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Woman Outsmarts Water Dept. Workers, Gets Apology After They Try To Ignore Her Knowledge

by Layla Bui
November 19, 2025
in Social Issues

Dealing with rude service is frustrating, but dealing with it when you’re right? That’s when the real satisfaction kicks in. One woman, fed up with being dismissed by two water department workers who refused to turn off her water, took matters into her own hands.

They told her it was her problem to find the buffalo box until she dropped some knowledge about how it’s the city’s responsibility to deal with it.

A year later, her persistence paid off in a major way when the workers showed up to fix the problem they originally brushed off, along with an apology. The best part? She didn’t even have to pay her water bill for the whole year! Read on to find out how this woman outsmarted the city and got the job done.

A woman stands up to rude water department workers, using her knowledge to get the city to fix their mistake

Woman Outsmarts Water Dept. Workers, Gets Apology After They Try To Ignore Her Knowledge
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'Stupid woman bests water department workers?'

My ex husband and I bought our home from his parents. They had the house built in the 50's.

For years, father in law wanted to install a shutoff valve in the utility room to, you know, shut off the water to the whole house to do some repairs.

Plumber told him it would cost a large amount of money because they could not find the shut off from the city water main at the street,

the "buffalo box", a/k/a water main shut off valve.

Since the buffalo box was MIA, they would have to freeze the pipes to stop the water before installing the shutoff valve.

It was an expensive process to freeze the pipes so it never got done.

When we bought the house, we decided to get the shut off valve installed.

We called the water department and they sent 2 workers to shut off the water.

When they arrived, I explained the problem.

They went out to the front yard, walked around a bit and told me there was nothing they could do for me.

According to the 2 workers, it was my problem that they could not find the buffalo box

and that I should call a plumber to dig up my front yard, sidewalk, and city easement to find MY buffalo box.

Well, I have a background in residential real estate construction and I was familiar with how water mains and buffalo boxes are installed

and I told them it was the city's issue, as they were responsible for the buffalo box, not the homeowners.

According to these guys, as a woman, I did not know what I was talking about and they left.

They were incredibly rude about it, but peons like these think they can get away with being rude to an ignorant woman like me.

Fast forward to a year or so later. I get a call from the city manager asking why I hadn't paid my water bill for over a year.

I told him that I wanted to pay my water bill, but I wanted them to first turn off my water.

He was a bit taken aback that I WANTED them to turn off the water.

So, I explained what the city workers told me about locating the buffalo box

and their attitude about women not understanding those types of things.

I also told him that if the city could not turn off my water, I would be happy to have free water forever, cuz I would never pay another bill.

We had a nice long chat about the situation and he said that he would resolve my concerns.

The next day, these same 2 guys show up at my house with some digging equipment

and spend the whole day digging up the easement and the sidewalk.

Their attitudes were rather somber, cuz the city manager told me he was going to give them a talking to about how they mishandled the situation.

I even got an apology!!!

They found the buffalo box, under the city owned sidewalk!!

They fixed the buffalo box so it would be accessible and came the next day to fix the sidewalk.

They asked if I wanted the water turned off, declined, and I told them I would have my plumber take care of it

when we had him install the interior shutoff valve. And then I paid the water bill.

In this revenge story, a seemingly simple issue with the city’s water system escalates into a confrontation that exposes deep-seated frustrations and power imbalances.

The main character, a woman, faces off against two water department workers who dismiss her expertise and belittle her knowledge. Their rude behavior ignites a chain of events that ultimately leads to them digging up the sidewalk and rectifying the problem they initially failed to address.

On the surface, it’s a story of someone getting the justice they deserve, but beneath it lies a powerful emotional trigger. The OP’s decision to act was driven not just by the practical need to resolve the issue, but by a deep sense of frustration and indignation.

Being dismissed due to her gender and the workers’ arrogant assumption that she was “just a woman” pushed her into a defensive stance. The moment the OP felt the sting of gender bias, it fueled her resolve. This wasn’t just about fixing plumbing; it became a battle for recognition, respect, and fairness.

From a psychological perspective, the OP’s need for action stems from what psychologists often call reactive justice. When someone feels unfairly treated or devalued, they seek to restore balance, especially when they believe the injustice is unacknowledged.

The initial powerlessness she experienced, as she was told it was her responsibility to find a solution, and as she was dismissed by the workers, naturally led to her taking matters into her own hands. This is a common emotional response, especially when one’s competence is doubted or overlooked.

The emotional satisfaction in this story arises from the workers’ eventual recognition of their mistake and their apology. This shift from arrogance to humility shows that, when faced with the consequences of their actions, the workers realize the importance of treating people with respect, regardless of gender.

