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Pregnant Coworker’s Leave Pushes Woman To Refuse Extra Work With No Extra Pay, Earning Her Office Villain Label

by Jeffrey Stone
December 3, 2025
in Social Issues

A frazzled office worker, blindsided by a pregnant coworker’s plea to shoulder her tasks, stands firm against a tidal wave of unpaid extra work. At 30, she’s juggling her own desk chaos when HR drops a bombshell: cover for Liddy, 28, who’s battling brutal morning sickness and planning a month’s unpaid leave. Refusing to double her load for zero extra pay, she causes workplace drama, with Liddy rallying colleagues to brand her the villain.

Reddit’s buzzing with this office showdown, torn between loyalty to a coworker’s struggle and the audacity of unpaid overtime. The story leaves readers wondering: who’s really at fault here?

A worker refuses to take on a pregnant coworker’s tasks, causing office tension.

Pregnant Coworker’s Leave Pushes Woman To Refuse Extra Work With No Extra Pay, Earning Her Office Villain Label
Not the actual photo.

'AITA for not taking over my pregnant coworker's workload?'

I [30F] have been working at the company for 2 years. My co-worker [28F] (lets call her Liddy) had just announced she is 8 weeks pregnant

(1st pregnancy), had been going through horrible morning sickness.

Liddy planned to take a month unpaid leave while she goes through her first trimester.

She had asked HR, and they allowed it because it was a legit reason.

Apparently HR told her that she needed to find someone to take over work for her while she was on leave.

Liddy had suggested to them that I takeover her work while she takes her leave.

When HR approached me with the suggestion, I refused it. Well because, to put it bluntly,

it is not my problem that she wanted to get pregnant and all, even if I am happy for her.

She could have easily work from home, or get her assistant to do it for her.

Bear in mind that I would not get paid extra for doing her work, it will just be me doubling my workload for the same pay.

Now HR can't legally force me to take it, so that's why they couldn't do much about it.

Now Liddy is pissed off that I said no. She even tried to turn a few of our coworkers against me for it.

They called me an a__hole for not being "considerate" or "helpful" or "a team player".

And finally, they came to an agreement that her assistant would be taking over her work while I supervise her instead

(a solution I had suggested instead of asking me to take over her work while her assistant slacks off). Am I the a__hole?. ​

TL;DR - pregnant coworker wanted to take leave and leave me with her workload.

I refused and she called me an a__hole. Her assistant ended up with the work instead.

Talk about a workplace plot twist! This Redditor’s refusal to play superhero for Liddy’s workload is a masterclass in setting boundaries, but it’s kicked up a storm.

Liddy, grappling with morning sickness, isn’t wrong to need time off. Pregnancy’s no picnic, especially with hyperemesis potentially in play. But tossing her workload onto a coworker without consent? That’s where the script flips.

HR’s the real puppet master here, shirking their duty to arrange cover and leaving two women to duke it out.

The Redditor’s stance is rock-solid: why double your grind for the same paycheck? It’s not about lacking empathy. Nobody’s denying Liddy’s struggle, but expecting a colleague to absorb a month’s worth of tasks for free is a stretch.

Liddy’s assistant, already on the payroll, was the logical choice, yet HR and Liddy tried to guilt-trip the Redditor into compliance. Her suggestion to supervise the assistant instead? A practical compromise that screams, “I’m not heartless, just not a doormat.”

Liddy’s reaction, though, is where she fumbles. Badmouthing a coworker for refusing unpaid labor is less “team player” and more “mean girl.”

Pregnancy hormones might explain the edge, but rallying colleagues to shame the Redditor is unprofessional, no doubt. Both women are caught in a system where HR’s laziness pits employees against each other, like gladiators fighting over scraps while management sips coffee.

The bigger picture: this mess exposes a workplace failing its staff. Companies should have contingency plans for leave, not leave employees to beg favors.

The Redditor’s not the villain for protecting her sanity, but Liddy’s not evil either. She’s desperate in a flawed system. A little empathy could’ve gone a long way, but so could HR doing their job.

This saga’s a wake-up call: boundaries matter, but so does workplace fairness. The Redditor’s choice to say “no” isn’t cold, it’s a stand for equity.

If everyone’s expected to pick up slack for free, where’s the line? So next time, HR needs to step up, not stir the pot.

