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Ex Wanted the Car In The Divorce, He Let Her Have It Until The Repo Truck Arrived

by Layla Bui
November 9, 2025
in Social Issues

They say revenge is best served cold, but sometimes it comes with an engine revving and tires squealing. After being cheated on and disrespected, one dad handled his breakup with calm precision. He took custody of his son, gave his ex the car she demanded, and quietly rebuilt his life.

Months later, when debt collectors came calling for her missed payments, he didn’t yell or gloat, he simply handed over her address. Within hours, the car was gone, and she was livid.

His response? A simple reminder that bills, like consequences, eventually catch up. Keep scrolling to see why readers couldn’t stop cheering for this man’s perfectly measured act of poetic justice.

A devoted dad catches his cheating wife in the act, seizes full custody, and tips the repo man to tow her divorce-awarded car

Ex Wanted the Car In The Divorce, He Let Her Have It Until The Repo Truck Arrived
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'I got the kid permanently you go the car. Temporarily?'

I'll make it short. GF gets pregnant. Do the 'right' thing and stick by her. We have the kid

She starts going out all the time and we'd occasionally get calls at the house by guys looking for her.

I knew she was cheating but didn't really care. I was just there to make sure the kid was well taken care of.

Get a new job out of state and hoping that being there away from her bar friends will make us closer. Nope.

She finds a new boyfriend quick. Tries to hide it but she sucks at lying and hiding things.

Again, no care from me. By now my kid and I are very bonded

and even at 18 months, it's obvious he doesn't much car for her either.

Came home from a trip. Can't find my kid.

Walk into my bedroom and there she and her boyfriend are having a nice little romp.

Now this was in the days before cell phones and we lived on the third floor

so there was no escaping the bedroom without coming through the living room

so I just said 'when you two are done I'll be in the living room' and walked out.

Three hours and a lot of whispering later they emerge.

Walk the guy to the parking lot and explain to him I'm not mad at him but be decent

and don't f__k in my house anymore and stay out of my beer. Go back upstairs, tell her to go get my son.

Next day I get a new apartment and move out in 3 hours while she was at boyfriends house and took the kid.

Day after I filed for divorce and got full custody which I won full after two years of legal wrangling.

Granted child support was jack s__t but it paid for beer for the next 18 years. I supported my kid.

I never raised it on her because I'm a decent guy but it was fun rubbing it in her face

when she got out of line that I spent it on frivolous stuff for myself

and bought him all of his clothes, toys, food, etc, out of my own pocket.

It always made her fume for a few days.

(in hindsight, I should have put it into a savings account for him but we all make mistakes in life)

Now I had purchased her a Toyota Accord before we moved

that we shared but in the divorce, she wanted the car which I gladly gave her.

Then I moved back to my state, in with my parents, and started life over.

A few months go by and I start getting calls at work from the credit company demanding payment that was overdue.

I explained numerous times that the vehicle was legally hers now and I would not be paying.

Most of these guys were a-holes but one day a very low key guy called

and said 'Look we're just trying to work something out because we can't locate her'.

'Oh well why didn't you say so. Here's where she's living.

The plate number is XXXXXXX and I have it on good authority she is home right now (she didn't have a job)'.

About three hours later my phone rings and it's her and she is PISSED

asking me if I told them where the car was because they just repo'd and towed it.

'Yep' I say with a smug grin 'something you need to learn is

if you don't pay your bills, you don't get to keep your stuff.

By the way my lawyer is paid off. How is yours doing?' click That was a great day.

Edit: Thanks for all the positive responses. I'm no 'hero' or 'great dad'.

Just a dude that did what it took to take care of his kid through life and do what it took to give him a good one.

Parents that say they 'sacrifice' for their kids disgust me.

Sure there was a lot of s__t I could have bought, done, gone to, etc,

if I wasn't supporting him but taking care of him was a lot more rewarding and fun.

The ONLY bad time we had was when I tried to coach him in T ball.

He's always been the laid back type and I'm way too competitive.

He didn't like baseball and after that season we agreed that I needed to stay away from practices etc

if he got involved in something of interest.

Yes it was a HONDA Accord. Come on people that was 30 years ago. For you doubters this story is 100% true.

I still have the paperwork and documentation, including the deposition transcript.

For you hateful people that just want to be a reddit d__k?

It must be sad to be such a pathetic person. You have my pity.

We often imagine heartbreak as something loud, with tears, fights, and explosive endings. But sometimes, the deepest heartbreaks are quiet.

OP’s story reflects that kind of stillness, the moment when emotion gives way to endurance. His decision to stay after discovering betrayal wasn’t about denial; it was about protection.

He redirected his pain into purpose, anchoring himself in fatherhood when the relationship itself was sinking.

Psychologists often describe this as adaptive emotional regulation, choosing calm over chaos when control feels lost.

According to Dr. Robert Enright, a developmental psychologist from the University of Wisconsin, people who reframe betrayal into meaning-driven action often cope better long term.

OP did just that. Instead of retaliating, he turned his focus to giving his son stability, channeling energy from anger into responsibility.

Still, beneath that composure lay something deeply human: wounded pride, disappointment, and the quiet ache of unacknowledged love. His restraint when walking in on his girlfriend’s infidelity wasn’t emotional detachment; it was a survival instinct.

As Dr. Harriet Lerner, author of The Dance of Anger, explains, calm isn’t the absence of feeling; it’s choosing not to hand your power to the person who hurt you.

When OP later helped facilitate the repossession of his ex’s car, it wasn’t cruelty; it was closure. His actions symbolized a moral balance: responsibility rewarded, irresponsibility exposed. It was his way of restoring order after years of being undermined.

