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He Harassed Her in a Catholic School – Her Dad Taught Her to Defend Herself

by Sunny Nguyen
September 29, 2025
in Social Issues

In one Catholic school, a sixth-grade girl faced constant humiliation from a classmate who seemed determined to make her life miserable. His favorite trick was lifting her skirt in front of everyone during recess, turning her embarrassment into entertainment.

After repeated complaints to teachers and even the principal, nothing changed. Instead, the boy grew bolder. What started as childish teasing escalated into harassment.

One day in the canteen, he went too far. Armed with lessons her father had drilled into her about self-defense, she struck back.

The result was a dramatic showdown that left the boy with a broken nose, a bruised ego, and a newfound fear of girls. But the question remains: did her violent response make her a hero, or did she take it too far?

He Harassed Her in a Catholic School - Her Dad Taught Her to Defend Herself

An Epic Takedown of a School Bully Left Him Scared of Girls – Hero or Overboard?

'That time when I bully my bully back and he ended afraid of girls for some time afterwards?'

(I hope I put the correct flair, I'm new in this subreddit). (Edit: I'm not an English Native speaker and I'm self-taught, so please forgive my grammar issues)

So, 20-ish years ago, when I was in 6th grade of primary school, I got this annoying guy in my class sitting behind me that year.

In prior years this guy was a bit of a verbal a__hole, but I'm pretty sharp and he ended burned every time in verbal squabbles.

Important point: My school was catholic, we use uniforms, so as a girl I wore knee length skirt as part of the uniform.

Having that as a context in the beginning of the school year that a__hole decided to escalate his bullying by lifting my skirt while running in the corridor during recess.

I complained to my teacher and my teacher to the principal, the principal to the mother of the little b__tard, and it supposedly "will not happen again". But of course...

Then I went to my parents and after they came back for the parents-principal meeting I learned that the a__hole's mother was a total enabler of her son behavior telling...

that basically his 'precious boy' did that to get my attention because he liked me.

My father in particular wasn't amused and he told the lady that if she didn't control her son, there will be consequences.

The principal, being a nun, was all about forgiveness b__lshit and praying punishments but nothing practical, so my dad after the meeting teached me how to punch properly,

how to hit a person vulnerable spots, and how to stan for myself if I get hit back, as well as how to break free if someone wants to constrain...

He also told me, dead in the eye, that if the little b__tard bother me again I should just do whatever I wanted until I felt satisfied and he will...

Next time, in the middle of the school canteen, the a__hole not only lifted my skirt but also slapped my b__t really hard. And I SAW RED.

I took the punching posture my dad teached me and hit him straight up in his nose and broke it.

But not only that, because of the shock, he fell backwards and I jumped onto him and began to punch him like a sandback and when my hands got tired...

The PE teacher had to grab me because I was waaaay out of it.. Didn't broke him anything but his nose but he ended up black and blue everywhere. My...

He basically told the principal "Oh I will make sure my daughter prays a couple of Holy Mary's today so she can reflect on herself. Just as he did for...

I'm sure this would make her not do it again. Just like it happened for him". That's it.

The most funny part was that in that moment the father of the little b__tard was like: "What do you mean my son was lifting up your daughter skirt?"

The enabler mother got pale and my mom smirked and told the man everything and he looked death in the eye at his wife like: We will talk about it...

The boy apologized to me, first in the principal office then in the classroom. But he basically paled every time I turned back in the classroom for the rest of...

He didn't even talked aloud. Not to mention how teased he got because a girl beat him up in public until he cried. He didn't continue there for Middle School...

The Build-Up to a Breaking Point

The girl endured the behavior for weeks. Each time her skirt was lifted, she felt stripped of dignity. She told her teachers, who promised to “speak to him.”

She visited the principal, who encouraged her to “pray for patience.” None of it worked. Instead, the boy seemed encouraged by how little the adults intervened. He was untouchable, or so he thought.

At home, her father noticed her frustration and taught her basic self-defense moves.

His advice was simple: never start a fight, but if someone won’t respect your boundaries, don’t let them walk all over you. With every lesson, she gained a little confidence, though she never expected to use the skills in public.

The Day Everything Changed

It happened in the school canteen, with students gathered around for lunch. The boy once again decided to turn her into a spectacle, lifting her skirt while laughing with his friends.

This time, however, she snapped. The humiliation and anger boiled over, and instead of freezing or running, she swung.

Her fist landed squarely on his nose. Shocked gasps filled the room as blood began to flow.

But she didn’t stop there. Fueled by rage and years of pent-up frustration, she landed several more blows until a teacher pulled her away. By then, the boy was curled up, shaken and humiliated in front of the same audience that once laughed at her.

The Aftermath

Rumors spread quickly through the school. The boy, once the bold tormentor, now avoided her. Some classmates whispered that he was scared of girls after the incident.

Teachers struggled to address the situation, torn between punishing violence and acknowledging the school’s failure to protect her.

Her father, however, was proud. He told her she had every right to defend herself and that sometimes standing up to a bully requires strength.

But even he admitted that continuing to attack after the first punch was risky. If the teacher hadn’t stepped in, the consequences could have been far worse.

The Bigger Picture

Her story raises an important question: how should schools handle harassment that crosses physical boundaries?

Research from the National Center for Education Statistics in 2019 showed that 43 percent of students report feeling unsafe due to bullying, with many incidents dismissed as “jokes.”

Girls, in particular, face higher rates of appearance-based harassment. In this case, the school’s approach,asking for patience and forgiveness, failed completely.

