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Customer Mistook Him For A Worker And Demanded Grocery Checkout, He Took The Opportunity To Make Her Regret It

by Layla Bui
November 22, 2025
in Social Issues

Some customers don’t know when to quit, and one Redditor experienced this firsthand when a woman demanded they check her groceries out, assuming they worked at the store. Despite the Redditor trying to explain they were just delivering packages, the customer didn’t back down.

Instead of leaving, the Redditor decided to take the most tedious and hilarious approach: using a package scanner to scan every single one of her items with unnecessary care, all while asking ridiculous questions and making sarcastic remarks.

The result? The customer walked away, leaving the Redditor with a small victory in proving that sometimes, people need to be taught a lesson in humility. Was this justified retaliation, or did the Redditor take it too far? Read on to see what the community thinks.

A delivery helper was mistaken for a store employee and decided to “check out” a customer’s groceries using a package scanner

Customer Mistook Him For A Worker And Demanded Grocery Checkout, He Took The Opportunity To Make Her Regret It
not the actual photo

'Lady demanded that I, a delivery man, check her groceries out. So I complied... with my package scanner?'

Had quite an amusing encounter over this past winter break.

To set the stage, I was working as a holiday helper for a UPS delivery guy.

As a holiday helper they had us wear cheap brown vests with a small company logo on them.

You’d think that would be enough, but apparently not.

Now although we mainly drop packages off at peoples’ houses,

we also went through a shopping plaza to drop off stuff at different stores.

We were dropping stuff off at Kroger when this happened.

The way it worked was I would take a cart loaded with packages into Kroger along with a [DIAD],

which was basically a scanner we used to log in packages and mark off deliveries.

I usually did this delivery alone because it was simple and my driver could use the time to organize other stuff.

So off I go into the store with a decent amount of packages stacked up on the trolley,

where I roll them over to customer service. Usually there’s someone behind the desk when I come in,

but sometimes the employee is out on the floor helping someone find something like they were today.

Standard practice for me is to unload all the boxes behind the counter and then just wait

until an employee comes back to sign off on them.

So I unload all the boxes, stack them behind the counter, and then lean up against it to wait for someone to come by.

While I’m waiting I casually take out my phone and begin browsing Reddit to pass the time.. Then I heard the “Ahem.”

I looked up to see some fifty-something-year-old lady scowling at me,

with a cart packed to the brim with food. She had greying blonde hair done in that [“I want to speak to your manager”]

style and was wearing a bright pink Nike top, blue leggings, and about two metric f__k tons of attitude.

We stared at each other and her expression soured with each passing moment

like the milk that was undoubtedly curdling in her cart. Finally she broke the awkward silence.

“Well?”. I shrugged. “Well what?”

She shoved her cart forward, almost bumping me with it.

“Are you gonna keep ignoring me? Or are you gonna check me out?”

I looked at her then down at my uniform, which consisted of a grey hoodie, black sweatpants,

and my trademark brown vest. Kroger employees wear black khakis, blue-collared shirts, and no brown vests.

I looked back up at her, trying remain polite, and said, “I don’t work here, lady. I’m just dropping off packages.”

The sour woman scoffed and jabbed a finger at my DIAD. “B__lshit. You’re just too lazy to help me.

Start scanning these,” she shoved the cart at me again, this time bumping my thigh, “or I’ll get your manager.”

I wasn’t sure why she didn’t go to the standard checkout line either, but I guess if things got really busy,

Kroger allowed customers to go through the customer service desk too. (It wasn’t very busy anway.)

Now I could’ve taken the easy way out, told her to politely f__k off,

and left, but then she took her phone to make a call and snapped her fingers at me, mouthing, “C’mon. I have to be somewhere.”

So I decided to help her out and began to unload her groceries, one by one, in the most tedious manner possible.

I scanned each fruit, can, veggie, and box with the DIAD (which is normally used for recording people’s addresses.

Funnily enough, it didn’t know where the kiwi or Rotisserie chicken lived,

but it does make a satisfying little bleep when it rejects an address which sounded quite similar to a product being scanned.)

I kept doing this for about ten minutes, often “miss-scanning” something or inspecting it much to the woman’s annoyance.