Behavioral researchers at Stanford University note that moral vindication, when not driven by revenge, can restore one’s sense of justice and self-worth. That’s exactly what happened here.

Ultimately, OP’s story is less about revenge than about quiet recovery. His decisions came from duty, not spite; from pain transformed into protection. The emotions behind them, hurt, pride, love, reveal a man who learned that dignity sometimes means walking away, not winning.

Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

These commenters applauded OP for turning the tables on irresponsible ex-partners, sharing their own stories of justice served through karma or persistence

thresholdofadventure − Since my ex and I divorced (due to his cheating),

I constantly get calls from collection agencies looking for him.

Considering he hasn’t paid child support, tuition, or anything else for the kids in years

(and still sees them regularly), I’m only too happy to give his new number and address to each one.

And, his new wife’s info, too (the one he cheated on me with).

LongNectarine3 − I left 2 houses and a piece of land just to get full custody of the kids.

A pittance of a settlement to get him to sign away any more than visitation rights.

Only he forgot I was the one paying on the house and working with the renter

in the other to pay rent when he could so I could pay that mortgage etc.

Took him a year, after my dumb ass had to keep paying so I could get my kids,

to lose one of the houses to foreclosure. Simply delicious.

farr12c − My kids are in their mid-twenties and I still get random cheques for when the government routes

his benefits to me. Dude is going to pay child support until he dies and no I won't give it up.

I needed help and he laughed in my face when I asked for four f__king dollars to buy a loaf of bread

and jug of milk to feed my kids. Makes me chuckle every time I get a random cheque.

This group shared personal anecdotes about debt collectors chasing the wrong people

mattromo − Ha, that last part of the story was similar to something that happened to me.

My older sister moved out at 16, but often still put my parents' address on legal forms.

(She moved often so there might be a legit reason, but also would not put it past her to do so for not legit reasons.)

Every so often we would get creditors calling our landline to look for my sister and most would stop calling

when we would tell them she doesnt live here and hasnt for years.

One creditor kept calling and getting more and more aggressive.

He then went over the top threatening me, saying that he will call the police on me if I didn't put my sister on the phone.

It just so happens I had a job adjacent to the law so I knew enough to know his threat

as BS and also that his constant calling and threat could be considered criminal harassment.

So after he was done ranting I threatened him myself and said if he ever called here again,

I would be the one the calling police and hung up.

About two minutes later the phone rings again and I am about to go off on this guy.

Turns out its the first guys manager, who apologizes and explains that they are actually looking for my sister's ex-husband,

who leased a car, stopped paying but they cannot find him.

Then he offers me and my sister $2,000 if we can track him down.

After I get off the phone I call her, but alas my sister had done such a good job ditching

this guy we were unable to cash in on the $2,000.

mermaidpaint − I had a roommate "Bea" that had an aggressive Visa collector on her tail.

When I moved out, I kept the phone number - the bill was in my name.

I kept getting calls from Visa,even though I explained I no longer lived with her. N__ty Visa Agent didn't care.

Bea called me about six months later, she needed me to write a letter, she needed it for some funding.

She gave me her new address and work number so I could drop it off (this was 1992).

A few weeks later, N__ty Visa Agent called again.

I gleefully shared Bea's new contact info, and the Visa collector dropped

the aggressive tone of voice and was quite pleasant for once.

SoVeryKerry − Husband bought a 1984 Cougar and I worked just to make the payment — $325 mo.

In 1984 that was an ungodly car payment. We split up and he kept the car.

Of course I stopped paying on it, but three months later the bank is after me

because he thought he could not pay the note, move in with his girlfriend and have an unknown address.

I looked in the Yellow Pages and found a private detective, paid him $35 and he found my husband and the car.

He was in the next county over, out in the sticks and that guy never figured out how the repo man found him.

These Redditors offered emotional support and empathy, recognizing OP’s strength as a parent

HellBoundWhiskeyBent − Good for you homie. I wouldn't have been able to react so calmly.

You're a decent dude. Don't let anyone ever tell you different

BadLatinaKitty − Thank you for doing right by your kid. Our mother got custody of us (lying about my dad)

and would abandon us to go drinking with her boyfriend all night, every night.

She moved him into the house within 3 months of kicking my dad out

(even though you need to be legally separated for one year to get a divorce here;

yes, she was cheating beforehand but my dad tried to work it out).

She always chose her boyfriend above us, even when he sat there laughing at and calling my youngest brother

(in elementary school) “too fat to play soccer” (as an angry teen,

I did cuss him out for doing so and hot food was promptly dumped onto me from the dinner table

while my mom cried that I just didn’t want her to be happy).

When I could legally decide where I wanted to live at 16, I left to be with my dad.

She ended up marrying the guy when we were adults, and I went no contact. Best decision ever.

Anywho, that was a tangent, but I am proud of you.

You’re awesome! I hope your kid sees and appreciates what you did for him.

This pair added lighthearted humor, making small, playful comments about the story’s details and title confusion

Impossible-Bag-6745 − I didn't know toyota made accords... I though that was Honda lol good story though

baleee8 − Oh, you goT the car temporarily :D I am not very proud of the time

I spent trying to understand the title :D On the content! Good job sir!

So, would you have done the same? Or would you have been tempted to rub that repossession in just a little more?

Layla Bui

Layla Bui

Hi, I’m Layla Bui. I’m a lifestyle and culture writer for Daily Highlight. Living in Los Angeles gives me endless energy and stories to share. I believe words have the power to question the world around us. Through my writing, I explore themes of wellness, belonging, and social pressure, the quiet struggles that shape so many of our lives.

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