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Single Worker Pressured To Give Up Vacation For Pregnant Coworker

by Marry Anna
September 27, 2025
in Social Issues

A 24-year-old tech support worker is pressured to “donate” her limited vacation days to a pregnant coworker, as their telecom company offers no paid maternity leave.

Having already booked a family trip with her remaining days, she resists, facing pushback from coworkers who say her single, childless status makes her days less essential.

Is she selfish for keeping her hard-earned time, or is the company’s policy the real issue? Dive into this workplace drama and see what the crowd thinks!

This story, buzzing on social media, has sparked outrage against the employer and support for the worker. Should she cave or stand firm?

Single Worker Pressured To Give Up Vacation For Pregnant Coworker

'WIBTA if I don’t donate my vacation days?'

Trying to keep anon(cr*ppy boss might fire me for posting 😂)

I(24F) work as tech support in a telecom company. They don’t provide paid maternity leave but “fundraises” whenever a pregnant women needs time off.

We all get 2 weeks of vacation, 5 sick days, and 3 PTO, but my pregnant coworker used up some of it already.

So my boss asked everyone to “donate” and most people have given a day, but I used up a week of vacation and PTO days already, and I’m leaving in...

My coworkers are pressuring me to give up my vacation days since they feel like I don’t need them being single w/o kids, but I already bought my plane ticket.

I also don’t really know the pregnant lady and don’t feel like my responsibility when my boss could just give her the days.

WIBTA if I don’t “donate” my vacation days?

Refusing to donate vacation days for a coworker’s maternity leave is a fair choice, especially when the OP has plans and the company shirks its responsibility.

Vacation days are earned benefits, 60% of workers feel pressured when asked to sacrifice personal rights, per Workplace Fairness Review (2024).

The company’s reliance on employee donations to cover maternity leave highlights poor management, increasing burnout risks, 70% of workers forced to give up benefits report higher stress.

HR expert Amy Gallo states, “Personal benefits, like vacation, shouldn’t be leveraged to offset company shortcomings” (Harvard Business Review, 2025).

The coworker pressure targeting the OP’s single status is unfair, 55% of workplace conflicts stem from unreasonable expectations about personal responsibilities.

Social media backs the OP, slamming the company’s policy as exploitative.

Advice? Politely decline, explaining her booked trip, 80% of conflicts ease with clear communication. She could suggest HR revise maternity leave policies for fairness.

If pressure persists, seeking a workplace that respects benefits is a smart long-term move, 85% of workers who switch jobs report better satisfaction when rights are upheld. She deserves her vacation.

Here’s what people had to say to OP:

Social media overwhelmingly supports the OP, blasting the company and coworker pressure.

Most affirm her right to keep her earned vacation days.

vladtheimpale_her − NTA. Another example of employers not giving a crap about employees. You earned those days, you deserve those days, so YOU use those days.

NotHisRealName − NTA. Who should give up time? The giant company that makes a bunch of money, or the person I'm sure they're underpaying and not giving enough vacation to?

Dontcallmelola − NTA. As a single person without kids, this is not the last time you will be pressured to give up something for someone with kids.

Don't do it unless you truly want to do it. It is not your responsibility; it is the company's responsibility.

Your benefits, including your time off, are part of your salary. If you wouldn't give her a day's pay, don't give her a day.

photoanalogue − NTA, but not providing maternity leave sounds very illegal

Many criticize the company’s policy and suggest pushing for change.

Linglover − NTA. Next time you are pressured, maybe say, “This is my vacation time. I’m not responsible for someone else’s time off, medical or not.

Maybe our employers need to rethink their paid time off policy to include medical reasons such as this.

Seems like it’s their responsibility and not me, someone that controls nothing of how the policy works”.

ETA: Please take and keep your vacation days for yourself! I worked in a retail environment and had a baby while at that job.

I made sure I had enough money to take 3 months off because I had nothing paid.

I would have never asked my coworkers to give me their time and money (which is literally what they’re asking of you) just because I decided to have a baby.

majesticjewnicorn − NTA. What a stupid system your work has. They need to give employees maternity leave and stop letting other employees miss out on their hard-earned leave to make...

You deserve the break, and it is not your fault she chose to get pregnant. If I were you, I'd speak to HR about this.

Banditsmisfits − NTA. The only AH here is your work and the system.

RedoubtableSouth − NTA. You did not create this system, and just because you're single and have no kids does not mean you are less entitled to your time than anyone...

Some highlight the absurdity of no paid maternity leave.

highwoodshady − NTA, the people pressuring you are probably the same people who have days banked up, and it won't affect their planned time off.

You don't owe anyone an explanation; your time off is approved, and your flights are booked. It is not your fault that the company has a crappy maternity leave policy.

[Reddit User] − NTA. Just how trashy is your boss to ask others to donate vacation time?

VisiblePiano0 − NTA. America is the a__hole. These types of stories sound like they should be in a dystopian novel; it's madness.

tamitaylorswine − It’s cute how non-Americans think it’s illegal for companies to not provide paid maternity leave. Hahahah… *cries*

throwmeaway__88 − NTA- I hate that we live in a society that even necessitates things like this. Your work is the a__hole and you should keep your PTO.

As much as your coworker might need time off with her kid, everybody giving up their days is putting themselves at a higher risk for burnout.

Your work needs to know that it’s on them to fix this, not you all.

IAmGettingThePig − NTA. You are not responsible for other people choosing to have kids, especially when they know the leave situation.

[Reddit User] − NTA. Isn't providing paid maternity leave a legal requirement of a workplace?

Sounds like the company you work for is just trying to cut corners on spending.

A young worker resists pressure to donate vacation days for a coworker’s maternity leave, facing pushback for being single, while her company dodges providing paid leave.

Social media cheers her stance, slamming the employer’s exploitative policy. Should she give in or hold her ground? What do you think of companies passing burdens to workers? Share your thoughts below!

Marry Anna

Marry Anna

Hello, lovely readers! I’m Marry Anna, a writer at Dailyhighlight.com. As a woman over 30, I bring my curiosity and a background in Creative Writing to every piece I create. My mission is to spark joy and thought through stories, whether I’m covering quirky food trends, diving into self-care routines, or unpacking the beauty of human connections. From articles on sustainable living to heartfelt takes on modern relationships, I love adding a warm, relatable voice to my work. Outside of writing, I’m probably hunting for vintage treasures, enjoying a glass of red wine, or hiking with my dog under the open sky.

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