living’

by Charles Butler
July 21, 2025
in Social Issues

Imagine walking into a store to buy a new TV, and the employee helping you suddenly starts talking about how lavender oil can fix your stress. That’s what happened to Max, a 30-year-old manager at a big retail store, when one of his top workers started pushing essential oils at work.

Her name was Sam, and she used to be great at her job. But after joining an MLM, she began selling oils to customers and coworkers, right on the sales floor. Max gave her several warnings, but she didn’t stop. She was even competing with the store’s own products.

In the end, Max decided to fire her. His boss agreed it was the right call. Still, some coworkers say it was too harsh and that Sam was just trying to earn extra money.

Now people are split, was Max being fair, or did he go too far?

This Boss Fired an Employee Who Was 'Just Trying to Make a Living'

Aita For Firing A Person Who Was 'Just Trying To Make A Living'?

I (30M) a general manager at a big box retailer (think Walmart, Target, Best Buy) and have been for about a year, though I've worked here total 5 years

I've had this employee who has been great, I'll call her Sam. Hard worker, been with the store for 3 years. But recently, she's joined some sort of MLM.

Don't remember the exact one, something like Terrad? Idk, some essential oils company. Anyways, I've been getting complaints from customers and other employees, saying that she's been pushing her oils while helping and talking to them. I had a talk with her about it. She apologized and said she wouldn't do it again. That was about a month and three talks ago.

The complaints haven't stopped, so I talked with the store manager (big boss). Last week, we let her go. Well, since then, other employees have complained to me that it wasn't right, that she was 'just trying to make a living'.

While I understand that, it's strictly against our policy to run a side business while you're working (and to my knowledge, it's that way with most stores). Plus, we sell essential oils, so by doing this, she's directly interfering with our business.. So, AITA?.

**Edit:**

It's easy to think you're the a**hole when you've got a dozen or so people, that you're rather close with, telling you that.. but it's easier to think otherwise when you've got.. what, ~400 people saying you're not. (I say 400 because I also posted this on [r/MarkNarrations](https://www. reddit. com/r/MarkNarrations) lol). Thanks to everyone for you judgement on this. I really appreciate you all.

When Side Hustles Crash the Checkout LaneTalk about a retail rollercoaster!

Max’s story is a masterclass in navigating the murky waters of workplace rules and MLM enthusiasm. Sam was a stellar employee, but her obsession with selling essential oils during shifts turned her into a walking infomercial. After three warnings and no change, Max and his boss pulled the plug. But with coworkers calling him out, was Max’s decision a fair boundary or a harsh overreach? Let’s unpack this cart.

Max’s frustration is relatable, nobody wants their store turned into an MLM pitch fest. Sam’s oil-pushing wasn’t just annoying; it broke explicit company rules against side businesses on the clock. Plus, since the store sells essential oils, her hustle was stepping on their toes, potentially costing sales.

On the other side, Sam’s defenders argue she was just trying to make ends meet, and firing her felt like swatting a fly with a sledgehammer. But here’s the kicker: ignoring warnings after a month of chances isn’t exactly employee-of-the-year behavior. This saga shows a bigger issue: the rise of MLMs in workplaces.

A 2023 Federal Trade Commission report found that 99% of MLM participants earn little to no profit, yet many feel pressured to recruit or sell aggressively, often blurring professional lines FTC, 2023. Career coach Alison Green puts it bluntly: “Workplace policies exist to protect the business and employees, ignoring them risks chaos” Ask a Manager, 2023.

Max’s call aligns here: Sam’s side gig disrupted the store’s vibe and bottom line.What could’ve been done? Max gave Sam multiple chances, but a formal write-up before firing might’ve shown tougher love while covering his bases. For Sam, respecting the workplace boundary, or selling oils outside work, could’ve saved her job. If you were Max, would you have given her one more shot? Let’s hear your take!

Reddit’s popping off like a Black Friday sale!

Check out how the community responded:

This Redditor didn’t hesitate to call it out for what it was—Sam wasn’t just breaking a rule, she was running her own business inside someone else’s.

[Reddit User] − NTA. She was going under your nose and running a business in your business. Also, I believe the company you're thinking of is dōTERRA, one of the most predatory companies, second only to Young Living.

rootingforthedog backed the manager completely, pointing out that Sam’s pushy behavior wasn’t just awkward, it could’ve hurt the store’s business.

rootingforthedog − NTA Her shilling her products would hurt your store if it bothers the customers. She was very unprofessional.

