Daily Highlight
  • MOVIE
  • TV
  • CELEB
  • ENTERTAINMENT
  • MCU
  • DISNEY
  • About US
Daily Highlight
No Result
View All Result

Manager Demands Last-Minute Setup, Gets A Harsh Reminder Of His Own Policy

by Leona Pham
November 6, 2025
in Social Issues

We’ve all had those moments where you feel like you’re constantly fighting an uphill battle against last-minute demands. For an IT/AV team, it became a recurring issue until they implemented a policy that required proper notice for events. When a senior manager, Bill, ignored the rules for his own event, the team refused to budge and it cost him dearly.

By sticking to the policy they had all agreed on, the team didn’t just avoid extra stress; they delivered a much-needed lesson to Bill about respecting the boundaries everyone had signed off on.

An IT/AV team, following a policy requiring 5 business days’ notice for events, refuses upper management’s last-minute request for a 600-person event

Manager Demands Last-Minute Setup, Gets A Harsh Reminder Of His Own Policy
not the actual photo

'"This is a reminder that you approved this policy and agreed to abide by it"?'

I work in a combined IT / AV department for a somewhat large organization, so if there are any events going on, we're responsible for setting it up,

which usually involves setting up sound systems, projectors and cameras, and ensuring that when someone plugs in their laptop, it functions as expected.

For years, we got a lot of last minute requests. Some of them were literally along the lines of "we're having a gathering tomorrow with 300 people.

We need audio and projectors set up for 9am tomorrow and for you to advance the slides for us,

plus this video in my PowerPoint Presentation doesn't work can you fix it up?

We know you leave work in half an hour, but can you set it up? We knew about this for weeks but nobody thought to tell you"

So one day we complained to our manager, who agreed it was b__lshit and asked us to draft a policy

that he could take to upper management and get them to sign off on.

We did, and it was very straightforward: You need to give at least 5 business days notice for events,

presentations/media must be finalized and playable without internet access (one less thing to go wrong)

and you're responsible for advancing the slides because we're there to fix computer issues, not read your script and press buttons.

Our manager took it to upper management, who agreed it was a good idea, and they signed off on it and it was distributed to all staff.

We had some people slip up, but they were held accountable and promised to not do it again.

One day someone from upper management emailed us. Let's call him Bill.

Bill was holding an event for 600 people with a guest speaker (who had to be booked weeks in advance).

The guest would need their laptop connected to the internet because they had YouTube videos, the projector set up

and wireless microphones set up because they'd hand mics around for people to participate.

The speaker was due to speak Monday morning, and it was Thursday lunchtime.

Plenty of time to set it up, but less than the 5 business days notice, plus we were double booked by someone who followed the rules,

so we said no, even though he was upper management.

Bill was not happy. He demanded to know why we were refusing to set things up when there was at least 12 working hours between now and the event,

and all that was required was to power on the projector, turn on the mixer

and turn on the microphones and then set up the person's laptop when they arrived Monday.

Our manager heard his complaints and sent him an email:

"Dear Bill, my team have said no to setting up for this event, and I support their decision.

Attached is the policy on event support. This is a reminder that you approved this policy and agreed to abide by it.

Attached are general instructions on how to set things up yourself, best of luck."

Bill managed to run the event without us, but he had to do a lot of running around and had a bunch of technical issues that interrupted the event.

But at least he learned that if you sign off on the rules, you need to abide by the rules, because he hasn't slipped up since.

When the IT team was faced with a last-minute request from upper management, they knew they had to stand firm on the policy they had worked so hard to implement.

The poster worked in a small IT/AV department, responsible for setting up technical aspects of events. Over time, they had become increasingly frustrated with last-minute requests that often led to rushed work and long hours.

To address this, the team introduced a policy requiring at least five business days’ notice for any event requiring technical support. This was meant to ensure that they had enough time to properly prepare and avoid unnecessary stress.

The policy was approved by upper management, and the team expected it to be followed by all employees.

