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Dog Poops On NYC Sidewalk, Café Owner Comes Out Furious, Owner Says It’s Public Space

by Marry Anna
January 2, 2026
in Social Issues

After a vet appointment, one New Yorker took their nervous dog for a calming walk through a commercial street.

When the dog unexpectedly stopped on the sidewalk to do its business, the owner cleaned it up right away.

What should have been the end of the moment turned into an awkward confrontation with a nearby business owner who took issue with where it happened.

The exchange was brief but tense, leaving lingering irritation on both sides.

Dog Poops On NYC Sidewalk, Café Owner Comes Out Furious, Owner Says It’s Public Space
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'AITA? My dog pooped on the sidewalk that happened to be in front of a cafe in NYC – Owner was not happy?'

I just had an experience that I am not sure how to feel about.

I was walking my dog on a commercial street filled with small businesses and shops in Queens, NY.

I had just come from the vet, and my dog, a beagle mix, had been pretty nervous, so I thought a little walk would be nice.

As we are walking, my dog suddenly stops and poops in the middle of the sidewalk.

Now, this is not an ideal place for him to go, and usually, he tries to find a grassy spot off to the side,

but apparently, he needed to go, and this was where he was going.

This spot he chose to go on the sidewalk happened to be in front of a cafe (about 4 feet in front of it).

I didn't think much of it or even notice what business I was in front of. I got out a poop bag to pick it up.

I picked up the poop in the dog bag and tied a knot.

There was a small amount of residue that I couldn't get off the sidewalk (not sure how to avoid that).

Just as we were about to continue walking, someone pops out of the door (who I assume is the owner of the cafe)

and says in a rude tone, "This is a business, don't let your dog poop here (pointing to where the dog had pooped).

He should have pooped over there (points to the curb)."

I didn't know how to respond, and I think I mustered something like, "This is a sidewalk, and this is where he stopped to go."

I didn't feel like I should apologize for anything in this situation, so I did not. I was more annoyed than anything.

I turned and left without further engaging with the person. I noted the shop and made a mental note to never visit it.

Just for a better visual: This cafe has no outdoor seating.

This is just a public sidewalk in front of their cafe that is on a pedestrian street in a big city.

I am not sure what I could have done differently. I picked up the poop.

The owner of the cafe didn't need to come out and say anything. They don't own the sidewalk in front of their cafe.

This is NYC, we all have to share the sidewalk. Who's the a__hole?

In urban environments like New York City, the interaction between pedestrians, pets, and local businesses on shared sidewalks can be surprisingly complex.

What appears to be a minor incident, a dog relieving itself on a public sidewalk, actually taps into formal legal responsibilities, social norms, and expectations about public space use.

Under New York State’s Pooper Scooper Law, dog owners are required to clean up after their pets on public sidewalks, streets, and other public areas, or face fines of up to about $250.

This law exists to reduce health risks, contamination, and unsanitary conditions in densely populated neighborhoods.

The statute applies to anyone controlling the dog, not just the owner, and obligates removal of canine waste from public spaces whenever it occurs.

The city’s sanitation regulations reflect a broader understanding of shared space responsibilities.

In addition to removing solid waste, dog owners are encouraged to use bags and dispose of waste properly in trash receptacles to maintain the cleanliness of walkways used by everyone.

Even when enforcement is infrequent, it remains a civic expectation that dog walkers carry bags and address their dogs’ waste promptly.

What complicates the social perception of such interactions is that sidewalks in a place like Queens, NY, are public property, not extensions of any single business.

While café owners and other businesses often feel a degree of ownership over the stretch of sidewalk directly in front of their storefronts, urban planning scholarship points out that sidewalks operate as shared public spaces where multiple norms and expectations overlap.

Individuals may use the same space for walking, waiting, or passing by, and the presence of different activities (dogs, pedestrians, street furniture, café traffic) is part of everyday city life.

Conflict in urban public spaces often arises when people apply private norms to public property.

A business owner might feel that customers’ experience should be kept pristine, especially near a café entrance, but legally and socially the sidewalk remains accessible for all pedestrians, including dog owners.

Misunderstandings about space ownership can lead to frustration, even when no legal or clear social rule has been broken.

There is also an informal element of etiquette involved. Many urban dog-walking guides recommend doing what the OP did: pick up waste immediately and dispose of it properly.

This is widely considered responsible and courteous behavior for dog owners, and it aligns with New York’s legal framework.

While some canines may prefer to use grassy edges or curbs, the reality of city sidewalks means that perfect placement isn’t always possible.

Prompt cleanup, which the OP performed, is what both law and etiquette prioritize.

From a neutral perspective, the OP complied with both legal and social expectations by picking up their dog’s waste. The city’s laws focus on removal rather than prohibiting dogs from relieving themselves on sidewalks, as long as owners do their part in cleanup.

The café owner’s rude admonition reflects a perceived social boundary rather than a legal one. Because sidewalks are public and essential for pedestrian movement, no single business has exclusive control over how they are used.

Interactions like this highlight broader dynamics of urban life, where diverse users must negotiate shared spaces. Awareness of local laws and courteous conduct, both of which the OP demonstrated, usually suffices to prevent genuine conflict.

In situations where emotions run high or business interests collide with public use, the most constructive path forward is to acknowledge the shared nature of the space and the efforts made to comply with community norms and legal requirements.