While some might feel a sense of “victory” in this outcome, it’s also a sobering reminder of how easily people can dismiss others and how powerful it is to stand up for oneself when treated unfairly.

According to Dr. Jennifer Freyd, a psychologist who studies betrayal trauma, the emotional response to such situations can be especially intense when the perceived betrayal comes from authority figures or those expected to serve you.

As she explains, “Betrayal by a trusted figure creates a deep sense of vulnerability, which, in turn, can trigger defensive behaviors aimed at restoring a sense of control.”

In conclusion, the OP’s actions provide an insightful life lesson: standing up for oneself is not just about defending against external forces, but reclaiming personal power when it’s been stripped away.

Here’s what the community had to contribute:

This group had fun imagining the company’s reaction when they realized the water bill was never paid

dedalus5150 − I love it "Hey, you didn't pay your water bill! We're going to shut off your water!" "Good luck with that"

Tamalene − I can just imagine the conversation on the way over. "Well, s__t." "Yep. We're about to eat some crow."

"Do you think she'll remember us?" "Definitely. Women remember stuff like this." "Well, s__t. " "Yep."

cleggzilla − As soon as I read that the "buffalo box" was MIA, I knew you were going to quit paying the bill.

I'm just honestly surprised that it took them an entire year to notice.

These commenters admired the confidence and power move of the OP

DaBobVilla − My family owns a plumbing company that is ran by my mom.

Customers call all the time and demand to speak to someone that “actually knows how plumbing works”.

It’s amazing how quiet they get when she tells them she is the owner.

Basedrum777 − Phenomenal. I'm a guy so I have definitely said some dumb things in my life,

re: who knows what, but I was raised primarily by my mother and would never be so stupid as to assume its because someone is a woman.

SargeantBubbles − Wow, “go ahead, shut off my water” in this situation is such a power move

This group celebrated the sweet revenge of proving the doubters wrong

AMonkeyAndALavaLamp − Not mentioning the interest you had to pay for being a year late on your water bill,

that's an impressive revenge on those two a**holes.

Even sweeter knowing that the same two guys had to eat their words while digging around finding that box. Kudos!

lenerz − And this is why feminism still exists... Please don't down vote me

as I'm not an extreme feminist and believe men have their fair share of inequality too, but as a woman,

I can relate to how incredibly gear grinding this type of behavior from men is - and it still happens quite often.

Men thinking just because we're women we don't know about things that are typically "manly".

I'm just so happy you got your revenge OP and that it was the same 2 men that had to own up to their stupidity.

colonelchurro − I are big strong man. Have story. Ok, so I know f__k all about cars.

I know how the two pedals and the turny wheel thing work. That's it.

My mother in law on the other hand, knows a thing or two.

She's worked in dealerships, is married to a drag racer, etc. She knows her s__t enough to talk to a mechanic.

Well she and I took my wife's car in for some major repairs. Went to the counter to tell the guy what we needed.

She did all the talking. Shop dude starts asking questions looking at me.

I stare at him like a dog playing Jeopardy. I look at her. She answers. He says ok and writes s__t down.

He starts asking another question, looking at me. Silence. I look at her. She answers. He writes s__t down.

This goes on for a while. He just doesn't f__king get it.

There's no real petty revenge here aside from us telling everyone in creation with any ears how s__tty

that shop is and how f**ked my wife's car was after they "fixed" it.

These commenters were more focused on the logistics of the water bill, wondering about the costs of going a year without paying

CayCay84 − How much was it for the entire year of water that you had failed to pay the previous year?

Seems like that would be a large chunk of change to have to shell out at once.

[Reddit User] − If I had the gold... As a plumber who deals with the city a lot and knows the levels of incompetence

that do not really define all city workers but still does happen, I love this story

soillsquatch − So where do you live that you can get away with not paying your water bill for a year? If I’m 3 days late I get shut off...

This commenter was in disbelief that water meters and shutoffs could be inaccessible or hidden under sidewalks in some areas

foureverlsu87 − Wow. ..we live in different cities, indeed. Are water main shutoffs and water meters seriously inaccessible to homeowners in other cities?

And they build sidewalks on top of them??? Man, I'm not doubting you, I'm just flabbergasted.

My home is 51 years old, and any time I have to shut off the water, I just go to the meter.

I don't know any house in south Louisiana that isn't like this.

Do you think the woman’s ultimatum to the city was fair, given the stakes, or was it an over-the-top move? How would you juggle standing your ground with the practicalities of dealing with city bureaucracy? Share your hot takes below!

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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