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Student Calls Classmate A Dumbass After She Releases Goldfish Into The Ocean

by Layla Bui
January 4, 2026
in Social Issues

Sometimes, good intentions can go horribly wrong, and the consequences aren’t always obvious until it’s too late. For one student, a classmate’s “rescue mission” for pet goldfish turned into an environmental disaster and a major school conflict.

The classmate posted a TikTok showing herself releasing goldfish into the ocean, claiming she was giving them freedom.

But one student, knowledgeable about aquariums and fish care, realized the reality: freshwater goldfish cannot survive in saltwater. When she confronted her classmate and explained the situation, things escalated quickly, with accusations of rudeness and bullying.

Now, she’s facing potential disciplinary action and a furious response from her parents, all while standing by her insistence that the animals’ welfare was at stake. Keep reading to see why this situation has sparked debate about intent, knowledge, and how far you should go to correct misinformation.

A student calls out a classmate for releasing goldfish into the ocean, sparking conflict and a potential school suspension

Student Calls Classmate A Dumbass After She Releases Goldfish Into The Ocean
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'AITA my classmate "saved goldfish" by releasing them into the ocean, I called her a dumbass?'

My classmate recently made a tiktok and she showed a group of people at lunch time it.

They were next to our table so I overheard the girl say "hey look at my tiktok I made come check it out"

and in it she explains how she "rescued" goldfish from the pet store and released them into the ocean so they can live free.

I was horrified upon hearing this, I love fish and have several aquariums so I'm fairly knowledgeable on them.

I walk over and I ask her to show me the video and I face palmed, she asked me why and I said "you realize you're actually a dumbass right,

this is one of the dumbest things I've ever seen" her friend says "well that's just rude, why would you say that, because she cares?"

to which I had to explain that goldfish are freshwater fish, they can't survive the ocean

because its saltwater so all of those goldfish were dead in minutes.

They basically choked to death as salt filled up their gills.

Lastly, you never release animals into the wild. There are goldfish that are destroying our rivers and lakes because of dumbasses like her.

They say that I'm a bully and walk away. I later get called into the principal's office

who told me I was expected to apologize, and I said no, I stand by what I said.

F__k ignorant people who destroy the environment.

My parents were called over and I got sent home and my parents are pissed I refused to apologize. I might get suspended.

There is a strong ecological consensus that releasing aquarium fish into natural waters is harmful and unnecessary. Goldfish are freshwater fish (not saltwater species) and are not adapted to survive in the ocean.

They evolved in freshwater ecosystems and are ill-equipped to handle saltwater physiology; saltwater causes osmotic stress that most freshwater species cannot tolerate, leading to rapid death.

This basic biological difference is why people are advised not to release freshwater fish into saltwater environments, they simply cannot survive there.

Far from being harmless, goldfish released into freshwater environments have become notorious invasive species in many parts of the world. Ecologists and government wildlife agencies warn that even seemingly “cute” or “rescued” goldfish can wreak havoc when released into lakes, rivers, or ponds. Once in the wild, they:

  • Grow much larger than in aquariums, sometimes reaching over a foot long. (U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service)
  • Compete with native fish for food and habitat, throwing off ecological balance. (dnr.state.mn.us)
  • Stir up sediment and reduce water quality, uprooting plants and fostering harmful algal blooms. (Popular Science)
  • Spread parasites and diseases that can pressure native aquatic wildlife. (Regional Municipality of Wood Buffalo)

Because of these impacts, agencies like the U.S. Fish & Wildlife Service and state/provincial fisheries departments explicitly advise against releasing goldfish or other aquarium animals into the wild, and in many places such introductions are illegal and could lead to fines or enforcement action.

For example, a region’s aquatic invasive species management program warns that goldfish and similar ornamental pets, when dumped into natural waters, can harm native ecosystems and are exactly the kind of invasive species authorities are working to prevent.

The National Invasive Species Act and associated policies demonstrate how seriously governments treat aquatic invasions, restricting how non-native species can enter and spread because invasive organisms significantly disrupt water quality, native wildlife, and ecosystem function.

So, from an environmental fact standpoint, the classmate’s act was not harmless. Trying to “save” goldfish by dumping them into the ocean or natural waterbodies is ecologically irresponsible and potentially unlawful.

