Marriage is about support, at least, that’s what most people expect. But one Reddit user admitted he couldn’t muster any excitement when his wife achieved something she’d put on hold for nearly a decade: her GED.
Instead of celebrating with her, he shrugged it off as “no big deal.” Now, Reddit is tearing into him for belittling her effort, especially since she’s been raising five kids almost back-to-back.
One man barely acknowledged his wife’s excitement over passing her GED, calling it “easy” and “no big deal,” upsetting her for dismissing her hard work after years of parenting sacrifices
Dismissing a GED as “no big deal” overlooks what it actually represents. The GED (General Educational Development test) is recognized as a high school equivalency diploma across the U.S.
According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, adults with a high school diploma or GED earn, on average, $200 more per week than those without one, and have substantially lower unemployment rates.
Beyond the paycheck, the GED opens doors to higher education, vocational training, and career opportunities that otherwise would be closed.
The American Council on Education, which oversees the GED program, emphasizes that it’s the gateway credential for more than 20 million Americans who use it to access college or career programs (GED Testing Service).
From a psychological perspective, experts highlight that adult learners face unique barriers, balancing caregiving, work, and studies. Achieving a GED in those circumstances builds self-efficacy, which research links to increased motivation and life satisfaction (NCBI).
For someone raising five young children while recovering from a difficult pregnancy, passing the exam is a meaningful step toward reclaiming personal goals.
Here’s what people had to say to OP:
These Reddit users slammed his lack of enthusiasm, urging a celebration
This group criticized his job privilege and wife’s sacrifices
Some commenters called his “easy” comment dismissive
One user emphasized basic support
Another highlighted the GED’s career value
And this couple saw controlling undertones
The overwhelming consensus: OP failed at the easiest test of all, being supportive. While he dismissed the GED as “nothing,” commenters pointed out that to his wife, it was everything: a symbol of independence, progress, and pride.
The internet’s advice? Apologize, celebrate her, and start respecting the sacrifices she’s made. But what do you think? Share your opinion down below!