From time to time I’d interrupt her phone call to ask her a ridiculous question, such as:

“Would you like to add another g__pe to this bunch? There’s one in here with a brown spot.”

She would usually answer with a huffy “What?”, stare into space as she slowly worked through the question,

and then shake her head sharply as she went back to her conversation.

She reached her breaking point when I inquired as to whether or not

she wanted her eggs bagged individually or all together.

“What? Why the f__k would you-? WHAT?” she demanded shrilly.

I stood there, DIAD in one hand, egg crate in the other, looking completely innocent while trying not to die laughing.

I could swear I heard her mind briefly shutting down at the stupidity of my question, before rebooting.

Calmly and with a polite smile, I repeated the question.

Her face was almost as purple as the grapes I’d offered to discount as she struggled to form words.

“What... kind of a dumbass question is that?” she croaked, her manicured nails digging into trembling palms.

I placed the eggs back in the bag while nodding sympathetically.

“The kind I ask someone who’s too stupid to not take the hint that I don’t f__king work here.”

By this point the Kroger employee working the customer service desk returned

and the lady turned on them with the fury of God.

“HOW CAN YOU LET AN EMPLOYEE TREAT ME THIS WAY? I SHOP HERE ALL THE TIME!

HOW DARE YOU TREAT A VALUED CUSTOMER LIKE S__T!”

To their credit, the customer service worker took the verbal a__ault pretty well,

holding their hands up in a “Holy s__t” gesture as they tried to calm the lady down.

Then they looked from her to me and back to her and simply reiterated what I said. “Ma’am… he doesn’t work here…”

I was fascinated to see the “doubling down when you’re wrong” mentality in action,

but to my surprise all the wrath leached out of this h__py in two seconds flat.

It was the look of someone who realized the only way they’d save face in a situation like this was to simply drop it.

She pursed her lips at the employee’s words and looked at my brown vest, as if thinking I was somehow still defying her logic.

“Well,” she said coldly, “you just lost a customer.”

Then, quick as she’d arrived, the b__ch turned on her heel with a flip of her grey attitude-do and stormed off.

I was tempted to say that was more of a win, but figured I’d antagonized her enough.

Holding out my DIAD for a signature, I asked if the employee had ever encountered her before.

He said he had, but never that angry.

She was usually just demanding and arrogant to anyone else when she shopped there.

After getting his signature, I helped him repack everything and asked if he needed me to help him take it back,

but he said “no.” It was worth it just getting another tumorous customer out of the store.

Once everything was settled, I returned to the delivery van. (This entire ordeal only lasted about 15 minutes.)

My driver, Jeff, wasn’t too angry. He’d arranged the rest of our packages

while I was delivering and just told me to be faster next time. Then we continued about our day.

TL;DR: Worked as a holiday helper for a delivery company and was delivering packages to a grocery store,

woman decided I worked there so I absolutely must check her groceries out.

So I did… with a package scanner, and scanned every one of her items with extra care.

The OP was a UPS holiday helper, wearing a simple brown vest, and the woman at the grocery store assumed he worked there. She demanded he check out her groceries but the OP wasn’t having it. Instead of arguing, they decided to have a little fun with it, using the package scanner to check out her items in the most tedious way possible.

At first, this seems like just a funny misunderstanding, but as the woman’s attitude became more demanding and rude, the OP realized they could use the situation to their advantage.

Psychologically, this is an example of what Dr. Terri Apter calls “self-regulation.” As she explains, “Self-regulation in interactions involves managing emotional reactions in situations where you feel threatened or misunderstood, without escalating the conflict.”

The OP could have easily gotten angry or walked away, but instead, they decided to regain control of the situation in a non-confrontational, yet satisfying way.

By taking their time and scanning each item with extra care, the OP didn’t just assert their boundaries; they also gave the woman a little taste of what it’s like to be on the receiving end of frustration.

It’s not about revenge; it’s about putting the power back in their own hands without escalating things into a full-blown argument. Sometimes, when people push your boundaries, it’s important to reclaim your space in a way that doesn’t just give in to their demands.

What’s also fascinating is the woman’s reaction once the OP’s point had been made. After realizing she wasn’t getting what she wanted, she tried to save face by storming off, claiming, “You just lost a customer.”