TopsideScarab didn’t mince words, saying this wasn’t just a bad call, it was a clear violation of store policy. Comparing Sam’s behavior to letting outside solicitors walk in and pitch products, they argued Max had every right to shut it down.

TopsideScarab − Definitely not. it’s store policy, you wouldn’t allow solicitors into the store to do it. And that’s exactly what she was doing.

EvocativeEnigma kept it blunt, saying if Sam was on the clock, she should’ve been doing her actual job, not pushing her MLM. There’s a time and place for side hustles, they argued, but chatting about essential oils during work hours definitely wasn’t it.

EvocativeEnigma − NTA - if she's on the clock for the job you have her hired for, she doesn't need to be talking about her side hussle MLM. There's a time and place, but while she's on the clock isn't the time to be talking about her essential oil.

TheNonDuality summed it up with no room for debate, Sam got four warnings.

TheNonDuality − NTA. You warned her 4 times.

BBMcBeadle offered a biting analogy that hit home, saying letting Sam stay would be like working at Burger King while selling Big Macs from your trunk. It’s not just wrong, it’s ridiculous.

BBMcBeadle − NTA. You can't work at Burger King and try to sell your customers Big Mac's out of the trunk of your car.

RoyallyOakie was stunned anyone would think this behavior was okay, saying it’s hard to believe an employee could be that clueless.

RoyallyOakie − NTA... I can't imagine any employee thinking that this would be allowed. You even gave her a chance. Those other employees learned a valuable lesson.

guy_in_wisconsin laid it all out like a closing argument—firm, detailed, and impossible to ignore. He pointed out that even before Max said a word, Sam likely knew her actions were out of line, especially since the store sold similar products. And after being told clearly to stop? She agreed, then kept doing it anyway.

guy_in_wisconsin − NTA. Before you talked to her the first time, I'm sure she was aware what she was doing was wrong, especially if you are selling the same-ish product in the store. Then you talked to her about what she was doing. She knew, without a doubt now, that her actions were wrong. She said she'd stop. She didn't. And from your post, you say more talks happened.

She persisted with trying to sell her products while at work, knowing she was doing something against company policy, and knowing she told you she would stop. She was justly fired. It sucks, and maybe she needs the job badly. But she didn't treat you with respect or stop her behavior.

Think of it this way: do you want to keep on payroll a known liar? Someone whom you can't trust? If she's doing this, over and over again, what other rules was she breaking? We're all trying to 'make a living. ' But you can't make a living by lying to your boss over and over again. Your other employees may miss her. Empathize with them on that. But don't let them say it was wrong what you did. What *she* did was wrong.

MonkeyKing_Sunwukong didn’t sugarcoat it, saying that in most workplaces, peddling a side hustle on company time wouldn’t earn you a warning, it’d get you fired on the spot. In their eyes, Max was more than fair.

MonkeyKing_Sunwukong − Not the a**hole. If my boss caught me peddling a side business at work I wouldn't even have a warning. I would be gone that instant.

Xiaodisan sided with Max but took a more reflective approach, pointing out that most companies have strict rules against personal advertising on the clock—and Sam had more than enough time to fix her behavior.

Xiaodisan − NTA. The store (and I'm sure most companies, not just shops) has a policy against doing private advertising during your workhours. You talked with her multiple times, and gave her more than a month to stop doing it. Was it a well-known fact that she was struggling financially even with her job? Or was that just an excuse?

(If she really did struggle to make a living, I can sorta understand her, and it might be NAH, but honestly I doubt anybody made a fortune through MLM - unless they are one of the very few top figures.

Are they ringing up wisdom or just adding to the noise?

Max’s retail drama is a wild ride through workplace rules and MLM madness. Firing Sam for her oil-pushing antics sparked a debate: was Max protecting his store’s integrity, or did he swing the axe too soon?

Should Sam have seen the writing on the wall, or were her coworkers right to defend her hustle? How would you handle an employee mixing business with MLMs?

Drop your hot takes below and keep this checkout-line chaos rolling!

Charles Butler

Charles Butler

Hey there, fellow spotlight seekers! As the PIC of our social issues beat—and a guy who's dived headfirst into journalism and media studies—I'm obsessed with unpacking how we chase thrills, swap stories, and tangle with the big, messy debates of inequality, justice, and resilience, whether on screens or over drinks in a dive bar. Life's an endless, twisty reel, so I love spotlighting its rawest edges in words. Growing up on early internet forums and endless news scrolls, I'm forever blending my inner fact-hoarder with the restless wanderer itching to uncover every hidden corner of the world.

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