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HOA Tried To Bully Homeowner Into Removing Cameras, He Outsmarts Them With A Single Post

by Leona Pham
November 11, 2025
in Social Issues

It’s amazing how something as simple as a security camera can set off a neighborhood war. One homeowner installed a few to watch over their vehicles and instantly found themselves in the crosshairs of their HOA’s most controlling member.

What followed was a drawn-out feud involving legal letters, board meetings, and a bill that nearly tanked the HOA’s budget. But the best part? The homeowners never technically broke a single rule. Scroll down to see how one perfectly worded letter and a bit of creative problem-solving turned this petty dispute into a $4,000 disaster for the HOA.

HOA threatens homeowners over cameras, triggering costly backlash

HOA Tried To Bully Homeowner Into Removing Cameras, He Outsmarts Them With A Single Post
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'HOA tried to punish us - Told us to "Stop them if we can" - Malicious compliance cost them 16% of the annual HOA income - And the cameras are...

This happened several years ago, and is a multi-year long story - I'll keep it as succinct as possible.

We installed cameras in front of our home that were looking at our vehicles.

Part of the camera angles did overlook parts of two neighbor's properties (one back yard and one side yard).

The cameras were battery operated and had a function where you could "gray out" areas that you didn't want to film.

When motion occurred in the grayed out areas, the cameras would not be activated to film.

The neighbors' entire properties and several bushes on our property were grayed out - we did this when installing them.

One of the neighbors was a friend and had no issues with this whatsoever

(we showed her the camera angle and she said she didn't care whether or not we grayed out that area, we still left it grayed out over battery life concerns).

The other neighbor's name was Karen (not really, but we all know why I chose that name).

Karen was on the HOA board and, as you can imagine, we didn't get along with Karen or the HOA Board.

We told Karen about the camera and showed her the grayed out areas at the same time that we told our friendly neighbor about it.

It was simply an FYI conversation (we are not on friendly terms) - not an "asking permission" conversation.

She told us to take the cameras down immediately or we would regret it.

About a week after we hung the camera up, we got a notice from our HOA that we were violating the bylaws.

The bylaw in question? A "nuisance to your neighbors" bylaw.

There wasn't a specific bylaw preventing placement of cameras, so this is all they could find to try to punish us.

We responded with a letter detailing how we were not violating any bylaws or laws in general - and asked them to cease and desist.

We all know how these stories go though. They did not cease. And they did not desist. Their first response?

"The HOA has the right to enforce these bylaws. Try to stop us, if you think you can."

(These types of responses were, unfortunately, quite common from this board.)

We entered this battle with one goal in mind: to cost them as much money and time as possible.

The HOA hired a lawyer specifically to fight us. To my knowledge, this has not happened to any other residents.

In the following 4 months we ended up costing the HOA over $4,000 in lawyers fees fighting this battle.

For reference, the entire HOA income was ~$25,000/year.

When it came time for our official HOA hearing over the matter, we had successfully postponed it (thanks to an attorney friend) 3 separate times.

There were over 100 back and forth emails with the HOA attorney and ourselves.

Each one of those emails was a 15 minute expense for the HOA.

And I was happy to follow up a follow up question with another follow up question

if it meant the HOA attorney was going to keep billing them (Did I say "follow up" enough times?).

We didn't actually want to take this battle to court, so we ended up removing the cameras the day of the hearing

(to prevent being fined even if the fine wouldn't hold up in court).

The HOA decided in the hearing that we were guilty (surprise, surprise) of violating the bylaw.

They couldn't fine us, as the bylaws don't allow a fine until after a hearing has been held - and the cameras were already removed.

In the end, the punishment was a sternly written piece of paper on the attorney's letterhead (delivered via certified mail) that stated that we were

"...not allowed to place a camera on our home that had the potential to invade a neighbor's privacy."

Keep in mind, the letter specifically stated the camera could not be placed "on our home."

We left the cameras off of the home for about 4 months - until the annual HOA meeting.

You should have seen the look on the HOA Board's faces when I asked them

to explain the $4,000 line item for attorney's fees that simply stated "Title searches - Attorney fees."

The Board actually tried to hide the fact that they spent $4k trying to fight us over a couple of cameras by putting the fees in as "Title searches."

Needless to say, that meeting did not go well for them. About half of them lost their positions on the Board.

The other half (including Karen, unfortunately) remained on the Board.

About a week after the annual meeting, we installed new cameras - facing the same direction as the prior cameras - only this time,

we installed a post in the ground and mounted the cameras to that post.

The admonishment we received after the hearing specifically stated that we were not allowed to install cameras "on our home"

- and said nothing about putting them on a post.

They did send a letter to try to tell us to remove the cameras, but a sternly worded response indicating that

we were prepared to fight them actually worked this time around.

I guess they didn't want to spend another $4k fighting us. We didn't receive any follow up responses.

And the cameras on the post are still installed to this day (over 2 years and running strong).

Conflict with authority often brings out the most creative side of human persistence, and this story perfectly captures that dynamic. When the original poster (OP) installed harmless security cameras facing their own driveway, the Homeowners Association (HOA), led by an overzealous board member, decided it was a “nuisance.”

What followed was a slow, deliberate, and brilliantly calculated act of Malicious Compliance that cost the HOA 16% of its annual budget and reshaped the power dynamics of the neighborhood.

At the heart of this conflict lies a common emotional thread: control. HOAs are designed to preserve community order, but power can easily tip into domination when authority isn’t checked. OP’s decision to push back wasn’t about the cameras, it was about autonomy. They were told, “Try to stop us if you can,” and that defiance ignited a psychological need to reclaim agency.

As social psychologist Dr. Robert Cialdini, author of Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, explains, “When freedom to choose is restricted or threatened, the need to preserve autonomy makes us want that freedom and the associated behavior even more.”

