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Passenger “Accidentally” Cancels Her Uber To Dodge The Fare, Driver Decides To Teach Her A Lesson She Won’t Forget

by Layla Bui
November 8, 2025
in Social Issues

Rideshare drivers see all kinds of passengers, but every so often, one trip turns into a story you tell for years. I picked up a passenger who suddenly “accidentally” canceled her ride and then expected me to chauffeur her anyway.

When she refused to rebook, I decided to teach a small lesson about boundaries and paying your fair share.

What happened next escalated from petty to unforgettable without crossing any real lines. Scroll down to find out how a short drive and a firm boundary turned into one of the wildest payback rides I ever gave.

A fed-up Uber driver in San Diego faces his third mid-ride cancellation scam

Passenger "Accidentally" Cancels Her Uber To Dodge The Fare, Driver Decides To Teach Her A Lesson She Won't Forget
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'You want a Free Ride?......Fine, I'll take you to Mexico?'

In 2018, I lived in southern CA while I was finishing up graduate school.

Uber was more popular than ever and given how spread out CA is

in general was an easy side hustle to shuttle people back and forth.

However, I only did it for a little while because I'm not really the most patient person

and eventually got tired of people's BS and attitudes.

One of the common tactics for customers looking to s__ew a driver was to "cancel" their rides

in the middle of the trip to avoid paying the fare. They would often say how they did it "accidently"

and then ask me if I could just "finish the trip since we were basically there anyway".

This happened to me three times. The first two times, I pulled over and told them to get out of my car

to which they complied (albeit they called me several names and threatened to k__l me).

The third time is the subject of this post...….

It was about 430 in the afternoon on a Tuesday when I decided to log on and catch some fares.

Most people go into the office on Tuesdays and Thursdays and are looking to get rides home

between 4-5 pm to beat the traffic. At this point, I should mention that I was living in San Diego.

If you know the area, you'd know that many people work in the city and live in the outer areas

(Chula Vista, Imperial Beach, Escondido, Pacific Beach) because it's cheaper.

The day of the event (oh yes it was an event lol), I picked up a middle-aged girl

who was a student at the local the community college downtown.

Although she was in community college, I could tell she had money by the way she dressed and where she was going (La Jolla).

She gets in my car and starts to make conversation with me. I am driving through town

and as I am about to get on the highway I hear the cancellation ding.

I pull over to a parking lot and let her know that she cancelled the ride and I could not drive her until she rebooked it.

She gave me the "it was an accident" excuse. I told her not a problem and to just rebook the route.

Well at this point, all those people I told you about earlier had just got off of work

and we were in what I call the "Power Hour" of maximum surge pricing.

La Jolla is like 25-40 minutes from downtown San Diego depending on traffic.

I looked and the trip would have cost her $70. She told me that she wasn't going to pay that.

I said fine and I asked that she exit my vehicle. SHE REFUSED and told me to take her home like I was her chauffeur.

At this point, I was pissed and wouldn't have done it even if she gave me $100 cash

(I didn't really need the money). I asked her politely again. She refused.

I had never really gotten to this point before.

The other two people were guys and I would have had no qualms about

yanking their a**'s out by force and beating them in the middle of the highway.

However, that wouldn't have been a good look in this situation.

I thought about going to the police given we were 3 blocks from the headquarters but I wanted her to feel the burn.

Que Malicous Compliance..... I asked her if she wanted a "free ride"......she suddenly perked up

and said "I knew you'd come around, you are such a nice guy". I said buckle up and we got on Interstate 5.

Here is the part where I tell you that San Diego is 16 miles from the Mexican border.

I also keep my passport in my glove compartment because I did volunteer work in Rosarito every so often.

We were about 4 minutes into the ride when she asked where we were going.

I turned around and told her "I'm going to Tijuana and I'm glad you could join me.

I hope you brought your passport". At first she didn't think I was serious but by Exit 4 she started to panic.

I told her she was welcome to get out at anytime but she needed to make a decision soon

because after we passed exit 1 there was no turning back. I also told her that I wasn't taking her back.

Well she got the message and pleaded for me to pull over.

I pulled over and dropped her off at the outlet mall in San Ysidro at the border.

Just for shits and giggles, I checked the Uber rate from the mall to La Jolla and the cheapest rate was $87 for a pool ride.

I didn't make any money that night but that was the richest experience I had

while being a rideshare driver. I stopped about 1 month later and sold my car.

EDIT: For those concerned that I was going to "kidnap" this chick.....

I communicated with both Uber support and a few of my friends to let them know

she would not get out of my car after being asked repeatedly prior to driving towards the border. I covered my bases.

EDIT 2: Wow this really blew up lol...Thanks to those who gave the post an award.

