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Wife Accuses Husband Of Affairs Based On Psychic Readings, Then Begs For Him Back

by Annie Nguyen
December 9, 2025
in Social Issues

Relationships rely on trust, yet sometimes the biggest threats come from people outside the marriage who should never have had a voice in it.

When someone chooses a rumor over reality, especially one delivered by a self-proclaimed psychic, the foundation of the relationship can collapse faster than anyone expects. It is hard to rebuild something once suspicion becomes stronger than loyalty.

One Redditor watched his marriage unravel after his wife became convinced he was cheating based on a bizarre claim from her longtime friend.

What followed were months of surveillance, arguments, and emotional distance that left him questioning everything he once believed about their future together.

By the time the truth surfaced, he had already reached a point he could not come back from. Scroll down to read how he described the breaking point that pushed him toward divorce.

A husband refuses to reconcile after his wife trusted a “psychic” friend over him, sparking a divorce she now wants to undo

Wife Accuses Husband Of Affairs Based On Psychic Readings, Then Begs For Him Back
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'AITAH for refusing to consider stopping our divorce after my ex admitted her "psychic" friend lied about me having an affair?'

I met my wife, Rhona, when we were in college together.

I made the obviously terrible assumption that the fact she was in post secondary education

meant she had a modicum of common sense.

We started dating our senior year and after job hunting settled on moving back to her home town after graduating.

We found an apartment and lived together for two years before getting married. All good so far.

At our wedding I met an old friend of hers. Anna. She offered to read my palm since she was part gypsy.

Weird. I am in construction and I know a few people from that group and they call themselves Roma. Whatever.

Anna only comes to town every once in a while.

She lives in NYC so she doesn't have time to visit since she has an exciting life there.

She makes costumes for plays and cosplayers. So we see her maybe four times over the next two years.

Last time she came was Labor Day last year. And that's when it got weird.

All of a sudden Rhona starts acting oddly. She starts checking in on me at work.

Coming by when I'm working late. Asking to use my phone because hers is almost out of power. That sort of thing.

She finally comes out and accuses me of having an affair.

I thought she was joking so I laugh and say that I am not.

This sets her off like a Roman candle. Because Anna told her I would laugh it off when Rhona came for the truth.

I laughed because it was ridiculous. I barely had time for a relationship with my wife and my job.

I am home all weekend long. When I go golfing her brother is almost always either in my foursome or at the club.

And most important of all I love my wife. I wouldn't do anything to harm her.

And yet she takes the word of Anna the psychic seamstress over mine.

She asks me to leave our apartment. I say no because I have nowhere else to go.

So she leaves and moves back with her parents. They think she is nuts too.

I spent the next few months working and trying to convince her that I'm not cheating and that I want her to come home.

I don't get invited to Thanksgiving because it would be "awkward".

I didn't even stick around for Christmas. I went home to see my family.

They have been following all this stupidity without commenting until then.

At Christmas they had an intervention. They said my wife was having a break from reality and that she wasn't coming out of it.

My dad told me to give my head a shake which he only does when I am being monumentally stupid.

When I got back I went to a lawyer and started my divorce. That was in January.

Finally at the beginning of April Rhona calls me to talk. I say that we should talk through lawyers.

She starts to cry and I agree to meet her in public if she will allow me

to record our conversation so I can give a copy to my lawyer. She eventually agreed.

Turns out her and her parents hired a private detective to find my affair.

Six months and a huge bill later zero evidence of an affair.

She finally believes me and wants to come home.

I tell her that our lease is up in July and I already found a job in Denver near my family.

She says she would come with me. I respectfully declined. I told her we just weren't right for each other.

The truth is I do not want to have my offspring share DNA with this dingbat.

Anyway, I am moving ahead with my divorce. I am gutted that she took her friend's psychic vibrator over mine.

Her family has approached me several times.

The last time her dad offered to front us a 25% down payment on a house

if I agreed to go to marriage counseling instead of just leaving. I politely declined. I cannot be bought.

