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Boss Denies Employee’s Short Leave, So She Joins A Month-Long Soccer Tournament And Leaves Boss Stunned

by Leona Pham
November 18, 2025
in Social Issues

We all know that workplace frustrations can build up over time, but when it involves something as simple as taking a few days off, the stakes can get surprisingly high.

One Redditor had a leave approved by their boss months ago, only to find out that when the time came to actually take it, their boss suddenly changed his mind, leaving them in a frustrating bind. After canceling their tickets and letting go of the trip, they decided to get a little creative.

When the chance to participate in a month-long corporate soccer tournament arose, the Redditor jumped at it, knowing that the company would never stand in the way of such events.

Their participation, however, didn’t sit well with their boss, who was left speechless when they informed him of their absence. Was this petty revenge, or a justified response to bad treatment? Read on to find out how this situation unfolded.

A worker’s leave gets canceled, so they sign up for a month-long company soccer tour

Boss Denies Employee’s Short Leave, So She Joins A Month-Long Soccer Tournament And Leaves Boss Stunned
not the actual photo

'Boss didn't want to approve a short leave. So instead I availed a long one?'

I'm sorry this became too long. I work with a large organization having multiple branches in every state across the country.

I am the head of one such branch. My boss, the Regional Manager, controls around 15 such branches in a region cluster.

During August this year, I had asked my boss for a 5-day leave for September, which he had promptly granted.

I then informed HR about it, suggesting him to temporarily arrange for somebody to run my branch for the week

(this was required because: 1. Due to some corporate directives, some of the branches, including mine,

could not run without a branch head being physically present in the office.

2. Enabling someone from inside the branch to substitute for me wasn't possible due to technicalities).

HR assured me there was plenty of time to arrange for my temporary substitute.

So I didn't think much about it, since anyway it was his job to take care of in cases of leaves.

My dumb ass didn't imagine it would be crucial to get the leave approved formally / in writing, because before this,

nobody had ever faced something like what I was about to experience.

Come the last working day before I go on my leave, I asked our HR about who would take care of my branch in my absence.

He flatly stated that there was no one available in the region cluster who he could depute to my branch in my stead, as

"... many employees in our region are on leave because of festivities this week."

Me: You are telling me this now? Anyway, I fail to understand how that is my problem, given that my leave was already granted a month ago.

HR: Have a discussion with the RM (my boss).

I called him up. Apparently the HR had already had a talk with him regarding this matter before I even called him.

RM: How could you intend to go on a leave during this time when we are already under so much pressure due to this sudden staff shortage?

On top of that our company's audit is due next month.

Me: But you had ALREADY APPROVED my leave one month ago.

RM: No, I'm sure I must have said that I would think about it.

Me: Absolutely not. I wouldn't have booked my tickets and planned my travel to my hometown to see my parents, if you hadn't confirmed the leave.

This went to and fro for a while and I was exasperated from this argument. By the end, I felt really humiliated that I had to almost beg for a...

Me: Fine, I won't go. (At that point I arguably felt my dignity was more important than a few days off work).

RM: Huh? Okay. (He was at a loss of words at my sudden giving up).

So, my leave stood cancelled. My tickets had to be cancelled. Money wasted. And I was left utterly exhausted of this b__lshit.

A few days later, we got a notification for the yearly inter-state staff soccer tournament being arranged by Corporate.

If selected, I'd be playing for my state. And the tournament - from selections till the final - would go on for a month.

Soccer happens to be one of my favorite sports! So guess who just applied and got selected in the state team?

Now, here's the funny thing about sports and activities that are arranged by our company's corporate center

- the top management takes these seasonal events very seriously.

If you are a participating employee, nothing or nobody on this planet could make you

go back to sitting in your chair and mind your job instead of participating.

So as it appeared, although not on a leave per se, but I was all set to go on a month long tour across the country, playing soccer,

without having to worry about managing a branch, and getting paid in the process.

Even irrespective of my leave fiasco, this was a damn good thing to get involved in.