However, when Bill, a senior manager, requested technical assistance for a large event just a few days before it was scheduled, the team had to turn him down. Although the event was important, Bill had failed to follow the policy. The team, already booked for the day, could not accommodate him, despite his insistence that they could handle it in time.

Instead of bending the rules, the manager sent Bill a polite reminder of the policy he had signed off on, along with a guide for setting things up himself. Bill, frustrated, had to run the event without the team’s help and faced several technical difficulties that could have been avoided had he adhered to the policy.

This story highlights the value of standing by your rules, especially when they were designed to ensure smooth operations and fairness. As Dr. David Maxfield, organizational behavior expert, notes, “When policies are clearly defined and consistently enforced, it strengthens team trust and reduces confusion.”

The decision to uphold the policy not only prevented burnout but also sent a clear message about the importance of respecting boundaries. It begs the question: in situations where rules are in place, should there be room for flexibility, even for upper management, or is it important to always hold firm?

Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

These commenters highlighted the value of having a supportive manager who has your back

real_crankopotamus − A manager who has your back is worth their weight in gold.

Unsolicitedadvice13 − Like how easy is it to send you an email the minute they confirm the event?

Saves you running around and saves them embarrassment of not having it done properly??

laydeemayhem − I'm having flashbacks to working Tech/AV for conferences

When I was in my first month working as a trainee for a massive conference centre I was scheduled to work alone for an internal meeting

(my manager was a real piece of s__t), and 5 minutes before it started the CEO of the company asked me to set up a lapel mic for him.

No such mic had been requested on the call sheet, and the room they were kept in was 10 mins walk away at the other end of the building.

Baby tech me had to straight up say no to the CEO's face. Somehow I kept my job, but my manager reamed me out for 'not going the extra mile'.

Not sure how I was meant to bend time, make the 20 mins journey there and back, set up and test a mic in ~5 mins but there you go....

This group emphasized the importance of clear communication and setting boundaries

bignosedaussie − “A lack of planning by you does not constitute an emergency for me”

NairobiMuzungu − Learning the hard way is very effective, but one does not want to learn this way very often.

The-CerlingCat − Your boss is a cool guy, I see a lot of post where management is terrible,

but we find that it was actually a guy setting up an event who was terrible. That’s cool

These Redditors shared experiences in the IT and AV world, stressing the importance of preparing ahead of time

TheLightingGuy − I hate to ask this but as the IT person with a very heavy A/V background,

do you just so happen to have a copy of that policy that I can fine tune for my own needs?

[Reddit User] − This feels like it could have backfired on you guys by a lot.

Someone presumably untrained being able to somewhat do your job. I'm glad he learned.

Tubist61 − We have something similar at the moment with a return to the office.

Before the lockdown occurred, we were asked to work out butts off to ensure

that we could switch work from the office to home working, just in case nobody could get to the office.

We got everything worked out and the company instituted a test where we all worked at home for a week to make sure everything was functioning.

We were pleased (and a little surprised) to see everything work faultlessly.

Even Teams meetings were less stressful when you weren't battling for bandwidth on the office LAN and Corporate WAN.

We got a serious amount of praise and kudos for delivering this in a short timeframe.

As things panned out we never went back after that first week of testing, the government here instituted a lockdown and that was it.

I've not been in the office since March 2020. Now we have senior managers pushing for everyone to be back in the office,

I guess it's all down to seeing the drones at their desks and the fact they took the chance to remodel the office buildings

while everyone was out of the various sites.

The problem is, we all now see just how efficient it can be working from home.

I can go get a coffee whenever I want and don't have to go and queue in the coffee shop over the road,

I can organise my day around me and my wife, take a longer lunch and still fit my work hours in around me.

I don't have the commute and the traffic and I don't have to pay restaurant prices for my lunch in the staff restaurant.

I have a great connection back to the office over the VPN and I have a better mobile phone signal at home that I do in the office.

Why would I want to go back? Here's where it gets fun.

We don't need to be hands on with the servers, the senior managers created a hardware specialist team to do that.