Rhona is now depressed but I see no way of ever trusting her again.

She is young enough she can marry again and wreck some other guy's life. AITAH?

#EDIT: I meant to write psychic vibrations not psychic vibrator.

But I like the idea better the way I accidentally wrote it. So it stands.

Trust breaks loudly, even when the moment looks quiet from the outside. In this situation, the husband wasn’t simply responding to an odd accusation, he was confronting the painful reality that his partner chose a fantasy over the history, loyalty, and everyday truth of their marriage.

What stings isn’t just the belief in a “psychic” prediction; it’s the months of doubt, surveillance, emotional abandonment, and the realization that his word meant less than a stranger’s story. Losing trust is devastating, but losing someone’s belief in your character is something deeper.

Rhona’s behavior reflects someone consumed by anxiety and suggestion. Once doubt took root, everything she observed became “evidence” against her husband.

That pattern is common in people overwhelmed by fear, the mind starts creating meaning where none exists.

Many men interpret false accusations as a profound betrayal, while some women frame suspicion as emotional self-protection. Two emotional instincts collided, but only one escalated into months of life-altering damage.

Verywell Mind explains that when people become hyper-focused on a perceived threat, anxiety “narrows attention,” making them overlook all information that contradicts their fears. This can cause them to cling to a belief even when the evidence proves otherwise.

The site also writes that once distrust takes hold, the mind starts “filling in the blanks” with worst-case assumptions, and the emotional brain overrides rational thought.

In this state, a person can attach to unfounded ideas because they feel emotionally true, even when objectively false.

These expert insights make Rhona’s behavior easier to understand, not excusable, but understandable. Her fear hijacked her reasoning.

A comment from a friend became a narrative she emotionally committed to, and once she did, every action her husband took was filtered through suspicion. By the time reality forced its way back in, the damage to the marriage had already hardened.

And this is why his choice to finalize the divorce is emotionally coherent. Trust cannot be rebuilt when one partner has spent half a year investigating, accusing, abandoning the home, and rejecting every truth placed in front of them. Not all wounds require anger, some simply require acceptance that the foundation is gone.

The most realistic path forward is two separate healing journeys. She must confront the anxiety that overwhelmed her judgment, and he deserves the peace that comes from stepping out of a storm he never created. Sometimes closure, not reconciliation, is the healthiest act of love for both people involved.

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

These commenters say believing a psychic over a partner is ridiculous and relationship-ending

[Reddit User] − "This dingbat." I could not have described her better. NTA of course

Fit_Reason7319 − NTA - Once she took the word of a psychic over you, it was over.

And the fact that she then covinced her parents to hire a PI to get info on your infidelities is just the icing on the top.

And only the PI coming up empty brought about the realization that you were telling the truth.

What else will she blindly believe when her psychic friend has another vision? Run, don't walk.

TheBookOfTormund − I just want to be clear here - she did all of this based ENTIRELY

on some random b__lshit her friend just made up? Nothing else at all?

This group focuses on mocking the “psychic vibrations” excuse and how absurd the accusation was

No_Lavishness_3206 − NTA. But I need clarification. Did you mean psychic VIBRATIONS?

[Reddit User] − Psychic vibrater... looks like auto-correct is your worst enema

These Redditors stress that her own family’s reaction proves how unstable and dangerous her behavior is

The_Crown_And_Anchor − Even her own parents want her out of their lives.

Her dad spent a bunch of money on a private investigator...not to help his daughter,

but to get her out of his home and to get that crazy out of his life

And now he's willing to literally give you money to take her back. Really think about that.

It'll help you sleep at night if you ever second guess your decision to run NTAH

Far-Season-695 − NTA and in a weird way dude Anna helped you out in dodging a nuke.

Glad it happened earlier in your relationship and not after you guys intertwined even further like kids, house etc

Ashamed-Source3551 − NTA it’s crazy diabolical of her friend to throw out accusations like that.

If she wanted to show off her “psychic” ability, she could have made up any other number of things

that wouldn’t potentially ruin a person’s life. But as another comment said, the psychic did help you dodge a huge bullet.