As some of you have expressed a curiosity - yes, extravagant events like these are not unheard of in big / Fortune 500 companies.

My organization is a large conglomerate and the third largest employer in our country.

Still it always beats my logic that they can spare some 150-200 employees for a month for "fun",

yet there are some regions that are plagued with staff scarcity.

My boss's office was eventually informed about my participation in the event, and was advised to

"... excuse the participant from his duties till the tournament was over".

The day before leaving, I drove down to the RM's office to formally inform him, from my end,

about my competing in the event and my ensuing month-long absence that is to be expected.

He looked expressionless, and just feebly asked me, "Why did you really participate?"

Me: Well you see, had I happened to be at my hometown on a short leave this week,

I wouldn't have been able to participate in the tournament at all, or even try for the selections.

Sad, I couldn't go on that leave. The defeated look on his face was priceless.

Edit: Fixed a spelling. Added some clarifications. Sweet bonus I forgot to add: one of the matches were hosted at my hometown!

In this Reddit post, we see a classic case of frustration, miscommunication, and a little bit of ironic revenge. The poster (OP) had asked for a short leave to visit their parents, which was granted by their boss a month in advance. However, when it came time to finalize the arrangements, OP was met with an unexpected roadblock.

The HR department, citing unforeseen staff shortages due to festivities, was unable to provide a substitute for OP’s branch, which led to a tense back-and-forth between OP and their boss. Eventually, OP gave up on the leave, cancelling their plans and feeling humiliated in the process.

This situation sparked feelings of betrayal and disappointment, especially after OP had made personal arrangements based on the confirmation of their leave.

But what followed was a satisfying twist: OP applied for and was selected to participate in a company-sponsored month-long soccer tournament. This wasn’t just a hobby for OP; it was a career move.

Participation in such high-priority events within large corporations typically grants a level of protection from day-to-day work demands, as the company places value on these extracurricular activities. So, in the end, OP’s “revenge” came in the form of getting paid leave of sorts, without the need for approval from their boss.

The psychological dynamics at play here are quite interesting. OP’s initial reaction, giving up on their short leave and swallowing the humiliation, likely stemmed from a desire to preserve their sense of dignity and avoid further conflict.

According to psychologist Dr. Robert Cialdini’s principles of influence, people are more likely to accept an unfair situation if they feel it’s in their best interest to avoid confrontation.

However, OP’s subsequent decision to apply for the soccer tournament was an act of reclaiming control, or what psychologists refer to as “empowerment revenge.” This subtle form of revenge doesn’t involve direct retaliation, but rather a clever strategic move that reasserts personal boundaries and restores balance.

Moreover, OP’s actions resonate with what Dr. Ian McKee of Adelaide University suggests about people’s tendency to seek retribution in situations where they feel their authority has been undermined.

OP was initially denied something they had every right to expect and instead of aggressively fighting back, they took an alternative route that still allowed them to win, and perhaps even more than they would have with their original leave.

In the end, this story highlights how frustrations can sometimes lead to creative solutions. OP didn’t need to argue or escalate the situation further. Instead, they took advantage of a new opportunity, highlighting the importance of patience and keeping a level head, even when things seem unfair.

These are the responses from Reddit users:

This group admired the petty but effective responses

rilesmcjiles − I had trouble getting leave one time. I requested it in may for November.

Some time around October the director had to approve all of our vacation requests, but wasn't actually denying or approving.

I said "I'm going on vacation. I'll be back in two weeks. I hope I have a job to come back to".

I worked there for another year until I found a better job.

CoderJoe1 − Expert level pettiness achieved! I bow to the master.

DaedruisRucker − Great revenge, but you really should have just stuck to your guns and taken the leave,

then immediately started looking for another job in case he tried to fire you when you came back.

You bought plane tickets and made plans, no job is worth cancelling all that.

Like you said, it’s not your fault they tried to be scummy, and if they are as understaffed as they say, they can’t afford to fire you so easily

These commenters highlighted situations where employers tried to manipulate time off

Sir_Distic − I informed my former company in January that I'd be taking a weekend off in April. 4 months notice.

