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Babysitter Calls Police After Mom Never Comes Home – Did She Go Too Far?

by Charles Butler
December 6, 2025
in Social Issues

This story begins with a simple weekend babysitting job that turned into a legal nightmare, a furious mother, a ruined night out, and a comment section that could barely keep up with the chaos.

The babysitter in question, a twenty eight year old woman, had a routine side gig that usually earned her easy money and peaceful evenings. But she also had one client who constantly pushed past every boundary.

She should have walked away from that family long ago, yet the kids were sweet and the pay was convenient. What she never expected was that a Saturday night job would end with the police arriving at the house and a child services investigation that the mother blamed entirely on her.

Babysitter Calls Police After Mom Never Comes Home - Did She Go Too Far?
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Here’s The Original Post:

'AITA for calling the police on my client?'

I (28F) do babysitting on the weekends to make some babysitting on the weekends to make extra cash.

There is one family I definitely should've fazed out by now but the kids are cute and if I don't have another job, it's easy money.

My issue is, the mom is never home on time. She used to not give me return times but finally I started asking as it made it impossible to get...

I'd go babysit so she could go to "brunch" but she'd be gone from 11 AM to 7 PM. My whole day was gone.

After that, she'd start giving me times but never stick to them. She wouldn't even call to tell me, she'd just stay out.

On Saturday, I got to her house at 6 and she was supposed to be home by 9. I told her she needed to be on time because I had...

I was even getting ready at their house after I put the kids to be. She promised. Of course, 9:00 rolls around and she's not home. I call her, no...

Another hour. Nothing. Still calling and texting. Finally, it is midnight. By this point, my plans are long ruined but I'm pissed and exhausted.

I call her and leave a voicemail saying if she's not home in the next hour, I'm considering the kids abandoned and calling the cops.

I also text her this. I try calling her 30 minutes later and it goes to voicemail on the second ring, I text her again and she leaves me on...

If she had reached out saying "Hey, I'm staying out until x time", I would've stayed. I don't know any of her family nor the father of the kids so...

I gave her a grace period of 15 minutes and tried calling again, finally called the cops (non-emergency line).

They showed up and I showed our agreement in text from earlier in the week confirming that she'd be home by 9.

They try contacting her, didn't answer. I was dismissed and they took the children to the police station. I go home and go to bed.

I am awoken at 3 AM by a frantic call. It's her. Where are the kids? Why am I not here? I tell her I followed through on my threat,...

The next day, she sends me an essay saying the kids' father was called and there's a DCF investigation launched against her.

She called me every name under the sun but I didn't think I was wrong until I spoke to a friend with kids.

She said I should've just waited it out and refuse to ever sit for her again. She asked if her potentially losing her kids was worth me being petty.

The Client Who Never Came Home on Time

For months, she tried to be patient. The mother loved going to “brunch” or nights out but refused to give clear return times. She once left the babysitter at the house from eleven in the morning until seven at night. After that, the babysitter insisted on knowing pickup times before accepting any job. Even then, the mother would promise a time and break it without warning, refusing to respond to calls or texts.

Still, the babysitter continued to work for her when she had no other gigs. The kids were young and affectionate, and the extra income helped. But her patience was wearing thin.

The Night Everything Went Wrong

On Saturday evening, she arrived at six. The mother promised she would be home by nine. The babysitter made it clear she needed to leave on time because she had plans afterward. She even packed her clothes and makeup to get ready at the house after the kids went to sleep.

Nine o’clock came and went. No mother. No text. No call.

She tried calling. Nothing. She sent multiple messages. Nothing.

Nine turned into ten. Ten turned into eleven. She was exhausted, frustrated, and completely unsure what to do. Her plans with friends were long gone. Midnight arrived, and still she heard nothing.

The Warning and the Consequence

Out of options, she left a voicemail and texted the mother again. She told her that if she was not home within the next hour, she would consider the children abandoned and call the police. She also pointed out that the mother had left her unreachable for hours with no emergency contacts and no way to reach the father.

Thirty minutes later, she tried calling again. This time the call went to voicemail after the second ring. Moments later, she saw the mother read her text message and still choose not to respond.

Fifteen more minutes passed. Still nothing. The babysitter had no way to leave the house with the children, no way to contact a relative, and no way to know if the mother was safe, injured, drunk, or simply ignoring her.

She finally called the non emergency police line.

When officers arrived, she showed them the text exchange confirming the mother’s promised return time. The police attempted to contact the mother and got no answer. In the end, the babysitter was dismissed and the children were taken to the station for safety.

She went home, exhausted and upset, and fell asleep.

The Mother’s Furious Response

At three in the morning, her phone rang. It was the mother, panicked and screaming. She demanded to know where the kids were and why the babysitter had left. The babysitter calmly reminded her she had followed through on exactly what she warned. The mother hurled insults, and the babysitter simply hung up and went back to sleep.