The harm isn’t just hypothetical, goldfish released around the world are documented as invasive and destructive, far outlasting the casual assumption that they’ll simply die quietly.

In terms of behavior, experts on addressing misinformation routinely recommend correcting false beliefs with both accurate facts and respectful communication.

Name-calling can shut down learning even when the underlying facts are correct, but the scientific basis for your concern that releasing goldfish damages ecosystems and that goldfish cannot survive in inappropriate environments is solidly supported by ecological and wildlife authorities.

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

These Redditors emphasized that the OP was factually correct and justified in trying to stop harm to the goldfish

Sailor_D00m − NTA! You’re 100% right on BOTH counts!

That would’ve been a pretty awful death for the gold fish AND yeah releasing captive bred animals into the wild

usually either results in that animal dying OR local flora and fauna suddenly having to compete with an invasive species.

She meant well but that stark reality check on your part was definitely warranted

Soiree1999 − NTA, but a different approach might be more effective. Ask questions. “Did you know that goldfish are freshwater fish?”

“Do you understand what happens to freshwater fish when they are released into saltwater? ” Lead her to her own dumbassery…

This group noted that both sides share blame (ESH), highlighting that the classmate acted ignorantly but the OP’s approach

JudgeJudAITA − ESH - to quote The Dude “You’re not wrong, you’re just an a__hole” Your classmate is a well-meaning i__ot.

You seem more interested in being superior than in getting her to stop causing damage.

WebbieVanderquack − ESH. I stand by what I said You need to learn how to say important things calmly and without insults.

People are more likely to listen to you, and less likely to accuse you of being a bully.

Novel_Ad_7318 − ESH. This is. .. oh my god. Okay, yeah, your classmate sucks here for not realizing

that her actions are less than intelligent and should inform herself about an animals needs before doing something like this.

HOWEVER, insulting someone over this out of nowhere isn't good behaviour on your side either.

Noone is going to listen to your reasons if you insult them.

​ ETA: The "out of nowhere" phrasing was not referring to there being no reason to get heated - there was one.

It was more that OP started out with direct insults instead of FIRST explaining herself

and only when prompted by the friend actually stated what the issue here was.

I do think that OPs heart is most likely in the right place, but acting like this will most likely never get her point across,

which invalidates her ability to educate people on topics like this. Also, imagine you are this classmate, also still rather young. You.

.. well, tried to do a good but stupid thing, someone asks you for the video

and suddenly they start insulting you without you being able to reason out why? This is the out of nowhere I am talking about.

These Redditors stressed that the OP’s delivery was inappropriate

If-By-Whisky − Tempted to go E-S-H, but I'm voting YTA. Also, you missed a huge opportunity here dude.

Obviously you're right, but it isn't ok to just go up to someone and call them a dumbass.

Praise in public, criticize in private. Then, if the societally-harmful behavior doesn't stop, publicly shaming becomes an option.

You jumped straight into public shaming before giving her a chance to correct her seemingly well-intentioned mistake.

Also, get real: it's not like you've never done anything stupid before.

How would you like it if someone started publicly calling you a dumbass in person, when they could have just taken you aside privately?

As for the missed opportunity: why the f__k didn't you just DM her or talk to her privately in a kind and respectful way?

You would have gained huge cool points with this person had you done that. Think about it from her point of view.

She posts something publicly hoping to get likes and attention from it. You tell her why it's a problem.

She realizes that she's done something incredibly stupid in a very public forum,

and now there's a risk that everyone figures out how dumb she's been.

But because you came along, she can take down the video or apologize before word gets out, and the potential for public humiliation disappears.

She probably would have been incredibly grateful to you.

Don't get pissed off next time- think about what you can do to be useful.

Also, for the record, I too am an aquarium person and would have been very upset had I seen this. Edit: thanks for the awards!

slydog4100 − ESH. Never lead with the insult, no matter how justifiable it is.

Explaining facts without launching with the dumbass part might have actually given her pause to consider her actions in the future.

Instead you insulted her which threw up a wall and no matter how accurate your statement on her actions, no facts will get through.

She sucks for all the obvious reasons.