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

Some say OP was right to refuse extra work without extra pay.

lauralikesstuff − NTA for sure. However HR is T A -

it shouldn’t be on the employee taking leave to fill their own position, HR should be sorting that out themselves.

Dont-trust-it − NTA. Its completely unreasonable for you to be expected to essentially double your workload without being compensated for it.

[Reddit User] − Absolutely NTA. Why should you do double the work without any increase in pay?

They are saving money on her not coming in. I'm really sick of people with kids feeling entitled to the labor of people without kids.

Working without pay is illegal.

Others criticize HR for shifting responsibility and Liddy for badmouthing OP.

DaisyInc − NTA. Liddy wasn't the a__hole at first. After all, she is forfeiting her pay with no pay leave to deal with her pregnancy issues.

But she turned into an a__hole for trying to strongarm and manipulate you into taking her work for no extra pay,

even badmouthing you to others; very unprofessional of her. HR is also the a__hole for putting the responsibility of finding a covering officer on her.

Mysterious-System680 − NTA. HR is the a__hole here. If they accepted Liddy's plan to take unpaid leave,

the onus was on them to arrange cover, not to leave it up to her. And given that the leave is unpaid, they have money available to pay for overtime.

When your colleagues give you a hard time about not being a team player, ask them

why the company should get to pocket the cost of Liddy's salary while she is on leave while expecting you and Liddy's assistant to do extra work for free.

walnutwithteeth − NTA. I'm not sure where you're based or the legalities behind it,

but it should be on the employer to find suitable cover for a role if the absence is planned, not the individual employee.

If you are already working at capacity then you are within your rights not to take on more especially if there is no increased pay.

She's being an AH for badmouthing you.

Some see fault on both sides but blame the company for creating the conflict.

hellyeahbeeech − I'm torn between e-s-h and n-a-h. The company is definitely the problem.

You're lashing out at her, she's lashing out at you, when both of you should be angry with the company.

It's like two women tearing each other apart because the guy was cheating and lying.

The company is pitting the two of you against each other to solve the labor issue instead of taking care of its responsibilities.

Edit to add judgement: ESH HR is the real AH but these two were both s__tty to each other instead of addressing the real source of the issue.

fan_of_fromage − NTA for refusing extra work. But you are TA for assuming she could work from home.

It sounds like she has a condition called hyperemesis, which is more severe than just "morning sickness".

But that is not your problem. Replacing sick staff members is a problem for the management to solve, expecting you to do unpaid work is ridiculous.

They should not have told her that it was her responsibility to find a replacement either.

[Reddit User] − Then why does she have an assistant if whenever she'll be out of the office she'll pick somebody else to do her job?

I believe there'd be no questions, the assistant should do it even if they aren't qualified for some things Liddy does.

While it's not her fault to fall pregnant and less for taking time out of the job, since it's a right,

she's an AH for giving your name to HR without consulting with you first.

She probably did so because she believed you'd have said yes and when you didn't, like a bully,

made everybody gang up on you because you might be seen as the co-worker with less personality to say "no"

nexutus − NTA You are not obligated to take over anyone's workload especially, if you do not get anything for doing so.

I always have to laugh when someone who is pregnant or has Children expects others to bend backwards to accommodate to their needs.

They decided to reproduce so they have to take the consequences for themselves.

They do not have the right to expect others to do so So you are 100% NTA

Navigating this workplace drama requires cooler heads than a reality TV finale.

The Redditor could offer Liddy a sympathetic ear, maybe a “hope you feel better” coffee chat, while holding firm on not taking her work.

HR needs a wake-up call to arrange proper coverage, perhaps by hiring a temp or redistributing tasks fairly.

For Liddy, leaning on her assistant and keeping things professional avoids burning bridges.

Reflecting on this, it’s like watching two coworkers trip over the same corporate hurdle, each blaming the other instead of the broken system.

Was the Redditor right to dodge the extra work, or should she have pitched in for team spirit? How would you handle being roped into unpaid overtime? Drop your hot takes!

Jeffrey Stone

Jeffrey Stone

Jeffrey Stone is a valuable freelance writer at DAILY HIGHLIGHT. As a senior entertainment and news writer, Jarvis brings a wealth of expertise in the field, specifically focusing on the entertainment industry.

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