Here’s the feedback from the Reddit community:

These users emphasized that once a dog decides it’s time, there’s no pause button.

boredbakerpianist − NTA. For all those saying otherwise, have you ever experienced walking a dog and them needing to s__t?

Because let me tell you, once they decide they need to go, despite all the tugging and pulling on the lead, they won't budge.

My dog once shat on someone's driveway, and point-blank refused to move anywhere else

(it was embarrassing, but I did all I could, and she wouldn't move).

90990000000000 − NTA. What matters is that you picked it up.

[Reddit User] − People saying other than NTA blow my mind. You’re definitely NTA since you cleaned it up as much as you reasonably could.

R3dmund − NTA. Dogs poop, and sometimes not in the best of spots. You picked it up the best you could.

This group pointed out that sidewalks are messy environments to begin with, and even well-trained dogs occasionally surprise you.

tipsyinmadras − NTA. A dog owner from NYC and a former front-of-house restaurant worker.

If you picked it up, you’re good! It’s New York. You can’t go to the curb because of trash/traffic.

rainbowlinoleum − NTA. You didn't expect your dog to poop in front of a business, and you cleaned it up to the best of your ability.

The business owner was rude, but I'd hesitate to label them an AH because their frustration was understandable,

especially if they're used to dealing with inconsiderate dog owners who don't even try to get their pets

to relieve themselves in an appropriate area. Your response was awkward, and an apology may have been

more suitable ("I'm sorry, I had no idea that he was going to do this!").

But that hardly makes you an AH because you were caught off guard.

jersey385 − NTA. As a former city resident and dog owner, I know that sometimes the best-trained dog just has

to randomly stop and poop someplace they normally wouldn’t from time to time. I probably would have said sorry, though.

I think restaurant owners get irritated, though, because there are people, even in NYC, where there’s a lot of

compliance with picking up poop, that just don’t do it. But not the a__hole, you picked it up.

These commenters leaned into sarcasm and disbelief, mocking the idea that owners can magically “curb” a dog mid-event.

Ornery-Process − NTA, does he yell at all the pigeons and rats, too?

Sudden-Pickle733 − I am absolutely baffled by "curb your dog."

As if the US didn't have enough to worry about, you're all gonna drag your dogs to the curb mid turd too 😂

NTA, love from the UK, land of leaving our dogs to lie a cable in peace.

supermegafuerte − NTA and I seriously question the other responses. Drag the dog to the curb? Pick it up? That’s ridiculous.

Maybe someday we’ll have a telepathic link with our pets, but until then, the best we can do is read body language and do our best. S__t happens.

People acting like it’s a major inconvenience to avoid the RESIDUE from picked up dog s__t are completely delusional.

You have to avoid obstacles in all urban environments at all times, and some of them are significantly more offensive than dog s__t residue.

It would be cool if 14 year olds could stop answering AITA questions as if they have a lifetime of sidewalk

dog s__t experience, but I’m not going to hold my breath.

Thediciplematt − NTA. You didn't leave it. What else were you going to do? Lick it off?

This group noted the dog had just been to the vet and could have been stressed or reacting physically.

rintin_10 − NTA, sometimes, pardon the pun, but s__t happens.

You cleaned it up the best you could, and in this particular instance, could not control where your dog did their business.

Not to mention, lord knows those sidewalks have probably seen way worse…

But perhaps it’ll be a good idea moving forward to carry an extra water bottle or wipes as a precaution?

That way, you can either give your dog a fresh drink, especially if it’s hot, or clean up unexpected messes.

Just a thought. I can’t with this sub sometimes. It’s like there is no grey area or nuance for some people.

You said the poor thing was just taken to the vet.

Maybe they were reacting to something they were given or just stressed because of that.

Yes, it’s our responsibility to clean up after them and care for them, but heaven forbid something out of our control happens.

[Reddit User] − NTA, people who think you can literally control where your dog decides to surprise poop amaze me.

I have found myself stuck in the middle of an intersection with a dog who had explosive diarrhea and would not let me pull him out of the road.

Thankfully, everyone around thought it was hilarious, but it’s not like there’s an off switch once that starts happening.

These commenters flipped the blame entirely, arguing the business owner doesn’t own the ssidewalk.

madamessagain − The owner is the AH. He doesn't own the sidewalk, too bad for him, his cafe is in a big city.

mechanicalHART − In my hometown, my dad was taking our family dog out for a walk, and the dog proceeded

to need to go super badly on the pavement outside the petrol station at the same time as the Google Maps van drove passed.

My dog shitting on the pavement outside the petrol station was in a prime position on Google maps for around 5 years before they replaced the image.

This moment boiled down to city life friction and mismatched expectations. The OP did what most people agree is the responsible thing: picked up the poop immediately and moved on.

In a crowded city, who really sets the rules for shared sidewalks? Would you have apologized to keep the peace, or stood your ground like the OP? Drop your thoughts below.

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Marry Anna

Marry Anna

Hello, lovely readers! I’m Marry Anna, a writer at Dailyhighlight.com. As a woman over 30, I bring my curiosity and a background in Creative Writing to every piece I create. My mission is to spark joy and thought through stories, whether I’m covering quirky food trends, diving into self-care routines, or unpacking the beauty of human connections. From articles on sustainable living to heartfelt takes on modern relationships, I love adding a warm, relatable voice to my work. Outside of writing, I’m probably hunting for vintage treasures, enjoying a glass of red wine, or hiking with my dog under the open sky.

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