Imagine if you had kids with her and her friend got a psychic vibe about you abusing the kids?

That s__t could land you in jail depending on how hard she believes it.

While your situation really sucks, at least you are now free from someone so easily influenced. UpdateMe!

This group shares experiences with partners whose spiritual beliefs escalated into paranoia and accusations

Hectordoink − I once worked with an older male colleague (he was 50ish, I was 28 and recently married).

This man would hustle out of work at exactly 4 pm every day and would not stay a second later, no matter the circumstances.

Turns out that his wife had been accusing of affairs his whole marriage

and if he was 5 minutes late getting home she would absolutely blow, making life hell (more hellish?) for him for weeks afterward.

I learned that this behaviour in his wife started innocently in the early years

of their marriage and had ramped up to level 10 crazy over the years.

By that time they had kids, a mortgage … and it was impossible for him financially to leave. She gave you a gift, take it.

[Reddit User] − NTA Listen, I tried to be the guy who was respectful and even interested in the spiritual beliefs of my partners.

I really tried. Tarot, horoscopes, all that jazz. I really tried to learn and participate even if I didn't fully believe. Never again.

I've been in too many 12+ hour screaming matches because of a bad tarot pull, a horoscope that

said I'd find new love, even just a "prophetic" dream.

I can't do it again because time after time the cards would mean more than my own actions and words.

You can't play the game and you can't be with someone who puts this kind of thing

before you and the person you physically are. There's no winning.

You can't argue with someone who uses a different set of reality than you at a core level.

-the amount of times I had to politely ask "please don't tell me how I am feeling or thinking in this situation.

I know what I am feeling and thinking" because my sign said otherwise is too damn high.

These commenters emphasize that OP can’t defend himself against made-up “visions,” so leaving is the only sane option

NiceRat123 − NTA Frankly if her parents try to bribe or guilt you again.

Explain how the F__K you can defend yourself against a "psychic" when your ex believes her friend without evidence.

The sheer fact they dropped BIG MONEY to find out your affair that never existed.

Then ask them how would they feel when you basically can't defend yourself

and your partner doesn't want anything to do with you for almost a year.

[Reddit User] − Nah bro run the fick away and never go back.

She f**ked up royally and broke your trust. Find a woman who loves and trusts you.

[Reddit User] − OP in here saying he's faithful and yet he openly talks about having foursomes with his brother in law? smh

This user shares a parallel story of false accusations, gaslighting, and leaving once the truth came out

RNGinx3 − NTA. I had my suspicions my ex was cheating on me.

I asked, he gaslit me, and accused me of cheating. You know what I did?

I waited, because I had vowed to be Team Him in our wedding vows.

Finally, he tripped up in his own web of lies and started contradicting himself. I pointed it out.

He came clean: He had "fallen for" three other women, asked some of them to leave their partners

and "run away" with him, propositioned them for s__. They all declined (but didn't tell me, bastards).

We shelved the conversation, because I was hot at that point.

The next morning, he tried to gaslight me again. I reminded him he had already confessed. His response?

"Oh yeah. Oops." He then proposed we open up HIS side of the marriage so he could "be free to date other people,

then come home to me waiting for him." And I told him to stick his one-sided open marriage

where the sun don't shine, and I bounced.

I had my confession, straight from the horse's mouth, unable to be edited or photoshopped.

I'd rather be wrong about believing him when he says he's not cheating, and leave later once I have definitive proof,

that be wrong about believing he's cheating, when he's actually innocent. If that makes sense. Love the psychic vibrator!

Do you think he should have tried counseling before walking away, or was moving on the healthiest choice? Share your thoughts below!

Annie Nguyen

Annie Nguyen

Hi, I'm Annie Nguyen. I'm a freelance writer and editor for Daily Highlight with experience across lifestyle, wellness, and personal growth publications. Living in San Francisco gives me endless inspiration, from cozy coffee shop corners to weekend hikes along the coast. Thanks for reading!

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