Living in an apartment building comes with its own social rules. You nod in the hallway, you hold the door, and generally, you mind your own business.
However, elevator etiquette is where things get weirdly contentious. For some reason, there are people who believe that taking the elevator for only one or two floors is a moral failing.
A tenant returning from a brutal overnight shift encountered one such judge-y neighbor recently. After a rude comment about her destination, she decided that if her neighbor loved spending time in the elevator so much, she would make sure she stayed in there for a very, very long time.
Now, read the full story:
![Didn't take much to [make me mad]. Her comment was so unnecessary and uncalled for. Who cares if it was the second floor?](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/wp-editor-1763837062335-4.webp "Exhausted Worker Punishes ‘Karen’ Who Judge Her 2nd-Floor Elevator Ride")
![I quickly run my hands through as much buttons as I could and said, "Have fun, [witch]" right when the door closes.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/wp-editor-1763837065316-7.webp "Exhausted Worker Punishes ‘Karen’ Who Judge Her 2nd-Floor Elevator Ride")
![to take the other elevator. Take the stairs then if it's not that big of a deal. Just don't be [ruddy] rude to your neighbors](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/wp-editor-1763837068381-10.webp "Exhausted Worker Punishes ‘Karen’ Who Judge Her 2nd-Floor Elevator Ride")
This is what you call “Elf Revenge,” remember the movie Elf where Buddy presses all the buttons because the lights look pretty? This is the darker, angrier version of that.
Honestly, the neighbor deserved it. There is absolutely no reason to comment on someone else’s floor choice. Like the OP said, invisible disabilities are real! You don’t know if someone has a knee injury, asthma, chronic fatigue, or simply just worked a 12-hour shift.
That said, calling the second elevator just to trap her on a theoretical escape attempt? That is advanced pettiness. It’s arguably chaotic evil, but considering how unnecessary the initial scoff was, it feels like fair game.
Expert Opinion
This story highlights a clash between ableism and elevator etiquette.
The “Walkable Floor” Myth
The neighbor’s scoff comes from a social bias that healthy people “should” walk up one or two flights. This is deeply rooted in ableism.
According to the Invisible Disabilities Association, millions of people suffer from conditions that are not immediately obvious, such as Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, sciatica, or POTS (postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome), where stairs can cause pain or fainting. By judging the OP, the neighbor wasn’t just being rude; she was enforcing a standard that harms disabled people.
Even without a disability, Dr. Matthew Edlund, an expert on rest and regeneration, emphasizes that mental and physical exhaustion (like after an overnight shift) impairs motor function similar to being drunk. Taking the elevator when you are that tired is actually a safer choice than risking a fall on the stairs!
The Legality of “Button Mashing”
Is pressing all the buttons illegal? Not usually, but it can be a lease violation.
Most tenant agreements have clauses about “misuse of common areas” or “interfering with building mechanics.” If the elevator had malfunctioned or gone into a “reset mode” because of the simultaneous button pressing, the OP could potentially be liable for the repair bill. While satisfying, mashing the panel is a high-risk petty move!
Check out how the community responded:
Many readers shared their own struggles with being judged for using accessible options despite looking “healthy.”
![[Reddit User] - As a person who has been temporarily handicapped and has a partner who is permanently so, thank you for your service.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/wp-editor-1763836946458-4.webp "Exhausted Worker Punishes ‘Karen’ Who Judge Her 2nd-Floor Elevator Ride")
The second elevator move was particularly applauded as “Savage” by the community.
You can always count on Reddit for a dad joke.
![[Reddit User] - You giving her the shaft really elevated me and pressed all my buttons.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/wp-editor-1763836910152-1.webp "Exhausted Worker Punishes ‘Karen’ Who Judge Her 2nd-Floor Elevator Ride")
How to Deal with Judgmental Neighbors
If someone makes a snide comment about your floor choice, you have a few options that don’t involve tampering with the machinery (though we admit that’s tempting).
The Kill Them With Kindness Approach:
Look them in the eye and say brightly, “Yes! I love the second floor. Have a great day!” It disarms them because they are looking for shame, and you aren’t giving it to them.
The Medical Shame:
If you want to make them feel bad, you can drop a heavy truth bomb (even if you exaggerate). “My doctor advised against stairs after the surgery,” usually shuts people up instantly and makes them regret their rudeness.
The Ignore:
Pop those headphones in. They are looking for a reaction. Don’t give them the satisfaction of even acknowledging their existence.
Conclusion
We live in a world where everyone has an opinion on everything—even how you get to your apartment.
The neighbor in this story learned a valuable lesson: If you judge someone’s ride, they might just take you for a much longer one than you planned. It’s a perfect reminder to mind your own business in communal spaces.
The consensus? NTA (Not The A-Hole), but definitely the Petty Queen.
What do you think? Was the second elevator block genius, or did she go too far?