We don't need to be on site for client meetings, the sales and client relationship teams do that.

We always hear the senior managers going on about how we are a global team and how technology brings us together,

so when they start demanding we all go back into the office, then are getting a push back and our team manager is one of those pushing back the hardest.

This is because he probably lives furthest out and has the worst commute of us all, but at the moment,

he says there is no evidence the office is safe from COVID and that we are all safer staying home to protect ourselves and the company.

The directors are fuming but can't do anything about it, meanwhile,

we are all applying to be permanent homeworkers and have the evidence to show we can be just as productive when we do.

CttCJim − Oh man I was recently working at a construction company and they called me to help with a meeting.

There's a guy from Microsoft there with an AR hard hat, and he wants the hat's output to go from his weird laptop to our projectors.

I could not believe that he was so clueless about his own requirements.

I tried to get it working while upper management stood around awkwardly but had to give up.

These commenters discussed how well-defined policies and expectations

admiralfilgbo − media must be finalized and playable without internet access good for you for getting that one through.

I would also include: media to be projected (or shared in Zoom) must be in widescreen format.

(people just love submitting Word docs or. PDFs in portrait mode, then get mad when no one can read what's on the slides.)

Any speakers who will be using a microphone must check in with one of the AV staff.

(This gives the staff member a chance to give a 30 second rundown on how to hold a mic.

So many presenters hold them around their belly area and then get mad that no one can hear them.) All docs, once submitted, are considered final.

(it can get really confusing when there's six docs floating around called prez. ppt and prezfinal.

ppt and prezfinalnothisone. ppt and prezfinalnoTHISone. ppt, etc.),

people complain, but these types of rules are basically for the benefit of THEIR presentations, not to make AV/IT work easier.

LiberateMainSt − I'm in IT and whenever I go through my onboarding presentation with new employees,

I strongly emphasize that "your emergency is not my emergency". I.e.

If you wait until 5 minutes before your big presentation to ask for my help to set up, you'll find I'm out to lunch.

(And yes, some people have waited until 5 minutes before...)

archbish99 − A story on the opposite end of a policy requiring enough notice...

I had a situation where I was hosting an event in another office and needed a particular WiFi config in place for the event.

I filed a ticket several months in advance, because I assumed they would need time to customize things.

The ticket was closed -- too far in advance to make a temporary setup, resubmit a month before the event.

So a month before the event, I dutifully filed another ticket referencing the previous one, requesting guest WiFi access and the configuration we needed.

The ticket was closed with a link to our standard guest WiFi arrangements and an assurance that it would meet our requirements.

Thankfully, I decided to arrive in town the end of the week before the event, because wouldn't you know it,

the WiFi was the ordinary guest WiFi not configured the way I'd requested.

So I filed another ticket on Friday morning, high priority, pointed to the previous two tickets and said it absolutely had to be done by Monday morning.

Closed again -- too little notice for a custom network config, so sorry.

I reopened the ticket, got the tech handling it on the phone, and pointed out that I'd given them three months' notice

and it was not my fault they'd sat on their hands in the meantime.

And to add to it, the person I was talking to was the same one who had resolved the second ticket.

They worked late on Friday night (and I was there, too, helping test) and couldn't figure it out.

Didn't help that network management was not on site in that office, but a few timezones away.

Saturday, they messaged and said they thought they had it working, so I came back to the office to test.

It worked, and the meeting came off nicely, but I'm so glad I chose to get in early instead of trusting things would be in place...

This group reflected on the attitude of some higher-ups who seem to think they’re above the rules

PabloPaniello − This feels like Part 1 of Bill's malicious compliance story where he gleefully recounts making ya'll work holidays

or not paying ya'll a bonus because of some technical nonsense that had no need to be enforced...

BorgClanZulu − Ahhh yes… the old “I am an exec and thus am above the rules” philosophy

The IT team’s decision to enforce the policy, despite being asked for an exception, shows the importance of accountability in the workplace.