The HOA’s rigid stance triggered what psychologists call reactance, the emotional pushback people feel when they believe their personal freedom is under attack. By exploiting the system’s own rules and bureaucracy, OP regained control in a situation designed to suppress it.

Every email, delay, and procedural obstacle became a small victory, each one forcing the HOA to feel the consequences of its own inflexibility.

This story also sheds light on a broader social truth: when rules exist without fairness or empathy, resistance becomes inevitable. Bureaucracies thrive on compliance, yet they often forget that respect, not authority, is what maintains real order.

In the end, OP’s quiet triumph wasn’t about revenge; it was about restoring balance. The cameras stood as more than just surveillance tools, they became symbols of persistence against petty control.

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

These Redditors slammed HOAs and their “Karen” culture

Open-Attention-8286 − Wonder what it would have cost them if you had also charged Karen with being a nuisance? She certainly sounds like one.

Parking-Fix-8143 − It's unfortunate that their stubbornness & hubris cost the rest of the HOA $4,000.

And another thing I've noticed about such Karens:

They don't think the rules apply to them, but they are wonderfully happy to use the rules as a cudgel against others.

_awesumpossum_ − S__ew HOAs. It’s literally just busybody Karens with nothing better to do.

big_dick_energy_mc2 − I was on the board for my HOA and I wholeheartedly approve of this.

It's usually half and half: half of the people on the board are normal, reasonable people,

and the other half are power hungry Karens. Unfortunately the Karens overpower the normals.

[Reddit User] − Why I own a house with no HOA.

If I want a friend to store a beat up fellow F350 for 3 months until the tow truck can take it to another state - I want that ability

This group focused on legality and retaliation, pointing out how residents could sue for harassment or property damage

justanawkwardguy − I think if you got something along the lines of “go ahead and try to stop us” in a situation like this,

you’d have fair ground for a harassment lawsuit against the hoa board, which is technically separate from the hoa as they’re individually responsible

Thameus − Those are some pretty amateur bylaws if you can get away with installing unauthorized posts on your property.

Peacemkr45 − That's actually impressive. We only had one run in with an HOA demanding we install a community approved fence

(wood stockade style) and we kept telling them no. they made all sorts of threats, both vocal and printed legal threats and It didn't even phase us.

They finally showed up about 3-4 months later with a fence installation company and started digging holes in my yard.

They would put up the fence and bill us for it. Now why this is amusing is our home was not part of the HOA

and they literally had ZERO say over what we could do.

Once the holes were dug, we called police and had them all arrested for vandalism, terroristic threats, etc.

Every member of the HOA and the fence installation crew now have criminal records.

3 of the HOA members spent a year plus in jail for c__spiracy to defraud and extort or something like that.

We used the holes and installed a chainlink fence and when we sold, made sure the buyers were well aware that our property was NOT part of the HOA.

These commenters voiced privacy concerns about cameras

semiregularcc − I know I could be downvoted for this. ... but to be honest,

I'm not sure if I would be very comfortable at some neighbors that I'm not very familiar with installing a camera pointing at my yard. Especially if I had kids.

I would probably request you to adjust the camera so that my yard wouldn't be in view rather than wasting HOA money to make you remove it though.

(I know you said it was grayed out. But as someone that's not familiar with the technology,

how can I be sure that's what actually happening unless I have access to the video?)

Haunting-Pie1120 − I totally get where you’re coming from — but I’m on the other side of the problem.

My neighbors have a camera pointing directly in our backyard facing the our patio furniture where my wife sun bathes (in a bathing suite).

I 100% get the need for cameras (we have them too! ), but it’s unsettling feeling with their point blank direction.

I’ve not asked the neighbors to re-point them yet and certainly wouldn’t go through the HOA, but it still feels like we’re being watched 24/7.

From our interactions (brought cookies to welcome them), they do not seem friendly —

asked us to leave the cookies on the doorstep and come back at a better time for them.

Just wanted to add my 2 cents with respect to what it feels like to be on the other side. @op

[Reddit User] − F__k HOAs but if my neighbour put up a camera facing my backyard even if they said it was greyed out,

I wouldn’t be able to enjoy my backyard anymore

[Reddit User] − I'm not a fan of HOA's. I was in one myself. That said, I wouldn't want a camera pointed in my backyard or side yard. Is that...

It seems like someone should have a reasonable expectation of privacy in their backyard.

As for a side yard I guess it would depend on whether or not there is a fence.

The grayed out feature probably isn't very comforting to other people. They'd have to trust that you did that, and that you don't change that.

It would be unsettling. I think the neighbor whose privacy was being violated

by OP should have sued OP, and I also think the HOA board should have used HOA funds to assist them.

I don't know the laws in OP's city, so maybe that was not an option.

This commenter added humor and wordplay

TadGarish − When you said they did not cease, I was like, "OK, but then I *know* they desisted." Man, did I read Karen wrong!

This user expressed disbelief at HOA membership itself

[Reddit User] − holy f__k i'll never understand why people would actually pay money to have to deal with a f__king HOA

In the end, one homeowner’s quiet defiance exposed everything wrong with power-hungry HOAs: pettiness, pride, and poor financial judgment. The cameras stayed. The board fractured. And the “nuisance” clause became a punchline.

Sometimes, justice isn’t served in court, it’s served with a $4,000 legal invoice and a smile.

Would you have fought back like this, or just taken the cameras down and moved on? Share your HOA horror stories below—we know you’ve got them.

Leona Pham

Leona Pham

Hi, I'm Leona. I'm a writer for Daily Highlight and have had my work published in a variety of other media outlets. I'm also a New York-based author, and am always interested in new opportunities to share my work with the world. When I'm not writing, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. Thanks for reading!

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