Self-defense expert Kelly McCann once said, “Empowering kids to protect themselves is crucial, but it must be paired with teaching restraint to avoid excessive force” (Psychology Today, 2021).

The girl’s first punch sent a strong message, but her repeated strikes risked blurring the line between defense and retaliation. Still, her actions stopped the harassment when every adult authority figure had failed.

The Role of Parents

Her father’s role cannot be ignored. Instead of discouraging her, he gave her tools to reclaim her power. For a girl who felt unheard by teachers and dismissed by her principal, his support gave her confidence.

However, some may argue that his encouragement of “do whatever you need to” set her on a path that could have ended with harsher punishment from the school.

Hero or Overboard?

For some, her actions make her a hero. She stood up for herself when no one else would and sent a clear message that humiliation would no longer be tolerated.

For others, the violence went too far. Breaking his nose and continuing to attack could have had long-term consequences, both for her record at school and for the boy’s health.

See what others had to share with OP:

Some would cheer her courage and say the bully had it coming, while others might worry she went too far

QCisCake − In 2nd grade there was a boy that like to push me off the geodesic dome. Its like monkey bars placed in triangle patterns until its a dome.

Kids climb all over it and swing and jump, it fun. Until it isn't. This kid wouldn't stop pushing me and eventually I got fed up.

Next time he pushed me off I grabbed his a__le and took him with me. Im a girl, so racking myself on a bar or two hurts, but I can...

He on the other hand, only his his balls on one bar, full weight. He screamed and cried and threw up.

The recess monitor saw what happened and felt it was a natural consequence for shoving kids off there. Never got in trouble and the little s__t never pushed me again.

CanAhJustSay − You gave the proper channels every opportunity to do the right thing. They did not help and instead allowed his behaviour to continue.

Your dad helped you defend yourself against s__ual harassment and a__ault when the responsible adults in what should have been a safe place allowed it to happen. Glad your dad...

SaltAcceptable9901 − Well done. My daughter had a group of boys doing harassing her in primary school. We worked with her for 3 months on how to manage the issues...

Which was the first time the harassment escalated to lifting the dress and slapping her bottom. The principal called my daughter out to ask what her what had been happening.

My daughter, though only 7/8 at the time, was a mature speaker. She gave her side of the events and was sent back to her class. The 3 boys who...

Parents were called and told to come to the school immediately, that their sons were in the principals office and would not leave until 1 of each parent arrived.

When the parents arrived, they were all read the riot act. The boys were suspended from lunch and recess for a month.

They were advised that if they approached my daughter, they could look for another school. All teachers were advised of the situation and to immediately stop everything if my daughter...

My daughter rounded a corner during lunch. She saw the 3 boys, and the centre one stood to approach her. The other two grabbed his arms and physically dragged him...

My daughter turned and went back the way she came. She did not want to escalate.

Many people who lived through school bullying might recognize that same moment of snapping when enough is enough.

sashmii − Good for you. I once pushed a kid who was bullying me down, he fell on his b__t and cried. He also left me alone after that.

sugarintheboots − Way to go!!

Goobersita − Good job! I'm glad your dad did the right thing and taught you properly!

mydefaultisfuckoff − Haha, this sounds like my sister. My dad told me ahead of time that she might punch a guy who'd been harassing her (she's only a couple years...

and sure enough I get called down to help calm her down and the little brat had a busted nose.

My dad got there and was having the time of his life cussing our that boy's parents out.

My dad's not a small man by any means, so it was kinda fun to watch. She got in school suspension for a week and wasn't bothered or harassed again

While the applause feels justified, the bigger question remains about how schools and parents should intervene before violence becomes the only option.

eghhge − Good for you. In sixth grade I was leaving school and just outside the entrance my younger sister was sitting on top of a kid in my class...

We used to call my sister the wolverine as she was tiny but fierce as hell, no stopping her once she got a hold of you. I asked her what...

poke-hipster − YAAASSS QUEEN I support violence in self-defense! Reminds me of a similar story, but I was MUCH younger.

When I was in preschool, there was a boy who followed me around and kept pushing me and stealing my toys.

One time I went to the playground monitor in tears with bloody elbows from where I hit the ground, and she looked at me and said I needed to learn...

So one day, when he tried to steal my toy truck, I did was any reasonable four year old would do: I bit him.

I bit him, and I did not let go. I wound up holding his arm in place while I chomped down like a pitbull. It took two playground monitors to...

and I remember him screaming, "I'm gonna tell my mom! " You know what I don't remember? Facing any consequences. So, I guess my parents supported my impulses at that...

Mammoth_Dragonfly657 − I love this for you. I wish I'd learned this stuff as a girl instead of having to wait until I was grown. Hold on to this confidence...

Are these comments pure gold or just vigilante fan club?

The fight in the canteen became a turning point, not just for her but for the entire school. It forced everyone to confront the reality that “boys will be boys” excuses do not protect victims.

While her methods were extreme, they were born from desperation after adults failed to act.

Was she right to unleash her full strength, or should she have stopped after the first strike? The answer depends on how one views justice. What is certain is that her decision to fight back ensured she was never humiliated by that bully again.

And in a world where too many victims are told to stay quiet, her story stands as both a warning and an inspiration.

 

Sunny Nguyen

Sunny Nguyen

Sunny Nguyen writes for DailyHighlight.com, focusing on social issues and the stories that matter most to everyday people. She’s passionate about uncovering voices and experiences that often go unheard, blending empathy with insight in every article. Outside of work, Sunny can be found wandering galleries, sipping coffee while people-watching, or snapping photos of everyday life - always chasing moments that reveal the world in a new light.

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