This is a classic example of what Dr. Apter refers to as “doubling down,” a defense mechanism people use when they’re caught in the wrong but don’t want to admit it.

As Dr. Tasha Seiter points out, “People often engage in self-protection by refusing to admit mistakes, especially in public situations. This can prolong conflict unnecessarily.”

In the end, the OP was standing up for themselves in a way that didn’t escalate the situation. They found a clever and humorous way to maintain their boundaries without causing a scene. It’s a perfect example of how sometimes we can turn frustrating situations into lessons for others, all while keeping our cool.

Here’s what the community had to contribute:

This group found humor in the entitled customer’s attitude, highlighting how her self-importance didn’t match her behavior

ObviouslyAMasochist - "You just lost a customer." = "I'm too embarrassed to show my stupid face in here ever again."

P3naught − I find it interesting that she had given herself the title of valued customer despite her s__tty everything

Irythros − She reached her breaking point when I inquired as to whether or not

she wanted her eggs bagged individually or all together. That's where this story went from good to another g__pe great

These commenters enjoyed the absurdity of the situation

OmgOgan − Lmao eggs bagged individually. Dude, you are my spirit animal, take all the upvotes I got.

mesablue − Ha, great story. I was a seasonal driver for UPS two years in a row,

driving the brown truck and be decked out head to toe in brown gear.

It was amazing the access I had to a lot of secure locations and post offices because of the uniform.

But, so many times when delivering to the back of a retail store and then walking up front to find someone to sign

that a customer would ask me something like, "where are the kid's clothes?"

I know you just saw me walk out of the back, but have you never gotten a UPS package?

OTOH, everyone loves the UPS guy at Christmas.

Especially fun when I have to act sneaky so their kids can't see what I am dropping off.

Steven2k7 − I inquired as to whether or not she wanted her eggs bagged individually or all together.

That was the best part of this whole story. I can't stop laughing at that.

This group shared their own relatable experiences with difficult customers

paracosim − I work at Kroger and this is 150% accurate on how our customers act most of the time

PinkPearMartini − When I was a little kid, I'd tell my Dad "I wish we were rich."

He'd reply with "Well, I'm glad we're not. I probably wouldn't like you if we were."

As an adult I've dealt with people like the described customer, and I totally get what he was talking about.

murderofcrows90 − "Or are you gonna check me out?” Take a step back, look her up and down. "Niiiiiice."

This commenter recounted a similar experience at a self-checkout

netlo − I'm pretty sure I just ran into this lady at Kroger today.

Same description and attitude, just a fancy blue zip-up since it's slightly chilly out.

We were both at a self-serve checkout and near-simultaneously got the same message on our screen.

It stated something along the lines of, "Help is on the way."

I knew this wasn't a big deal as a few days prior the same thing happened to me.

An employee told me they were having issues with their system. True or not, it really isn't a big deal and I can politely wait.

I glance over at the lady once my screen displayed the message and she glared at me,

"I don't have the patience for this. I just... Seriously?"

She looked over at the sole self-serve checkout employee trying to un-bag

and put back a full basket worth of unpaid for groceries.

The employee was quickly trying to open a checkout for the next customer.

The lady continued, "This is b__lshit, I don't have time for this. What the f__k is taking her so long?"

Why she was getting pissy with me I don't know.

As the employee finished moving the items from the self-checkout,

which took less than 60 seconds, she said she would be right with me. She had to put the items to the side.

I told her the lady next to me was first. I'm not in a rush and the longer this lady waits

the more angry she will likely be. So the employee sets the items aside and walks back to the pissed off lady.

The lady stands in front of the self-checkout screen with her full shopping cart, not hand basket,

and doesn't move to let the employee clear the screen.

Mumbling and cursing at the employee this lady just can't believe that her day is being held up this long.

If she was in such a rush I don't understand why she had a full shopping cart AND went to self-checkout.

Cashiers are usually much quicker than I'll ever be at serving myself.

Plus if you need help why would you stand in front of the screen! ?

No malicious compliance here, unfortunately. Thankfully OP delivered on it, good job!

TL;DR: OP's lady (possibly) didn't abandon Kroger like she said,

but rather returned in blue another day and tried to use the self-serve with a temper.

What do you think of the poster’s response? Was it genius or too petty? How would you have handled the situation? Share your thoughts below!

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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