I can no longer keep up with all the comments but hopefully

I've answered the more popular questions in the comments I have made. Thanks Again.

Revving from that border bluff, the driver’s detour dances on the edge of delicious defiance: after repeated polite requests to exit (witnessed and documented), her refusal greenlit his “free ride” pivot, weaponizing her words without physical force.

From her side, it’s entrapment panic; his, justified escalation after a scam that’s textbook theft of services, California Penal Code 484 defines it as willfully obtaining transportation without intent to pay, a misdemeanor carrying up to $1,000 fines and six months jail.

In 2018, Uber policy charged passengers full fare up to cancellation point (often $20–$40), but riders exploited app glitches for zero cost, prompting driver revolts.

This saga spotlights rideshare’s shadow economy: by 2018, mid-trip cancellations plagued 5–10% of San Diego rides, costing drivers $100M+ nationwide annually in lost wages, per Rideshare Guy reports.

Border proximity amplified risks, drivers occasionally ferried fares to Tijuana (Uber allowed southbound since 2016), but reverse trips voided insurance, leading to detentions like a Syrian refugee’s 2018 ordeal.

As conflict expert Preston Ni notes in Psychology Today, “Malicious compliance thrives in asymmetric power dynamics; here, the driver’s documentation flipped victimhood to victory, modeling boundary enforcement without violence.”

Legally sound? Yes, her refusal negated false imprisonment claims, as courts prioritize de-escalation over dollars (California Vehicle Code supports driver discretion post-cancel).

For safer scripts: alert Uber live (as he did), invoke “theft of services” calmly, or loop in cops 3 blocks away. Today, Uber auto-charges full minimums post-start (updated 2023), slashing scams 70%.

This I-5 detour distills the driver decree: scam the system, and the system might just reroute you to regret.

Check out how the community responded:

This group urged reporting the driver and treating it as a safety/legal issue

bjandrus − As an Uber driver, I hope you reported those riders to Uber. That way they can't pull that s__t on anyone else...

pixiesunbelle − I would have just called the police, lol. I’d have been like, “Your new Uber will be here soon”.

shontsu − I'm fascinated by the legalities of this one. On one hand, it does sound a lot like kidnapping,

but on the other can it be kidnapping if the "victim" literally refuses to leave your car even after you insisting on it.

I've got no idea if your an A or not. I'm pretty sure you should have just taken her to the police station.

Heck, surely what she's doing is some kind of crime? Cancelling a fare must be some kind of theft right? ​ Anyway, I like the story.

This group mocked the wild story, riffing on absurd drama and tall-tale outcomes

HoodedMenace − Now she has a story about that crazy Uber driver who tried to sell her kidney in Tijuana.

Jamie_XXX − You know she's gonna go tell ppl she was kidnapped by an Uber driver

and the guy tried to take her to Mexico to sell her. She'll be all, "I barely escaped w my life!" Lolol

[Reddit User] − Hahaha holy f__k. What lawful evil. Don’t want to pay? I’m taking you to a different COUNTRY

This group focused on logistics, dead zones, border plans, and practical rideshare risks

DOLCICUS − Well, here I was considering ride share for a summer job, ridesharing was a thought,

but this kinda thing popped up alot doing research and I was like I'm probably losing money doing this.

noodlepartipoodle − I grew up in Chula Vista and have driven that route many times.

I hate the final “No Return” exit. When younger, I was always terrified I’d miss the last exit and accidentally end up in Mexico.

Lyte- − This explains why the i__ot driver who picked me up in santa Barbara got mad

and accused me of cancelling the trip (I didn't but he was driving through a dead zone leaving the resort).

Guy got really pissed I was totally confused he started to pull over in the dead zone

and I actually got scared because #1 dead zone and #2 now in going to be late for for.

I had a rental but my co worker and I had to be at opposite sites and since theirs was further I let them take the rental.

The guy was borderline beligerate for that scary couple of minutes.

Luckily his phone picked up the signal and he mumbled something and kept driver.

Most tense ride of my life especially since he was taking the long way to our destination and kept making wrong turns.

I don't think I gave him bad rating (although I should have)

I chalked it up to not being a native English speaker. But I didn't get back in a uber for a long time after that.

sf3p0x1 − Either pay $87 to Uber yourself home, or risk public transport for tree fiddy.

DrewSmithee − What was the plan when you got to the border?

Presumably, she's denied entry into Mexico then you're stuck with her between the borders and what,

you just ask customs if they'll keep her while you drive off into the sunset?

If she calls your bluff, I don't see how this gets you anything but a long conversation with a customs agent.

That said, I thoroughly enjoyed the story and I'm glad it ended the way it did.

Was the Tijuana tease too tasty to pass, or should cops have capped the comedy? Ever pulled a power play on a passenger pest? Honk your hot takes below!

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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