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Patient In ICU For Brain Hemorrhage Asked To “Prove It” To Jury Duty Office, Their Response Is Priceless

by Layla Bui
October 27, 2025
in Social Issues

Nothing screams “timing” quite like getting a jury duty letter while you’re still in intensive care. One patient, just days after brain surgery, found themselves having to convince a court official that, yes, being in the ICU might be a valid reason to miss jury duty.

After being told people “fake ICU noises,” they decided to send undeniable proof: a photo showing their licence, hospital gown, and enough medical equipment to make any skeptic shut up. Strangely, the jury office didn’t call again after that.

Brain-hemorrhage patient in ICU gets jury summons; clerk demands evidence

Patient In ICU For Brain Hemorrhage Asked To “Prove It” To Jury Duty Office, Their Response Is Priceless
not the actual photo

'The jury duty guy said people fake ICU noises over the phone and wanted proof?'

The jury duty letter came while I was in Royal North Shore ICU in 2013 for a brain haemorrhage from an aneurysm.

I was 4 days post surgery when the letter came and bored I read it in the hospital.

Told them I couldn’t. They said no excuse do you have evidence.

The nurse had me hold up my licence, wrote a sign that said “are you kidding mate”

and took a pic of me 80 scalp staples, black eye, IVs and the spinal fluid drain in my head at my request.

Never heard a peep after that lol

Jury duty systems rely on civic participation, yet they often clash with real-life emergencies that make attendance impossible.

In this case, a woman recovering from a brain aneurysm in intensive care received a jury summons and, despite their condition, was asked to provide proof.

Their nurse helped them send an image showing hospital equipment and surgical staples to confirm the situation, a surreal but effective response that highlights a broader issue of bureaucracy versus human judgment.

Court systems must verify excuses for absence because fake medical or hardship claims are, unfortunately, common.

According to the U.S. Courts Jury Service guidelines, individuals can be excused only for “undue hardship or extreme inconvenience,” and verification, such as medical certification, is often required to maintain fairness in the selection process.

Many state and regional courts adopt similar policies, meaning staff cannot legally dismiss someone without documentation. This rigidity protects against abuse of the system but can make the process appear cold or insensitive when genuine emergencies occur.

Behavioral experts point out that institutional distrust plays a large role here. When public offices encounter repeated dishonesty, they begin to default to skepticism.

Dr. Susan Krauss Whitbourne, a psychologist writing for Psychology Today, notes that “once authority figures are exposed to frequent deception, they begin assuming dishonesty as the baseline, often missing authentic distress.”

This dynamic explains why even ICU patients are sometimes met with disbelief; it’s less personal and more procedural.

In the story, the nurse’s quick thinking turned a frustrating situation into a moment of human irony. Their visual “proof” not only satisfied bureaucratic requirements but also revealed how absurd the situation had become.

Here’s the feedback from the Reddit community:

These Redditors shared their own wild jury duty experiences, from luck to absurd excuses

PRHerg1970 − For my twenties, I would get a jury summons, like clockwork, every two to three years.

I know people who’ve never been called, and I’ve been around 7 times.

Animator-Dull − I got jury duty once during an exam period and I let them know that it may be an issue,

as my exam dates for my forensic science degree hadn’t been released yet and I’ve never been bothered again...

that was 6 years ago... would have gone for them to send me home

because in Australia they don’t want anyone on the jury that would understand the system more than the average person

7452mlc − Last time I went to jury duty I really pissed off the judge but I was right.

A list telling us what we can and can not bring into the court.

I wear hearing aids and I wore mine but... With no batteries.

I'm sitting there and the judge was asking me a question and of course I didn't hear her.

I pointed to the list that stated I couldn't bring in batteries so my hearing aids were totally useless.

We argued back and forth but I was in the right and I went home

redimp89 − My jury duty summons was the last piece of mail I received before I became homeless for four months.

I went and had an awkward moment when they asked where to send the daily compensation check. I was not selected.

hymie0 − Back story - my dad was wrongly sentenced to a weekend in jail (successfully appealed).

A few years later, he got a jury summons.

He called the court to explain that he wasn't sure he could be unbiased after a bad experience...

The clerk cut him off right there. "Judge ForgotTheName?"

My dad was caught off guard and said "Uhh, yeah, that's him."

Clerk: (Click click click) "I took you off the roll. Thank you for calling. "

These users sympathized with OP’s ordeal and offered personal or compassionate reflections

BostonPilot − I've been called 3 times, served on a jury once.

I understand that people are busy, but I do think it's important for us to participate in the judicial system.

I don't think it was an undue burden... That said, yeah, if you're in the ICU you get a pass...

[Reddit User] − My late mother told the judge at jury duty that she was on chemo and preferred not to serve.

He asked her if she could prove it so she asked him if he wanted her to take off her wig. He excused her.

Roenkatana − I was deployed to Afghanistan and came back to mail,

slating me for jury duty and a letter stating that I had been held in contempt of court,

learned I had a bench warrant for that contempt when I went to reregister my car.

My Battalion Commander and Sergeant Major came down to the precinct to bail my a** out

and that courtroom was a hurricane.

Only time I've ever seen a judge belittled in their own court and take it.

This group explained how strict procedures force even genuine cases to prove themselves

Revwog1974 − I've been the jury duty person who took these calls.

We had extremely limited circumstances in which we were legally allowed to take someone’s word.

I couldn't afford to lose my job just because someone was the only guy actually in the ICU that day.

One time I got a call asking to be excused from jury duty from the only nurse in my entire state

who would be scheduled on duty trained to receive transplant organs during the days she’d been called to jury duty.

It was a weird combo of vacation and illness or maternity leave or something for the other qualified people.

We couldn't leave our entire state without the ability to receive an organ if one became available.

The organ would go to the next person on the list and our state’s person

who had waited for their turn might die waiting for their chance.

Even then I had to get something in writing from her hospital before I could excuse her from jury duty.

But when I did, I put her on the do not re-contact list for as long as I was allowed.

They acted like I was a piece of crap and just making it up that

I couldn’t travel 16 hours one way alone just for that and pay for it as well.

Cultural-Concept-485 − I received jury duty under my old name.

Tried to tell them I legally don't have that name anymore and then when I did their little form,

I let them know I have been diagnosed with PTSD. Gave them my new name as well.

Still f__king did everything under the old name. Ah well, still don't have jury duty

GrabtharsHamm3r − Sorry to hear you went through that.

Since you’re here on reddit, assuming things went well with your brain and hope all is well now!

I’d guess that particular court had had a lot of issues with people excusing themselves with “outlandish” scenarios.

The county my parents live in is similar.

You have to pretty much have to show no matter what (except scenarios like yours where evidence would be required)

just to tell them your excuse.

My mother had check marked the box where she has trouble with English

once and they sent back asking for proof. I had no idea how to send in evidence of that.

When I called them to ask they said that they would get a translator so she could come in

and prove that she couldn’t speak English well enough.

Made zero sense to me and such a colossal waste of resources.

But apparently they were having serious issues with most people

just lying to get out of jury duty and couldn’t get near enough jurors for their jury pool.

So what do you think? Was the jury office just following protocol, or did they take skepticism way too far? Drop your thoughts below!

 

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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