Come the week of they are late getting me my paycheck yet others got theirs on time.

I'm supposed to leave at 7pm and usually the checks are on site at 4pm. So finally at 6pm I get my check and head home and leave.

I got a call at midnight on Sunday asking why I wasn't back yet. I was supposed to be at work at 6am on Monday.

I arrived back home at 2am to 4 messages demanding that I be at work at 6am.

I called them at 2am and told them I just got home and was going to bed. I'd be at work later.

They told me to come in and discuss it. I knew what that meant. So later that day I walk in and they fired me for missing work.

Saying I abandoned my job after giving them 4 months notice in writing.

nickis84 − Love it! Boss couldn't handle 5 days without you and now has to cope with a month without you plus has to be a team player about it.

SSNs4evr − Back in '98, I had been in the navy for 9 years, had finished my 1st 'A' school, 'C' school, finished a sea tour on a fast-attack sub...

finished a shore tour, and was in another 'C' school pipeline that was supposed to be a little over a year long.

My parents wanted to take a family cruise, and wanted to pay for it.

I value every second I can spend with family, and although (as a sailor) I was skeptical and unenthusiastic at the prospect of vacationing on a ship,

it was with family, so I was going. I made sure to get insurance on all the tickets

and checked weekly on the anticipated school end date...everything was supposed to fit.

School would end, and the cruise would fall during my 30 days of leave before reporting to my next SSN.

Well, like many things in the military, who really needs dates? School ended about a month early.

While my orders still indicated a report-by date in line with 30 days of leave following the originally scheduled graduation date,

the school chain of command insisted that I was to report within 30 days of the adjusted graduation date,

unless I called my follow-on boat, and cleared additional leave with them. I told them OK, and checked out on leave.

After spending an entire summer with friends and going on the family cruise, I rolled into my new boat 58 days later,

3 days before my report-by date, with 20 more days still on the books (in case of emergencies).

The new boat was none the wiser, and happy to see me 3 days early.

I figured if there were trouble, I'd just play the stupid enlisted dog...but no need.

These commenters shared examples of workplace misunderstandings

Quizzy1313 − My manager did this before I went on mat leave. Forgot to submit my paperwork to say I was having a baby.

Called me up the day after I gave birth asking me where I was...told them I was in the maternity ward

cause I had a baby and I told them I was going on leave a week before baby was due.

They put my rec leave in but forgot my mat leave....

ArbitraryLettersXYZ − Good story, and glad it at least somewhat worked out for you. One thing as an aside: it‘s “per se,“ never ”per say.”

RJack151 − I would have said that since you inconvenienced me, I returned the favor.

This group laughed at the absurdity of corporate tournaments

SilverStar9192 − I assume this is India? Love that corporate sports tournaments are still a thing there. Especially getting to do it on company time!

[Reddit User] − You're telling me your job pays you to play soccer for a month all around the country against other companies in a tournament … that is wild...

jr49 − I'm confused. What kind of company has a soccer tournament that takes employees away for a month while getting paid?

My job has sponsored tournaments over the course of a single weekend in town.

LaserGuidedPolarBear − "Why did you participate?" "Oh well I was really bummed that I couldn't take that vacation

after you withdrew your approval costing me all the money for the flights, which meant I wasn't going to have the budget for another trip for a while,

and when then opportunity to have a soccer vacation came up that sounded just great to me!" Would have been my play.

Was OP justified in turning the tables on her boss after being denied a simple five-day leave? Or did she take it a step too far? One thing’s for sure: when life hands you a leave denial, sometimes it’s better to grab your soccer cleats and go play on your terms. What do you think? Did OP handle this brilliantly or was there another way she could have approached it? Share your thoughts below!

Leona Pham

Leona Pham

Hi, I'm Leona. I'm a writer for Daily Highlight and have had my work published in a variety of other media outlets. I'm also a New York-based author, and am always interested in new opportunities to share my work with the world. When I'm not writing, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. Thanks for reading!

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