And the school, too, sucks if they're going to suspend you for not apologizing

while also not actually educating their students well enough to understand this sort of "Activism" does more harm than good.

TiffyCol − ESH You were completely right about what you said, however calling her a dumbass is where you are the a__hole.

She's obviously not the sharpest knife in the drawer and she is also the a__hole for what she did,

but you could have simply informed her of her mistake. An example: "Hey, I don't know if you knew, but goldfish are freshwater fish.

The ocean is full of saltwater, so you actually just killed all those fish."

Instead, you called her a dumbass in front of all her friends, and humiliated her.

Yes, I am aware she would have gotten humiliated on tiktok anyway, but she didn't need your help for that. You bullied her.

This group reinforced that while the OP’s message was correct

bamf1701 − ESH. Factually, you are 100% correct and your classmates did nothing to help those animals.

On the other hand, the way you told them that pretty much guaranteed that they wouldn’t listen to

what you said or have any chance of being convinced.

Your heart may be in the right place, but your mouth is so very much in the wrong place.

StinkyJane − YTA. In the words of Lebowski, "You're not wrong, Walter. You're just an a__hole."

Being factually correct (which you were) doesn't mean you behaved correctly (you didn't).

You inserted yourself into a conversation that didn't involve you for the express purpose of belittling and degrading someone else.

You can gently correct someone's incorrect understanding without hurling invective at them and going out of your way to make them feel small.

Edited to add: I just wanted to clarify, it is important for this girl to know that she shouldn't do this in the future.

But you can't come in hot to a conversation that doesn't involve you and start berating someone like this.

(It would be different if the girl was bragging/laughing about intentionally torturing goldfish, but she was acting out of ignorance, not malice.)

Pulling her quietly to the side to let her know this isn't a good idea, or even very gently correcting her in front of the others,

would have been the right approach here, and likely would have produced better results.

Learning kindness and diplomacy now will take you far in life.

mudbunny − ESH Your schoolmate is an AH for "liberating" the goldfish.

You are an a__hole for being, well, a complete a__hole about explaining it.

If you would have done so without the swearing and insulting, you wouldn't have been called to the principal's office

and you wouldn't have been sent home. There are two parts when you want to tell someone they did something wrong.

The first is the message itself. Your message was fine. You hit all the important points, and I woulda said the same thing.

The second is the context in which you provide the message. In this case, the context is a school setting,

where being extremely rude and insulting to a classmate, is almost 100% going to have severe consequences on the messenger.

bobshallprevail − ESH and those saying NTA are using you being factually correct as an excuse for you to be a complete d__k.

Yes she was ignorant and wrong but your reaction was not okay in the slightest.

Education and sharing knowledge goes a lot farther than calling people names and yelling at them.

She didn't do it to hurt the fish, she did it because she thought she was helping. Maybe you could try and help her realize her mistake.

These commenters summarized the mixed outcome: the OP’s facts were right, but the method of delivery made them partly at fault

lkvwfurry − ESH, you are correct but you handled it poorly.

Flying48 − ESH, I mean clearly she didn’t know, “you realize you’re a dumbass right” like damn dude, you can’t just say that to people.

Her friends were right that is f__king rude, but she was also ignorant and didn’t save anything so

Kakiston − NTA, but also how the hell are you potentially being suspended?

You called someone a dumbass, which yk isn't good but surely doesn't warrant that sort of reaction???

And while you may have upset that girl, you are functionally correct.

Reddit largely agreed on one thing: the goldfish never stood a chance. Where opinions split was on how the truth should have been delivered.

Some saw a necessary wake-up call; others saw a lesson in how quickly valid points get lost behind harsh words.

Was refusing to apologize a stand for environmental responsibility, or did the insult undermine the message entirely? If you witnessed something harmful born from ignorance, would you correct it publicly or quietly pull someone aside? Share your take below.

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS STORY?

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS STORY?

OP Is Not The AH (NTA) 11/11 votes | 100%
OP Is Definitely The AH (YTA) 0/11 votes | 0%
No One Is The AH Here (NAH) 0/11 votes | 0%
Everybody Sucks Here (ESH) 0/11 votes | 0%
Need More INFO (INFO) 0/11 votes | 0%

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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