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Drunk Woman Calls The Cops After Punching The Bouncer, Guess Who Gets Arrested

by Layla Bui
October 22, 2025
in Social Issues

Working in nightlife means you see people at their best and their absolute worst. For bouncers and bar managers, patience is part of the job, but even the calmest professionals can only handle so much chaos before things take an unexpected turn.

That’s exactly what happened one night when a woman who’d clearly had too much to drink decided to challenge a female bouncer doing her job. What started as a routine cutoff turned into a full-blown spectacle involving shattered glass, a call to the police, and an ending that proves karma doesn’t always take its time.

One woman was managing a busy bar when she had to cut off a clearly drunk patron

Drunk Woman Calls The Cops After Punching The Bouncer, Guess Who Gets Arrested
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'Drunk women calls the cops on me after assaulting me?'

This happened a few years ago. I was a manager/bouncer at a very busy local bar

and it was my job to cut people off and/or bounce them if needed.

I was in the process of cutting a woman off and she became very belligerent.

Since this was also a karaoke bar she just so happened to be called to the stage while I was in the middle of cutting her off.

She marches past me and stumbles onto the stage.

I have the karaoke host cut her music off and continue on to the next singer.

I go to the stage and escort the lady off. To be clear I did not touch her at this moment.

I’m a broad 5’9” woman and my boots add an inch and a half so this very short women complied rather easily

UNTIL she continued to argue with me after the fact.

She didn’t want to leave and ended up punching me in the face.

I put my arms around her, picked her up and headed towards the front door

at which time she grabbed the protective glass cover on the host stand and shattered it all over the ground.

Once she was outside she was yelling and screaming that I had assaulted her

and threatened to call the police to have me arrested.

I quickly grabbed a business card for her and said “our address is on the card

just so you make sure you call the cops to the right place.”

They arrived and asked me who they needed to address. They arrested her.

I’m certain they just put her in the drunk tank for the night.

In this scenario, the manager/bouncer at a busy karaoke bar found themselves in a classic barroom confrontation: a visibly intoxicated patron was being cut off, then called to perform on stage, immediately followed by refusal of service, escalation, physical contact, property damage and a police call.

On one side, the staffer performed their duty, cutting off service, escorting the patron out, responding to aggression.

On the other side, the patron reacted violently (punching, smashing, despite being escorted courteously and without initial physical force).

The situation neatly illustrates the tension between legitimate venue rules enforcement and the unpredictable behaviour of impaired individuals.

From the patron’s perspective, intoxication often impairs judgement and heightens vulnerability, which may manifest as defensive aggression: “I’m being humiliated and removed, so I fight back.”

Research shows a strong association between alcohol use and aggressive incidents in bars. One study in Journal of Applied Security Research found that bar settings saw elevated rates of assault compared to other venues, and alcohol use increased the odds of violence fourfold.

For the venue, refusal of service and removal are inherent risks: staff intervening with intoxicated patrons is one of the strongest predictors of subsequent physical assaults. Pop Center

Broadening the lens, this incident connects to a larger social issue: how society manages intoxication, aggression and public safety.

According to a review, up to 77% of “public‐order” offenders in one Australian study had consumed alcohol shortly before the offense.

This means that alcohol-fueled environments aren’t just “fun gone awry,” but places where structural controls, training and policy matter.

The interplay between staff intervention, patron intoxication and environment (crowding, lighting, layout) plays a decisive role in whether a situation escalates.

The key advice for the individual in the scenario is as follows:

  1. Document everything: timestamps, your actions, witness names. You did well by retrieving the patron’s business card and noting your address. This helps clarify the chain if complaints arise.
  2. Ensure policy compliance and transparency: your bar should have a written procedure for cutting off service and escorting patrons out. If you followed it, your conduct is defensible.
  3. De-escalation training: although you acted appropriately, regular training for staff (especially when refusing service) reduces risk of physical confrontations.
  4. Legal follow-up: given the property damage and assault (you were punched), you might consider whether charges beyond “drunk tank” treatment were pursued; documenting might be wise for future reference.
  5. Review the environment: though you were mic-managing the situation well, post-incident analysis with management (layout, lighting, staffing ratios) can reduce recurrence.

Here’s what Redditors had to say:

This Redditor praised OP’s professionalism and composure

vacri − and said “our address is on the card just so you make sure you call the cops to the right place.”

This sounds like more of a power move than the literal lift-and-carry you did. Nice work.

This group shared similar bar stories about drunk patrons starting trouble and getting swiftly (and humorously) escorted out

night-otter − I'm a regular at a club, going to see 2-3 shows a month. I love watching the bouncer crew at work.

One time my wife returned from the restroom and said there was some lady acting up.

About that time I saw the female bouncer go in and come out a minute or two later, carrying the trouble maker.

Under her arm, the way you carry a toddler having a temper tantrum. Through the club and outside.

wottadish − My son is a bouncer at a local sports bar. He is 6’5” and about 240 pounds.

He tells me the easiest way to get a drunk girl out of the bar is to offer her a piggy back ride.

He takes her outside and dumps her on the bench outside and she’s done.

This group shared similar bar stories about drunk patrons starting trouble and getting swiftly (and humorously) escorted out

stewendsen − Hahahaha! This reminds me of the time my husband and I went to our local pub on a night there was dancing.

This guy started dancing all over me and then slapped my a**.

I stopped and said don’t touch me then moved away. Dude slaps my ass again so I decked him knocking him into a booth.

I went to the bouncers and let them know what happened.

Guy called the cops on me so I’m outside, 5’4, wearing a dress waiting for the police to show up.

The officers couldn’t keep the smiles off their face as I explained what happened then asked me if I wanted to press charges.

The dude I decked was standing on the other side of the building blubbering about being hit.

We’re regulars to the pub and the whole staff got a kick out of it!

These commenters mocked the drunk woman’s absurd behavior

Quebecdudeeh − Jesus drunk people are stupid. Hey you are the angry one flailing about smashing things and i__oxicated.

You lost already your arguments are on deaf ears.

You know This makes me think about how happy I went on that sober train. No more booze for pour moi.

rebekahster − Surprised pikachu from the drunk woman I’m sure.

[Reddit User] − The protective glass cover didn't sound very protective though.

This pair asked and explained about bar security roles

neighbourhoodweirdo − Just out of curiosity, is it a common thing for the bouncer to also be the manager

(or manager to be a bouncer)? I don't go clubbing so my experience is pretty lacking.

H00k90 − I also worked as security/bouncer and having a female coworker is a god send.

It's better optics of a female guard removes a female patron with male guards as back up So I'd like to thank you for working hard

So, what do you think? Was this the perfect example of calm professionalism or should bars handle these situations differently? Share your thoughts below!

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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