If you’ve ever had a situation where you were asked to bend the rules, what did you do? Should the team have handled Bill’s request differently, or did they play their cards just right? Share your thoughts below!

Leona Pham

Leona Pham

Hi, I'm Leona. I'm a writer for Daily Highlight and have had my work published in a variety of other media outlets. I'm also a New York-based author, and am always interested in new opportunities to share my work with the world. When I'm not writing, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. Thanks for reading!

Related Posts

This Husband Throws Away Empty Soap Dispensers After His Wife Refuses to Refill Them – Is He the One at Fault?
Social Issues

This Husband Throws Away Empty Soap Dispensers After His Wife Refuses to Refill Them – Is He the One at Fault?

3 months ago
Family Dinner Drama: Cousin Refuses to Eat Cook’s Lasagna After a Ingredient Trick
Social Issues

Family Dinner Drama: Cousin Refuses to Eat Cook’s Lasagna After a Ingredient Trick

6 days ago
Company Promotes Him Without Benefits, Then Panics When He Uses His Real PTO
Social Issues

Company Promotes Him Without Benefits, Then Panics When He Uses His Real PTO

2 weeks ago
Roommates Stopped Pulling Their Weight – So We Took Everything, Even the Toilet Paper (Petty Revenge Level: Expert)
Social Issues

Roommates Stopped Pulling Their Weight – So We Took Everything, Even the Toilet Paper (Petty Revenge Level: Expert)

3 months ago
Girlfriend Couldn’t Find Florida (or Australia) on a Map – Boyfriend’s Shock Sparks Drama
Social Issues

Girlfriend Couldn’t Find Florida (or Australia) on a Map – Boyfriend’s Shock Sparks Drama

2 months ago
Husband Refuses to Replace Wife’s $600 Hat, Blaming Her ‘Silly People Pleasing’
Social Issues

Husband Refuses to Replace Wife’s $600 Hat, Blaming Her ‘Silly People Pleasing’

2 weeks ago

TRENDING

Winona Ryder Provides 1980s Fact-Checks On Stranger Things, Altering The Scripts If Needed
ENTERTAINMENT

Winona Ryder Provides 1980s Fact-Checks On Stranger Things, Altering The Scripts If Needed

by Julianne Walters
April 17, 2024
0

...

Read more
Woman Was Left Off The Wedding Guest List—Now She’s Being Shamed For Not Sending A Gift
Social Issues

Woman Was Left Off The Wedding Guest List—Now She’s Being Shamed For Not Sending A Gift

by Annie Nguyen
August 7, 2025
0

...

Read more
Woman Asks Husband For A Small Balloon, He Shows Up With The Sweetest Valentine Surprise
Social Issues

Woman Asks Husband For A Small Balloon, He Shows Up With The Sweetest Valentine Surprise

by Layla Bui
November 16, 2025
0

...

Read more
Mom Doubts Son’s Illness, Risks Rift Over Sister’s Health Needs
Social Issues

Mom Doubts Son’s Illness, Risks Rift Over Sister’s Health Needs

by Marry Anna
September 21, 2025
0

...

Read more
Groom Tells Best Friend To “Man Up” Before Wedding—Regrets It When He Doesn’t Show Up
Social Issues

Groom Tells Best Friend To “Man Up” Before Wedding—Regrets It When He Doesn’t Show Up

by Annie Nguyen
July 22, 2025
0

...

Read more




Daily Highlight

© 2024 DAILYHIGHLIGHT.COM

Navigate Site

  • About US
  • Contact US
  • Terms of Service
  • Privacy Policy
  • DMCA
  • Cookie Policy
  • ADVERTISING POLICY
  • Corrections Policy
  • SYNDICATION
  • Editorial Policy
  • Ethics Policy
  • Fact Checking Policy
  • Sitemap

Follow Us

No Result
View All Result
  • MOVIE
  • TV
  • CELEB
  • ENTERTAINMENT
  • MCU
  • DISNEY
  • About US

© 2024 DAILYHIGHLIGHT.COM