The next morning, the mother sent a long message accusing her of ruining her life. She said the father had been contacted, child services had opened an investigation, and she blamed the babysitter for everything. According to her, a good sitter should have “waited it out” no matter how late it was.

But the babysitter felt she had no other choice.

Here’s what the community had to contribute:

Many pointed out that the mother had indeed abandoned her children.

[Reddit User] − Nta. One thing I’ve learned from True Crime is the wait 24 hours to file a missing person thing is a myth.

She wasn’t where she said she’d be when she said and wasn’t responding to any communication. She was in fact a missing person at that point:

[Reddit User] − NTA. Her behavior is absolutely irresponsible. She deserves a DCF investigation if she can't be bothered to even respond.

ETA: If this were like, some serious one-time emergency, I'd think "oh wow, a one-time emergency.

Maybe she, for whatever reason, wasn't able to get back to you". But no, this is a repeated deal.

ecto1a2003 − 3 am she notices!?

Others said the babysitter gave multiple warnings and acted responsibly when the mother chose to ignore them.

Wonderingicon626 − Im gonna go with NTA you gave her warning she was well beyond the time she gave you to be home they arent your kids.

They are safe regardless. She should have considered the consequences of her actions. I do hope the father is stable though thats my only concern.

nebagram − NTA. 30-odd minutes late is excusable. But she told you- in writing- that she'd be our for 3 hours, and ended up staying out for 9.

That's not something that happens by accident. And not being contactable by your babysitter is rank negligence.

What if one of her kids had had an accident? Oh yes, she'd have blamed that on you as well.

Nothing more important than her fun, and that includes her kids. Stand your ground. And maybe warn any other babysitters who she might try to con into working for her...

Romeejo − Well I think you're NTA. You're not being petty. It's her actions that have caused this situation not yours. She has shown a total lack of concern for...

JustheBean − NTA you gave her every opportunity under the sun to create a better outcome. You gave her several warnings, and even made sure she got them.

Instead she attempted to hold you hostage for 300% of the agreed upon time. You gave her every consideration.

Your friend however, was being an ass. You were not being petty. She did abandon those children.

She knew she did not have childcare for those 6 hours and chose to stay out of the home and make herself unreachable instead.

Petty would be doing it after she’s late one time by an hour. This was leaving her children without a caregiver in the middle of the night.

At a certain point, you had to go home, and calling the police was the only way to ensure they were safe for you to leave.

Your friend needs to pull her head out of her ass. If this mother hadn’t done anything wrong, they would not have launched a formal investigation. It’s not petty to...

And if she identifies more with a mother who can’t be bothered than you, and will shame you about it, that seems like all you need to know about the...

Obviously the mother is a flaming a__hole as well. But I think we all understand why.

Edit: you should ask your friend if leaving kids in a situation so harmful that they can be removed is really worth it to be polite. I’d love to hear...

Several emphasized how dangerous it was for a parent to be unreachable for hours when young children were involved.

[Reddit User] − NTA: She is an adult and a parent. If she cared about her kids then she should have come home at the time she said she would,...

She saw your text and still didn't care. She was calling your bluff. If she does lose her kids that is her fault. Not yours.

You gave her warning with enough time to come home. She would have done this to other babysitters. So she was eventually going to have an DCF investigation.

If the kids are taken away, they should hopefully be giving to the father who hopefully is a better parent. If they are not taken away, well then lets hope...

SirEDCaLot − NTA. She literally abandoned her kids, went intentionally unreachable. What if there had been an emergency? Besides, you communicated several times what was going to happen.

The fact that she chose to ignore it is her problem not yours. She could easily have said she'd be out late at the beginning and offered to pay you...

But what she did was prioritize her night out over you and also over her children. That's why DCF is involved, and rightly so.

When she asks if potentially losing her kids was worth being petty, ask her back if potentially losing her kids was worth not checking her phone during her night on...

mmahowald − NTA. She is a terrible client and does not appear to take her role as a mother all that seriously. you will probably not see any pay from...

In the end, the babysitter acted out of responsibility, not pettiness. She did not abandon the children; she ensured they were safely transferred into the hands of professionals.

The mother, on the other hand, gambled with the safety of her kids and the time of the person she hired.

The investigation was not caused by the babysitter making a phone call. It was caused by a parent disappearing into the night with no plans to return and no concern for the person caring for her children.

Whether this mother learns from the experience is uncertain. But one thing is clear. The babysitter will never work for that family again.

Charles Butler

Charles Butler

Hey there, fellow spotlight seekers! As the PIC of our social issues beat—and a guy who's dived headfirst into journalism and media studies—I'm obsessed with unpacking how we chase thrills, swap stories, and tangle with the big, messy debates of inequality, justice, and resilience, whether on screens or over drinks in a dive bar. Life's an endless, twisty reel, so I love spotlighting its rawest edges in words. Growing up on early internet forums and endless news scrolls, I'm forever blending my inner fact-hoarder with the restless wanderer itching to uncover every hidden corner of the world.

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