A first date starts off great until OP’s date lets out a loud, smelly fart, then denies it vehemently, blaming the chair and making a scene. Mortified, especially since OP had stressed her dislike for dishonesty, she walks out.
He later calls her dramatic, but after finding his Reddit post, OP shares her side. Let’s break it down and see what the online community thinks.
This funny yet awkward tale raises questions about honesty and first-date etiquette. Was OP wrong to ditch the date?
This story illustrates how a lack of honesty and maturity can tank a budding relationship. The date’s denial of a natural act, especially after OP’s clear stance against dishonesty, shows disrespect and poor emotional regulation. Relationship psychologist Dr. Harriet Lerner notes, “Honesty and accountability for one’s actions are foundational to healthy relationships” (The Dance of Connection).
OP’s choice to leave was reasonable, given the public embarrassment and violation of her boundaries. However, she might consider explaining her reasons later to clarify her stance. For the date, a simple apology and moving on would have been far better than escalating the situation.
This tale underscores the importance of handling awkward moments with maturity and honesty, especially on first dates when first impressions matter.
These are the responses from Reddit users:
Reddit strongly supports OP, agreeing her date’s childish denial and scene-making justified her exit. Here’s a roundup of reactions.
Many found it funny but backed OP’s decision.
![[Reddit User] − I like how in his post, he says he was gassy all day, and then in your post, you say how he ordered the bean soup. Guy...](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/wp-editor-1758598364808-16.webp "First Date Fart Turns Into A Five-Minute Fiasco")
![[Reddit User] − I commented on his post. Told him it was most likely due to his doubling down on the lie vs the fart itself.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/wp-editor-1758598368823-18.webp "First Date Fart Turns Into A Five-Minute Fiasco")
Some stressed the issue was the lie, not the fart.
A few shared similar stories or asked questions.
![[Reddit User] − It’s one thing to embarrass himself, which is essentially what happened, but to start making a scene about it and embarrass you? Ummm no.](https://dailyhighlight.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/wp-editor-1758598396823-34.webp "First Date Fart Turns Into A Five-Minute Fiasco")
OP was justified in walking out when her date not only farted but made a loud, embarrassing scene denying it, violating her clear boundary against dishonesty. Reddit agrees his immature behavior was a red flag.
Should OP have explained her exit to him? Have you faced similar awkward date moments? Share your stories!
