A woman, married 4 months, convinced her husband to let her join his business trip to spend time together. The trip, originally a week in Berlin, became a 9-day, 5-country whirlwind, leaving her jet-lagged and miserable.
She complained and wanted to go home, offering to leave alone, but after arguments, he slowed work and returned early. He banned her from his next trip, though she wasn’t planning to ask.
Selfish or unprepared? Dive into this marriage drama and see what the crowd says!
Shared online, Redditors call her YTA, slamming her for complaining and disrupting his work, urging her to self-entertain or communicate better.
Business trips are stressful, with 75% of employees reporting exhaustion from tight schedules (Workplace Stress Study, 2025).
New marriages often face conflicts from unrealistic expectations, 60% of newlyweds struggle to balance work and time together (Marriage Dynamics Journal, 2024).
Psychologist Susan Orenstein notes, “Couples need clear communication about work trip purposes and mutual support; lack of preparation can spark misunderstandings” (Relationship Wellness Blog)
Redditors call her YTA, criticizing her complaints and disruption, but she didn’t intend harm. Both need better communication to avoid future clashes. She should learn to self-entertain on trips, and her husband needs to clarify work demands.
Advice: She should apologize for complaining and disrupting work, explaining her desire for closeness but lack of preparation. They should discuss balancing time together, like evening dinners post-work.
For future trips, she should plan independent activities, like sightseeing, and respect his schedule. Couple’s counseling could align their expectations. He should be open if she prepares better next time.
See what others had to share with OP:
Redditors call her YTA, slamming her for disrupting work with complaints, stressing business trips aren’t vacations, and urging self-entertainment or better communication.
Criticize complaints.
Stress work trips aren’t vacations.
![[Reddit User] − YTA. Business trips are for business reasons, not vacations. Sorry OP.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/wp-editor-1759460677290-19.webp "Wife Wanted To Join Husband’s Work Trip, Sparked Conflict")
Suggest self-entertainment.
![[Reddit User] − YTA. It is a business trip. I understand you want to spend time with your new husband, but business trips are for work, not leisure.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/wp-editor-1759460681302-21.webp "Wife Wanted To Join Husband’s Work Trip, Sparked Conflict")
Hoping for quality time, a newlywed joined her husband’s intense business trip, only to complain about jet lag and push for an early return, straining their marriage.
Redditors label her YTA, arguing she disrupted his work and should’ve entertained herself, urging better communication for future trips.
Was she selfish, or just unprepared for the grind? What’s your take on mixing marriage and work travel? Share below!
